Every woman loves her man's affection and attention. I love it and truly appreciate my husband.... BUT
Since I have been pregnant (7 weeks) my sexual desire is like GONE. I get irritated with too many kisses, I don't have the desire for intimacy and sex, sometimes I can make myself get in the mood but it just doesn't feel the same as being genuinely turned on. I know my husband is a man and he has needs, so I feel bad when I don't want to. Even when I try to explain, I don't think he fully gets it!!
Anyone else experiencing burnt out sexual desire? Is it normal during pregnancy? If so, why? Help!
Re: My husband is kissing me too much!!!!
Hopefully you can find a balance that makes you both happy but remember it's only temporary.
TTC#1 since May 2012. Low AMH, High FSH.
Factor II (Prothrombin) Mutation
TTGP Award Best PIP 2013 & 2014
My Chart
Me-31, H-27
**Loss 1-Cycle 7(June 2013) at 5w6d-CP**Loss 2-Cycle 11(October 2013) at 5w4d-CP**
**Loss 3-Cycle 14 (January-February 2014)-M/C dx 2/10, EP dx 2/24, MTX 2/25**
Beta Hell--hCG finally down to 0 - 6/20/14
SA normal. Genetic testing normal. Hormonal testing normal.
HSG 6/30/14 - found blocked left tube and 2 'bubbles' on uterine wall.
Hysteroscopy/Lap--8/4/14 - Tubes unblocked. Polyps removed from uterine wall. Septum removed.
9/30/14--Off the bench! Unmedicated TI through December 2014
BFP 12/14/14!!! Beta #1, 12/16: 990 Beta #2, 12/18: Over 2000! Beta #3, 12/22: over 8000!
U/S #1, 12/23: gestational sac, possible heartbeat
U/S #2, 12/30: HEARTBEAT! 128bpm, measuring right on at 7w EDD: 8/19/2015
U/S #3, 1/9: BPM in the 180s, IT'S HAPPENING!!!
This is a difficult transitional time. Try to be patient, and know that it changes. Try to maintain open communication with your DH and keep cuddling! HUGS!
~Ducktapetherapy77
I realize it could have came off the wrong way, but it wasn't meant to harm. I said sometimes sex drives decrease; however, mine increased. I'm not sure how that's harmful.
Honestly, you didn't need to mention your situation at all. OP wasn't really asking for it, it wasn't particularly helpful, and to me it came off as humble-bragging (helpful-bragging?) I'm sure you meant well but you could have worded it a lot better.
TTC#1 since May 2012. Low AMH, High FSH.
Factor II (Prothrombin) Mutation
TTGP Award Best PIP 2013 & 2014
My Chart
Relax. Let it go.