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Time to Say Goodbye Again (Loss Mentioned) XP PgAL

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At my 9 week appt today all they could see was an empty sac.  I will start Cytotech after my 2nd beta draw on Wednesday if needed.  I am just numb right now.  My symptoms were stronger than my last pregnancy loss so this is devastating.   My doctor ordered a blood panel to see if there was any treatable causes for my miscarriages.  I don't understand why my body likes to hold on to pregnancies so long after they have ended.  I loved it while I was here and I hope to be here again with better results.  Wishing everyone healthy pregnancies.
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                  BFP 6/4/14 ~ MMC 7/7/14 ~ D&C 7/15/14            
BFP 11/28/14 ~ MMC  12/29/14    

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  • NeonNoonNeonNoon member
    I'm sorry about your loss.  I hope the additional testing will give you some answers.  Take care of yourself.
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  • mandyreadsmandyreads member
    So very sorry for your loss.
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  • jerseygirl227jerseygirl227 member
    I am so sorry for your loss.  :(
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  • Lady2010Lady2010 member
    I'm very sorry about your loss.  I hope the testing will give you some answers and allow you to make a plan.  Take care of yourself during this difficult time.  Sending you hugs, T&Ps.
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    FET 1 - BFP!!! EDD 1/24/15 Beta 1: 700, Beta 2: 2,156; 1st U/S 6w3d: HB 118bpm, 2nd U/S 9w3d: HB 171bpm

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  • anonymousmotleyanonymousmotley member
    I remember you from the Feb 2015 board.  I am so sorry you are going through this again! :(  I wish you peace though this and hope the doctors find some answers for you!! ...hugs...
    1/1997 - DS
    9/1998 - Ectopic :: 4/2001 - M/C :: 8/2006 - Ectopic :: 4/2007 - M/C :: 8/2008 - Ectopic
    4/2010 - DD
    4/2012 - M/C
    6/2014 - Surprise Pregnancy at 42 yrs old! EDD 2/16/2015
    6/9 +HPT :: 6/10 hCG 383 :: 6/12 hCG 1190 :: 6/17 hCG 8224, Prog 26.4
    6/24 U/S #1 showing 6w2d CRL .43cm w/HB! :: 7/7 U/S #2 CRL 1.73cm w/strong HB!!
    7/31 NT Scan U/S #3 CRL 49mm, HB160 | MaterniT21 - Negative!!     TEAM PINK
    9/2 - AFP Panel - Negative | U/S #4 HB150
    10/1 Anatomy U/S #5 | HB 134 | CPCs found, Trisomy 18 ruled out w/Mat21 on 7/31 | all other development normal!
    11/24 - Glucose was normal at 94
    12/23 - BPP U/S #6 HB 138 :: 12/30 - BPP U/S #7 HB 159 :: 1/5 - BPP U/S #8 HB 154
    1/12 BPP/Growth U/S #9 HB 129, weighs 5lb 12oz already w/ 4 weeks to go!!
    1/20 BPP/Growth U/S#10 HB 155, weight 6lb 9oz :: 1/26 BPP U/S#11 HB153 :: 2/2 BPP U/S #12 HB 137 :: 2/9 BPP U/S #13 HB 150
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  • GuennieGuennie member
    I am not familiar with your story but I am so sorry for your loss and I understand your pain. My body held on to a blighted ovum for 3 months and then the meds to induce didn't work. Have you been tested for MTHFR? I was finally tested and followed a new protocol, ended up pregnant with my daughter after losing 5 pregnancies. Make sure you are tested for this if you haven't been already.

    Lots of thoughts going your way for a quick resolution and some healing vibes to help you work through the grief and move forward. Hugs.
    Me:41, DH:41 Positive for MTHFR mutations- one copy C677T, one copy A1298C. One daughter born on Thanksgiving in 2013. Six losses.
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  • mum2lanabellizmum2lanabelliz member
    So very sorry. {{hugs}}
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  • MySallyGirlMySallyGirl member
    Oh no! :( I'm so sorry for your loss and hope you're back again soon.
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  • mdogan29mdogan29 member
    I'm so sorry to hear about your loss and hope you can recover quickly. A lot of us have had losses too, once you get your results back, if you need someone to talk to, please let me/us know! I had some surprising results in my blood panel after my last loss as well. **hugs**
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  • BeckyP005BeckyP005 member
    No just no. I can't believe I'm reading this. I am so very sorry. Big huge hugs and I hope you can find some answers. So unfair :( Take care...

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    Met with RE 4/11. 2 IUI's BFN. DE best option. Switched clinics to do "shared" program. Had to retake all tests and a mamm that put me behind and then on a DE waiting list for 12 months. Picked a donor!! (10/13/13) Got matched. Estimated transfer in December. After 2.5 years of patiently waiting I will finally cycle....can hardly believe it. DE cycle got cancelled. One of her tests came back positive.  Waiting for another donor. Donor picked!! (1/18/14)

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  • happywifemomofonehappywifemomofone member
    I'm so sorry to hear of you loss. Hope that you will soon find some answers.
    TTC since 10/09 Me-43 DH-44 RE and testing 10/10-11/10, Recommending IVF 1/11 New RE AMA and DOR-DH low motility IVF #1.1 cancelled 3/11 due to poor response IVF #1.2 May 2011, one perfect 8-cell embryo, 3dt-BFN, IVF #2.1 Converted to IUI d/t poor response. New RE 9/2011. IVF 2.2 completed using HGH,EPP,DHEA, Q-10 and accupuncture. Transferred one 8-cell, grade one embryo on 10/19. BFP 10/31/11 Chemical pregancy on 11/2/11. Started stims for IVF #3, our final try, on 12-2-11. ET on 12/18. Transferred 3 Grade A embryos-BFFN Planning DE IVF, late March/early April- Donors ER expected to be 4/2-4/4. PAIF/SAIF welcome
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  • ewennerewenner member
    I am so sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself and I pray that you get some answers from the testing.  
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  • abookwormabookworm member
    Sorry for your loss. I had one myself.
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  • supersarah77supersarah77 member
    Oh, no, my heart is sad for you and your baby. Sending lots of light and love your way. My deepest condolences.
    Me: 38, DH: 35
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  • niknak1208niknak1208 member
    I am so so sorry.  :(  I totally get it. Many of us do unfortunately. Hopefully with some testing they can figure it out. Be good to yourself and take care.  
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  • marijaa333marijaa333 member
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    I was so sad to read this news. I hope you and your doctor can find out some useful information but in the meantime, hope you can take lots of time to rest and recover. Thinking of you.
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  • danish16danish16 member
    I am so sorry for your loss!  :(
    Me: 41, DH 43 TTC #1 since 8/09 CP 10/09.
    3/11 Clomid-Ovidrel-IUI #1-progesterone= BFN.
    5/11 Femara-Bravelle-Ovidrel-IUI#2-progesterone=BFN.
    6/11 Femara-Ovidrel-IUI#3-progesterone=BFP!
    Beta #1 7/1: 39. Beta #2 7/5: 301 U/S 7/19 - saw HB!!
    EDD 3/12/12
    DD born 3/5/12
    Baby #2 Beta #1 12/16: 439.  Beta #2 12/18: 1240
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  • deladiedeladie member
    Very sorry for your loss and admire your strength.
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