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liznj2775liznj2775 member
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Sorry I haven't gotten this sooner. I'm not one to make a fuss about me, so I tend to just read posts and comment occasionally. I'm not the greatest when it comes to posting, but I hope to do better in the New Year. 

My husband and I were high school sweethearts and best friends. We finally got married 6/23/13 and started TTC 12/13. 2014 started out with great hope, but three MCs later, we are still in the same boat. Another BFN today cemented that for the year. I have been seeing a reproductive specialist who found that one of my blood levels was high which could be causing the MCs, so I will take injections the moment I get a BFP HPT. 

Other than that, we bought our first home in January. Adopted a rescue puppy in August. I work as a Web Designer and Developer. My husband is in Customer Service. Before settling down, I used to work on cruise ships sailing around the world and three years as a Cruise Director on a river boat in China. So, I worked 7 years abroad instead of starting a family, but I never expected this to happen. 

I hope the board will welcome me :)
Met DH 1992. High School Sweethearts. Dated off/on 20+ years. Married 6/23/13. TTC since 12/2013. BFP 1/14/14. EDD 9/14. D&C 2/19/14. BFP 6/25/14. Natural miscarriage. BFP 8/21/14. Cytotec 9/30/14 but did not work enough. D&C 10/8/14.
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  • NOBB14NOBB14 member
    Welcome. So sorry for your losses. Good for you for jumping right in with comments and giving us support! Thank you.
    started TTC 3/2014 & got hitched 4/2014
    husbter's a 38 y/o smarty pants phD/me? a 27 y/o cat lady extraordinaire
    & we're missing our darling barnacles:
    May 2014 loss @ 9 weeks, MMC, no hb found at first appointment | edd dec 4 2014
    October 2014 loss @ 12 weeks, MMC measuring 10w after hearing hb @ 8w | edd apr 15, 2015
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  • liznj2775liznj2775 member
    @NOBB14 Thank you! I really appreciate that :)
    Met DH 1992. High School Sweethearts. Dated off/on 20+ years. Married 6/23/13. TTC since 12/2013. BFP 1/14/14. EDD 9/14. D&C 2/19/14. BFP 6/25/14. Natural miscarriage. BFP 8/21/14. Cytotec 9/30/14 but did not work enough. D&C 10/8/14.
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  • Nikolie93Nikolie93 member
    Hey there, and welcome! I am so sorry for your losses. 

    Your past job sounds so very interesting. I hope you at least enjoyed it while you were doing it! 

    Aaaand, because we love furbabies we I encourage pics! I would love to see pics of your rescue pup :) 
    I am not sure how to say this without getting a "solicitation" warning so I guess I just say that I am not longer active on THIS site. 



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  • catvaughn5002catvaughn5002 member
    Welcome to the board! I'm sorry for your losses. Fingers crossed that 2015 will be a better year for all of us.  I love rescue pups.  You should share his pictures on furbaby friday thread.
    Me: 26 DH:28
    TTC - Sept 2014
    # 1 BFP - October 5, 2014 EDD June 5, 2015 CP - October 14, 2014


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    TTCAL January Siggy Challenge: Animal Interactions in the Snow
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  • LittleDuckyLittleDucky member
    Welcome to the board. I am so sorry for your losses.
    Married to DH since 6/30/2007
    Me: 32  DH: 32
    BFP #1: 4/1/2010 DS born: 12/3/10
    TTC #2 since 5/2014
    BFP # 2 : 6/16/14 EDD: 2/25/15  Missed Miscarriage discovered 7/10/14 D&C 7/17/14 Pathology results normal
    BFP #3    : 10/21/14 EDD: 7/6/15  11/24/14:  Saw heartbeat! 
    Missed Miscarriage discovered 12/22/14 at 12w0d D&C 12/23/14 Pathology: Partial Molar Pregnancy/Triploidy
    ~~Currently benched following PMP~~ 
    **all AL welcome**



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    TTCAL January 2015 Siggy Challenge:  Animals in the snow
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  • CC1017CC1017 member
    Welcome to the board. I'm sorry for your losses. Yay for rescue puppies!
    Lilypie Third Birthday tickers Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers 
    BFP #1 DS born 10/16/12 at 39w6d
    BFP #2 DD lost 11/17/14 at 17w2d
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  • O2girlO2girl member
    Welcome. I'm sorry for your losses. (((((Hugs)))))
    Me: 38
    DX:  Adenomyosis, Compounded MTHFR, PAI-1 4G variant

    DH: 34
    MFI due to Testicular Cancer

    Married March 2012 <3
    IVF w/ICSI #1
    10 little polar bears
    FET #1 with 2 polar bears ~Nov 6, 2013 BFN :(
    FET # 2 with 2 more polar bears ~March 19, 2014 BFP!!!
    Beta 1= 276
    Beta 2= 662
    4/19/14 ~ baby A became an angel
    5/02/14 ~ baby B became an angel
    5/3/14 ~ D&C
    FET #3 with 1 male polar bear ~October 3, 2014
    October 13, 2014 ~ BFN
    Fur Children:  Memphis 3y, Dutch 3y, Marcel 2y, Meadow 1y



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    January 2015 Siggy Challenge TTCAL
    Animals Interacting with Snow

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  • liznj2775liznj2775 member
    @PetraStonegirl Yes, I believe so. I have the test results at home and medicine, so I'll double check. Has to do with needing to thin the blood. Already taking a daily low dose aspirin.

    Thank you all again for the welcomes and the support. My rescue pup is named Monty (we kept his name) and they think he is about 1 1/2 years old. A cocker spaniel, retriever mix. He is all play, play, play! 
    Met DH 1992. High School Sweethearts. Dated off/on 20+ years. Married 6/23/13. TTC since 12/2013. BFP 1/14/14. EDD 9/14. D&C 2/19/14. BFP 6/25/14. Natural miscarriage. BFP 8/21/14. Cytotec 9/30/14 but did not work enough. D&C 10/8/14.
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  • liznj2775liznj2775 member
    @PetraStonegirl Thanks for the tip. I'm one to accept the doctor's word and do my own research, but I had no idea there's even more to it. I will have to call the doctor because he didn't let me know what form. 
    Met DH 1992. High School Sweethearts. Dated off/on 20+ years. Married 6/23/13. TTC since 12/2013. BFP 1/14/14. EDD 9/14. D&C 2/19/14. BFP 6/25/14. Natural miscarriage. BFP 8/21/14. Cytotec 9/30/14 but did not work enough. D&C 10/8/14.
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  • meredithcarolemeredithcarole member
    Welcome.  I am so sorry for your losses.  
    TTCAL January Siggy Challenge: Animals in the Snow

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    About Me: 

    AMA 35 :  DH 33
    BFP#1 1/26/14 (EDD: 10/7/14).  MMC 3/10/14 D&C 3/14/14
    RE Consult 11/3/14 - AMH 2.25 "great" . FSH 7.10 . Low Vitamin D
    Myomectomy 12/17/14.  Benched until March.

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    My Ovulation Chart
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  • EIsieMaeEIsieMae member
    I'm so sorry for your losses. Welcome to the board.
    BFP #1: 5-14-2010, DD born 1-22-2011
    BFP #2: 4-20-2012, Natural MC 5-1-2012
    BFP #3: 7-19-2012, DS born 3-27-2013
    BFP #4: 9-13-2014, MMC discovered 10-27-14 at 10w, d&c on 11-6-14 

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  • Cheetara2Cheetara2 member
    Sorry for your losses. Welcome!

    IUI#3 brought us our dragon baby Z

    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers

    TTCAL January 2015 Siggy Challenge: Animal Snow Interactions 


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  • Leahks77Leahks77 member
    I'm so sorry for your losses. Welcome to the board. Hope you find support here as well.
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  • schuebjaschuebja member
    I'm sorry for your losses. Welcome
    Together since April 2004.  Married since June 19th, 2010.
     BFP #1: January 31st 2012: CP. 
     BFP #2: June 1st 2012, Due:2/8/13. Avery was born via unplanned c section on 2/13/13. 
     BFP #3: Sept. 25th, 2014. Due: 6/5/15.  MMC on 10/23/14. Confirmed complete molar pregnancy per D&C 10/29/14, 
    HCG officially negative 12/10/14.  Benched until June 2015.
                                                        
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  • dandb925dandb925 member
    I'm so sorry for your losses. Welcome to the board. The pics of your pup are adorable!! He seems so happy :)

    Married: 9/25/10
    TTC # 1 since 5/2013
    BFP # 1: 2/7/14, mmc 3/12/14, D&C 3/19/14
    Boy, Trisomy 13, Karyotyping and Genetic Testing all normal
    Hysteroscopy and D&C 6/2/14, retained tissue
    Off the bench 7/14
    BFP # 2: 10/3/14, Blighted ovum, D&C 11/12/14
    Girl, no chromosomal abnormalities detected
    RPL Testing: Pre-diabetic, ANA+
    "I carry your heart with me (I carry it in my heart) I am never without it." - e.e. cummings

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  • MSU_Girl1202MSU_Girl1202 member
    I'm so sorry for your losses. Sending big ((hugs))
    Married 07/2006, TTC since 2010
    08/2011: Clomid 50mg, IUI --> BFN  ,
    10/2011: Clomid 100mg, IUI --> BFN
    04/13: Clomid, IUI BFP --> MC at 6w1d
    05/13: Femara 2.5mg, IUI --> BFN  , 08/13: Femara 2.5mg --> BFN
    03/14: Femara 5mg, IUI --> 1 follicle @ 27d --> BFP! EDD 12/02/14--> blighted ovum, missed MC 6w6d --> D&C
    4/23: D&C...starting over again, with a little part of my heart broken off
    5/31: Femara 7.5mg --> cancelled cycle, no follies
    7/14: Femara 5mg + brevelle + menopur + IUI --> converted to IVF, ER 7/28 --> ET cancelled due to severe OHSS.
    9/20/14:  Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFP--> EDD 6/6/15 --> MC at 5w3d      
    10/16/14: Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFN
    2/6/15: Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFP --> MC at 5w4d
    3/20/16: PGS-tested Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFP, Living Child born 12/1/15
    6/6/17: Fresh IVF Cycle --> Severe OHSS, 5 PGS-tested embryos frozen
    2/23/18: PGS-tested FET --> BFN
    3/30/18: Cancelled cycle due to lining 4.2mm
    6/21/18: PGS-tested FET --> BFN
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  • MellyMel15MellyMel15 member
    I'm so sorry for your losses and that you've had to struggle so much. Happy New Year and welcome to the board. 

    Monty sounds super cute. Yay for rescue pups! My dog Sophie (pictured as my avatar) is a rescue dog too (in fact, Jan. 18 marks one year together) and a Jack Russell/chihuahua mix. She is all play, play, play too. Sometimes I wish I could borrow some of that energy!
    * Me: 31, DH: 33 * Married 10.16.10 * Parents of our furbaby Sophie *
    BFP: 8.28.14 | EDD 5.6.15 | MMC Discovered 9.25.14 (8 weeks)| D&C 9.30.14

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    "Everybody here has got a story to tell. Everybody's been through their own hell. There's nothing too special about getting hurt, but getting over it that takes the work. Because one way or another, we all need each other. Nothing's going to turn out the way you thought it would. Friends and lovers, don't you duck and cover because everything comes out the way it should in the end." -Glen Phillips, "Duck and Cover" 


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  • liznj2775liznj2775 member
    Thank you for all the kinds works of support. @PetraStonegirl‌ and @LDubHawksFan‌ the test that came back high was Cardiolipin AB (IGM) at 21 which is the start of the low to medium positive scale and should be less than 12. The injections are Enoxaparin Sodium, USP. The results also say that Factor V Leiden is negative. I have a call out to the doctor for follow up.
    Met DH 1992. High School Sweethearts. Dated off/on 20+ years. Married 6/23/13. TTC since 12/2013. BFP 1/14/14. EDD 9/14. D&C 2/19/14. BFP 6/25/14. Natural miscarriage. BFP 8/21/14. Cytotec 9/30/14 but did not work enough. D&C 10/8/14.
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