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mamadeux19mamadeux19 member
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Hi ladies!

When I was 8 weeks pregnant, I started having slight Brown spotting the day before my first ultrasound. I knew something wasn't right. During my ultrasound no fetus was able to be detected. About an hour later I started bleeding and that's when my natural miscarriage happened. It was traumatic and heartbreaking. Because I had a blighted ovum, the doc told us that we could start TTC as soon as the bleeding stopped. The bleeding stopped 3 weeks ago and we started shortly thereafter. I am happy to be surrounded by other moms that have experienced loss, because many of my friends don't understand.

Thanks for letting me be a part of this board!
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  • rubysirubysi member
    Welcome. I am sorry for your loss.

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  • nikiswimrnikiswimr member
    I'm sorry for your loss, welcome to the board.
    Me: 32 DH: 32
    Met: 4/25/2004, Married 8/14/2010
    Off BC 1/2013 TTC (actively) since 5/2013
    5/2014 started testing with RE, me:  HSG normal, normal AMH, no cysts; DH: great sperm
    Unexplained IF + unexplained anovulation (post-pill vs hypothalamic)

    7/2014 Clomid (monitored) + TI: BFN
    8/2014 Clomid (monitored) + TI: BFP #1: 9/12/2014, EDD 5/22/2015, MMC 10/11/2014 8w1d
    11/2014 Clomid + Novarel + IUI 12/5/14: BFFN
    12/2014 Comid + Novarel + IUI 1/3/15: ???

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  • rslh10rslh10 member
    Welcome, I'm so sorry for your loss.
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    Hubs & I -29 • Met 5/18/04 • Married 5/8/10
    BFP #1 DS 2/7/11 (Born @ 34 wks via ECS due to Pre-e) TTC #2 since Aug '13
    DX Low AMH (.58) March '14 • FSH-7.5 • E2-35.5 (Nov '14)
    SA- Great numbers • SIS- Clear (Nov '14)
     Cycle 1- Clomid CD3-7 & Trigger-BFP • EDD 1/12/15 
    Ectopic @ 5w6d • Methotrexate Shot 5/18/14
    Cycle 2,3,4- Clomid CD3-7 & Trigger-- BFN
    Cycle 5- Letrozole CD3-7 & Trigger BFFN
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  • Nikolie93Nikolie93 member
    I'm sorry for your loss but welcome the board and good luck.
    I am not sure how to say this without getting a "solicitation" warning so I guess I just say that I am not longer active on THIS site. 



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  • LittleMrsWLittleMrsW member
    I'm sorry for your loss. Welcome.




    Me-27 DH-29

     TTC#1 January 2013

    BFP February 27th 2014, MMC ended in D&C

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  • mamadeux19mamadeux19 member
    Thank you all so much.
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  • meredithcarolemeredithcarole member
    I am very sorry for your loss. It is hard for people who haven't experienced a MC to really understand it. Welcome.
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    AMA 35 :  DH 33
    BFP#1 1/26/14 (EDD: 10/7/14).  MMC 3/10/14 D&C 3/14/14
    RE Consult 11/3/14 - AMH 2.25 "great" . FSH 7.10 . Low Vitamin D
    Myomectomy 12/17/14.  Benched until March.

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  • catvaughn5002catvaughn5002 member
    Welcome to the board! I'm sorry for your loss.
    Me: 26 DH:28
    TTC - Sept 2014
    # 1 BFP - October 5, 2014 EDD June 5, 2015 CP - October 14, 2014


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  • lcwedlcwed member
    I'm sorry for your loss.  I am currently miscarrying a Blighted Ovum and will find out our next TTC steps at my follow-up appt.  So glad you guys are able to try again.
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    DD 3/29/12
                      BFP 6/4/14 ~ MMC 7/7/14 ~ D&C 7/15/14            
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  • MonaBea28MonaBea28 member
    Welcome and so sorry for your loss. I just recently miscarried a blighted ovum as well and was cleared to TTCAL in 1-2 months (after a negative HPT and then one normal period). Hope to be off the bench with you soon!
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    BFP 11/27/14, Blighted ovum suspected 12/22/14, confirmation of MMC and Cytotec 1/2/15
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  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] member
    I'm sorry for your loss.  Welcome
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  • mamadeux19mamadeux19 member
    lcwed said:

    I'm sorry for your loss.  I am currently miscarrying a Blighted Ovum and will find out our next TTC steps at my follow-up appt.  So glad you guys are able to try again.

    Are you going to move forward with a natural miscarriage? I'm sorry for your loss as well. They told me that the risk of a blighted ovum again on the next pregnancy is extremely low.
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  • rmpar29rmpar29 member
    I'm very sorry for your loss. Welcome. 
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     BFP - 10/18/2012, EDD - 6/26/2013, Baby Girl lost at 22 weeks (T21), D&E 2/15/2013
    BFP - 4/23/2014, EDD - 1/2/2015 Twin Boys lost at 12 weeks, M/C 6/25/2014
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  • mamadeux19mamadeux19 member
    MonaBea28 said:

    Welcome and so sorry for your loss. I just recently miscarried a blighted ovum as well and was cleared to TTCAL in 1-2 months (after a negative HPT and then one normal period). Hope to be off the bench with you soon!

    Have you had a negative HPT yet? One doc said try right away and the other said to wait until after my period for dating purposes.
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  • MellyMel15MellyMel15 member
    I'm sorry for your loss. I also lost my baby around 8 weeks (although the baby had stopped developing around 6 1/2 weeks, unbeknownst to me). It was a missed miscarriage and I opted for a D&C. 

    It's the hardest and worst thing I've ever been through. The women on this board have helped me tremendously, and I hope you find comfort and support here too. A lot of my friends in real life don't understand what I'm going through either— no one really does until they experience one. 
    * Me: 31, DH: 33 * Married 10.16.10 * Parents of our furbaby Sophie *
    BFP: 8.28.14 | EDD 5.6.15 | MMC Discovered 9.25.14 (8 weeks)| D&C 9.30.14

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  • mamadeux19mamadeux19 member
    MellyMel15 said:

    I'm sorry for your loss. I also lost my baby around 8 weeks (although the baby had stopped developing around 6 1/2 weeks, unbeknownst to me). It was a missed miscarriage and I opted for a D&C. 


    It's the hardest and worst thing I've ever been through. The women on this board have helped me tremendously, and I hope you find comfort and support here too. A lot of my friends in real life don't understand what I'm going through either— no one really does until they experience one. 
    I'm so sorry for your loss. I have noticed the support here and I'm so grateful for it.
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  • jordangoodnightjordangoodnight member
    I'm sorry for your loss. Welcome.
    Me: 24 (hypothyroidism)
    DH:25
    Married June 2012 
    TTC September 2014
    BFP #1 October 17, 2014
    MC #1 October 26, 2014
    Benched 2 cycles (hoping to TTC January) 
    Off the bench as of Jan 2015
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