TTC After a Loss

Intro ..... Finally

Hello all. I guess it's about time I intro myself. My husband and I had two back to back losses this year in the summer and ealry fall. Then we sort of took a break for a couple of months. This cycle we decided to start trying again. So I'm pretty sure I ovulated this weekend and have been dtd a lot this week. I don't chart for many reasons. I'm not sure what to say other than hello and here is my story. I guess the one thing I am struggling with is I have three friends and a sister in law who are all pregnant. The sister in law tricked her husband ( my husbands brother) into getting pregnant. He told my husband just weeks before we found out they were already pregnant that he did not want another child. Ugh!!!! Also my three friends are all pregnant "by accident"... Um what do you think happens when you don't use protection. They also already have one to three kids of their own. Ugh! I was also diagnosed with endometriosis this year a well. Ugh again! I am happy for my three friends because all three are some of the best moms I know. I just want to join their mommy club too. I will say one thing. Now that I have had two losses I can honesty say that I will appreciate my someday rainbow baby more than I think I would have. With that being said I'm in the dreaded TWW and ugh again. Thanks for listening and I hope I can also support you all as well.

Re: Intro ..... Finally

  • Sorry for your losses and good luck.Hopefully some good news comes your way after your tww
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  • Sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board.
    started TTC 3/2014 & got hitched 4/2014
    husbter's a 38 y/o smarty pants phD/me? a 27 y/o cat lady extraordinaire
    & we're missing our darling barnacles:
    May 2014 loss @ 9 weeks, MMC, no hb found at first appointment | edd dec 4 2014
    October 2014 loss @ 12 weeks, MMC measuring 10w after hearing hb @ 8w | edd apr 15, 2015
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  • I'm new too, but welcome, and sorry for your losses.  I can very much relate to having to deal with other's pregnancies/kids.  My SIL is due with her third just a couple weeks after I was, and I just found out about my brother and his wife's unplanned pregnancy.  I'm still going through it so not much advice other than to take it one day at a time (it gets so overwhelming when I think about the future and how I'll deal with it all) and participate in their pregnancies as much as or as little as you can handle.
  • Welcome to the board, sorry for your losses.
    I am not sure how to say this without getting a "solicitation" warning so I guess I just say that I am not longer active on THIS site. 



  • Welcome to the board.  I'm sorry for your losses.
    Me: 26 DH:28
    TTC - Sept 2014
    # 1 BFP - October 5, 2014 EDD June 5, 2015 CP - October 14, 2014


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  • I'm so sorry for your losses, but welcome to the board.

    Married: 9/25/10
    TTC # 1 since 5/2013
    BFP # 1: 2/7/14, mmc 3/12/14, D&C 3/19/14
    Boy, Trisomy 13, Karyotyping and Genetic Testing all normal
    Hysteroscopy and D&C 6/2/14, retained tissue
    Off the bench 7/14
    BFP # 2: 10/3/14, Blighted ovum, D&C 11/12/14
    Girl, no chromosomal abnormalities detected
    RPL Testing: Pre-diabetic, ANA+
    "I carry your heart with me (I carry it in my heart) I am never without it." - e.e. cummings

  • Welcome. I'm sorry for your losses. And good luck in the TWW.
    Me: 24 (hypothyroidism)
    DH:25
    Married June 2012 
    TTC September 2014
    BFP #1 October 17, 2014
    MC #1 October 26, 2014
    Benched 2 cycles (hoping to TTC January
    Off the bench as of Jan 2015
  • I am sorry for your losses. Welcome.

    We hope that this is your cycle and your stay here is short. Should you be fortunate enough to get a + in the 2 weeks please intro over at PGAL. Otherwise we are happy to offer mutual support for as long as you need to be here.
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    About Me: 

    AMA 35 :  DH 33
    BFP#1 1/26/14 (EDD: 10/7/14).  MMC 3/10/14 D&C 3/14/14
    RE Consult 11/3/14 - AMH 2.25 "great" . FSH 7.10 . Low Vitamin D
    Myomectomy 12/17/14.  Benched until March.

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    My Ovulation Chart
  • Welcome. I am so sorry for your losses. It's totally normal to be jealous of all the people around you who are pregnant. I feel like I know so many women who are pregnant (including my best friend)-- it just doesn't feel fair. All I can say is hang in there. There are so many great women on this board, so I'm sure you'll find lots of support here.
    * Me: 31, DH: 33 * Married 10.16.10 * Parents of our furbaby Sophie *
    BFP: 8.28.14 | EDD 5.6.15 | MMC Discovered 9.25.14 (8 weeks)| D&C 9.30.14

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    "Everybody here has got a story to tell. Everybody's been through their own hell. There's nothing too special about getting hurt, but getting over it that takes the work. Because one way or another, we all need each other. Nothing's going to turn out the way you thought it would. Friends and lovers, don't you duck and cover because everything comes out the way it should in the end." -Glen Phillips, "Duck and Cover" 


  • Welcome. I am sorry for your losses.
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    Oct Angel*BFP 1/25/14 * EDD 10/6/14 * US#1 2/26/14 *US#2 3/3/14 no heartbeat*d&c 3/12/14*

    BFP 1/17/15 * EDD 9/30/15

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