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Coming back here again (living child mentioned)

I'm sad to say that I am coming back to this board.  I had a missed miscarriage in July, discovered at my initial ultrasound and appointment at 8 weeks (only measured 5w6d), followed by a D&C.  I got pregnant again at the end of October and was so relieved to see a heartbeat at my initial ultrasound and appointment right before Thanksgiving.  Baby was measuring right on track at 8w0d and I had a due date of 7/6/15. 

We had been planning to tell our families this week, after my NT scan.  Tonight is the last night of Chanukah and we had gotten a bunch of "big brother" and "new baby" books for our 4-year-old to give him as his last Chanukah gift.  We knew he would be so excited to find out he was going to be a big brother.  He's been asking for a brother or sister for a long time.

Well, I went for my NT scan yesterday and I knew as soon as the ultrasound tech put the scanner on my belly that the image on the screen did not look anywhere as developed as it should have at 12 weeks.  There was no heartbeat and the baby only measured 8w2d.  Baby stopped growing shortly after my previous ultrasound.  DH and I were completely shocked because I have still been having normal pregnancy symptoms and have had no bleeding or cramping at all.  I am having a D&C today.  I go in at 10:30am.

So that's my re-introduction.  I hate that I'm here.  :(
Married to DH since 6/30/2007
Me: 32  DH: 32
BFP #1: 4/1/2010 DS born: 12/3/10
TTC #2 since 5/2014

BFP # 2 : 6/16/14 EDD: 2/25/15  Missed Miscarriage discovered 7/10/14 D&C 7/17/14 Pathology results normal
BFP #3: 10/21/14 EDD: 7/6/15  11/24/14:  Saw heartbeat! 
Missed Miscarriage discovered 12/22/14 at 12w0d D&C 12/23/14 Pathology: Partial Molar Pregnancy/Triploidy
~~Currently benched following PMP~~ 
**all AL welcome**



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Re: Coming back here again (living child mentioned)

  • I"m so so sorry. Take care of yourself today and rest up. So many hugs going your way.
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  • So very sorry for your loss!
    Praying this is our take home baby. STICK TURKEY Mommy will miss you everyday my beautiful angel. We love you Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers M/C on 1/05/11 at 11 weeks.
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  • I am so sorry *hugs* I hope your D&C goes well today
    I am not sure how to say this without getting a "solicitation" warning so I guess I just say that I am not longer active on THIS site. 



  • Thanks, ladies. I'm home from the hospital and settled on the couch. Feeling ok physically. Trying to keep myself distracted watching tv.
    Married to DH since 6/30/2007
    Me: 32  DH: 32
    BFP #1: 4/1/2010 DS born: 12/3/10
    TTC #2 since 5/2014

    BFP # 2 : 6/16/14 EDD: 2/25/15  Missed Miscarriage discovered 7/10/14 D&C 7/17/14 Pathology results normal
    BFP #3: 10/21/14 EDD: 7/6/15  11/24/14:  Saw heartbeat! 
    Missed Miscarriage discovered 12/22/14 at 12w0d D&C 12/23/14 Pathology: Partial Molar Pregnancy/Triploidy
    ~~Currently benched following PMP~~ 
    **all AL welcome**



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    TTCAL January 2015 Siggy Challenge:  Animals in the snow
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  • I am glad that it went ok. be kind to yourself *hug*
    I am not sure how to say this without getting a "solicitation" warning so I guess I just say that I am not longer active on THIS site. 



  • I am so sorry for your loss.
    TTCAL January Siggy Challenge: Animals in the Snow

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    About Me: 

    AMA 35 :  DH 33
    BFP#1 1/26/14 (EDD: 10/7/14).  MMC 3/10/14 D&C 3/14/14
    RE Consult 11/3/14 - AMH 2.25 "great" . FSH 7.10 . Low Vitamin D
    Myomectomy 12/17/14.  Benched until March.

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  • I'm so sorry for your loss.
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    Married 10.03.2014
    TTC the day we were married
    BFP October 2014 - Due 7/2/2015 - MMC discovered 12/1/2014 (D&C)
  • I'm so sorry for your loss.
    Together since April 2004.  Married since June 19th, 2010.
     BFP #1: January 31st 2012: CP. 
     BFP #2: June 1st 2012, Due:2/8/13. Avery was born via unplanned c section on 2/13/13. 
     BFP #3: Sept. 25th, 2014. Due: 6/5/15.  MMC on 10/23/14. Confirmed complete molar pregnancy per D&C 10/29/14, 
    HCG officially negative 12/10/14.  Benched until June 2015.
                                                        
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  • So sorry that you're joining us again hugs!
  • They got some tissue from the D&C so they can test it and see if there are any signs of chromosomal problems that could have caused the miscarriage. I'm hoping that's what it is and that it's just a fluke that I had two missed miscarriages in a row. My doctor said that of the tissue comes back genetically normal, at that point we will talk about additional testing to try to figure out if anything identifiable might be causing these miscarriages.

    I will also be asking for additional monitoring during a future pregnancy. This time I had no extra monitoring (my OB doesn't do anything different after a first miscarriage), so who knows whether my progesterone was low or anything like that. I didn't have any blood work or anything until 8 weeks, and they didn't check progesterone. Next time I am going to was blood work immediately following a BFP.
    Married to DH since 6/30/2007
    Me: 32  DH: 32
    BFP #1: 4/1/2010 DS born: 12/3/10
    TTC #2 since 5/2014

    BFP # 2 : 6/16/14 EDD: 2/25/15  Missed Miscarriage discovered 7/10/14 D&C 7/17/14 Pathology results normal
    BFP #3: 10/21/14 EDD: 7/6/15  11/24/14:  Saw heartbeat! 
    Missed Miscarriage discovered 12/22/14 at 12w0d D&C 12/23/14 Pathology: Partial Molar Pregnancy/Triploidy
    ~~Currently benched following PMP~~ 
    **all AL welcome**



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    TTCAL January 2015 Siggy Challenge:  Animals in the snow
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss. I also had two miscarriages this year, one in October at 6 weeks and the most recent one last week at 10 weeks (baby had stopped growing at 8w2d). I just had my D&E last Friday. Sending you all the hugs in the world right now!
    Me: 28, DH: 33
    Married 10.12.11
     BFP #1: 5.30.12- Giannna, born 1.27.13
    BFP #2: 9.18.14- due 6.1.15 -- natural m/c @ 5w6d 
    BFP #3 11.2.14- due 7.16.14 -- mmc, d&c @ 10w1d

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