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Carebear12303 · January 2015

Carebear12303 · January 2015

Im sorry I didn't mean to get anyone upset. The title of this site says "Success after IF". I am not sure why it was wrong of me to post this here. I am sorry for what you are going through and I will surely pray for you. I believe you are also being a bit rude to me when I haven't even done anything wrong to you. I came on here to share my success story with you all not to be harassed...........I understand that you are upset that you have to spend thousands of dollars on your embryo's for genetic testing and I am so sorry you have to go through that. There are lots of ladies going through different infertility struggles right now and my struggle and your struggle are only two of them. We need to be supportive of all the ladies not just ones with embryo issues.........Yes I believe fertility blend had a little something to do with me having a great cycle in December because of what it did prior to my cycle. It was a big enough change for me to say so along with all the other ladies that I know from an infertility support group who have also gotten bpf;s off of fertility blend. I don't believe fertility blend was the only help with me being able to conceive this cycle I also believe it was my timing which for us (me and my husband) is Gods timing. Again, I apologize for causing an issue on the Success after IF page.............

TJ1979 · January 2015

Congrats on your pregnancy. I'd probably thank your RE more than some fertility blend.
You might find more people in your shoes (pregnant) on PAIF (pregnant after IF). I would recommend editing your story some and making it more of an intro when you head over there.

Carebear12303 · January 2015

Also, I see where your concern is with me bringing up Fertility Blend as it looks like I am marketing it. I do not work for Fertility Blend and as a matter of fact I got the information from a police officer that I know who also struggles with infertility but she has PCOS and it helped her conceive. I am not saying this works for everyone, nor was I telling anyone to try it, I was just telling my story and how I feel about the product now that my husband and I used it for a few months. Its nice that you were concerned, but you were very rude in doing so........

Carebear12303 · January 2015

Thanks TJ. What is this page for then?

TJ1979 · January 2015

Carebear12303 said:
Im sorry I didn't mean to get anyone upset. The title of this site says "Success after IF". I am not sure why it was wrong of me to post this here. I am sorry for what you are going through and I will surely pray for you. I believe you are also being a bit rude to me when I haven't even done anything wrong to you. I came on here to share my success story with you all not to be harassed...........I understand that you are upset that you have to spend thousands of dollars on your embryo's for genetic testing and I am so sorry you have to go through that. There are lots of ladies going through different infertility struggles right now and my struggle and your struggle are only two of them. We need to be supportive of all the ladies not just ones with embryo issues.........Yes I believe fertility blend had a little something to do with me having a great cycle in December because of what it did prior to my cycle. It was a big enough change for me to say so along with all the other ladies that I know from an infertility support group who have also gotten bpf;s off of fertility blend. I don't believe fertility blend was the only help with me being able to conceive this cycle I also believe it was my timing which for us (me and my husband) is Gods timing. Again, I apologize for causing an issue on the Success after IF page.............

I'm sorry you feel like she was being rude. You appear to be new to the bump. Just to help you here, you should know that most boards on the bump are pretty tight knit community groups. Your story was the equivalent of running up to a table of friends in the cafeteria and shaking a pee stick in their face. There are 3 other intros on this page which were all well done. Maybe review those, and you can see where you have gone wrong. Introduce yourself. Say hi. Give support in order to receive support. That's how you make friends (online or in real life.)
Good luck with your pregnancy.

Carebear12303 · January 2015

but Im not understanding what I did wrong. What does Success after IF mean then?????

TJ1979 · January 2015

Carebear12303 said:
Thanks TJ. What is this page for then?

Success after IF is after you have had your LO. Come on back after LO is here. (And do a nice intro.)

Carebear12303 · January 2015

Personally, I think I am being judged by my post, which is wrong. There is no right way to do an intro. Im just going to delete the post. Don't and even bother writing back. All you ladies did was make me feel like a piece of shit. Good bye.

TJ1979 · January 2015

Well, actually there is a right and wrong way. I've been really nice and tried to offer you help so that TB can be a good experience for you. Just so you know, people judge you IRL and online for everything you say and do. You can't stop that. It's also considered poor form to delete a post.

Carebear12303 · January 2015

Well its obviously upsetting people and now you have upset me so id rather just get rid of it.

Carebear12303 · January 2015

Also, I am spearing people's feelings by having it deleted so if someone can tell me how id be more then happy to so I can move on from here.

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