This weekly check-in is for anyone using/considering or who has used a 3rd party method of reproduction, including: Donor egg, donor sperm, embryo adoption, gestation carrier, or surrogate - also Donors, GC's and surrogates are welcome as well! If you don't check-in for 3 weeks you'll be removed from the list but we'll happily add you back next time you check in! NOTE: Board etiquette - please post BFPs separately from the check-in, with a warning in message title.
Check-In: How is it going? What are your next steps? How are you feeling?
QOTW: Do you have a New Years resolution, if so what is it?
Currently Cycling/Scheduled
@chicagobride07 – DEg – In the dreaded 2WW. FX for a positive beta on 01/03/15.
@Lacyj67 – DEg – BCP and Lupron phase for FET #4 Jan 28TH
@vibeee - DEg - SG’s 3:1 program. Hooray for being PUPO!! Will you be POAS? When's your beta?
@Thespis7 – DS – IUI #4, In the dreaded 2WW. FX for a holiday miracle. Please update with beta results. Thinking Positive (+++)
Waiting to Cycle
@ceemonkey – DEg/DS – making a plan for the final transfer.
@Km672 – DEg/DS – on a break while waiting to consult with Dr. KK.
@Love4Labs826 – DEm – Working on some lining issues before next transfer.
@marshmallowevening – DEm – Searching for a match.
@mm29 – DEg/DS – Chosen an egg donor, plan to cycle this spring.
@Rumbera28 – DEg – planning on IVF in Barbados in the summer.
@refeek1 – DEg – Planing on FET in February.
@Sassmaster33 – DEg – Welcome!!
Re: *third-party reproduction check-in* dec. 28th
::: Married June 2003:::

TTC #1 since: Aug. 2008
Me: 34, DOR, MTHFR-A1298C (heterozygous), decreased blood flow to uterus, Mild Endo
DH: 38, Balanced translocation 5&10, unexplained MFI, normal SA and SCSA
Tx History: IUI 1&2= BFN
IVF# 1 W/ICSI= BFN
IVF# 2: cancelled d/t no response
IVF# 3= 1 egg retrieved=immature/not viable
IVF# 4= c/p
***CCRM ODWU***
Found DHs BT and Me-decreased blood flow to uterus
Recommended DE IVF w/PGD, incorporate electro-acupuncture. Decided to cycle locally
***New RE***
DE IVF# 1(cycle #6) w/pgd, (freeze all): 30R, 23M, 15F, slow/poor embryo development, 4 biopsied, 1 Normal "Norm"; DE IVF w/PGD, incorporate electro-acupuncture.
IVF# 6: (OE/DS) cancelled
IVF# 7: (OE/DS) 1R, 1M, 1F, arrested day 5
Plan-DE IVF# 2 (cycle #8): DE/DS in May 2015
http://icanhazbabyz.blogspot.com/
Qotw: To focus on myself. Spiritually, mentally and physically.
@mm29 - March will be here before you know it!
@Thespis7 - Hopefully the cramps are a good sign!
@TRexsMum - Good luck with the (GC) delivery! So close.
@Sassmaster33 - Good luck at your appointment!
AFM: Should be starting my period tomorrow and will start BCP's on CD3.
QOTW: Same as every year, lose some weight. I've slowly gained over the 1 1/2 years with RE. Not his fault! I actually started eating better Saturday. Hopefully it sticks!
I hope everyone has a great week!
TTC #1 since May 2010
OE IVF #1 9/2/13 Cancelled- poor response
DE IVF #1 3/12/14- BFP 3/17/14- ectopic, right tube removed 4/11/14 @ 7 weeks
DE FET #1 7/3/14-Transferred 2 5AA 6 day embryos Beta 7/13/14 BFN
DE FET #2 9/5/14-Transferred 2 4BB 5 day embryos Beta 9/15/14 BFN
DE FET #3 in December- Cancelled, didn't respond to meds
DE FET #3 (2nd try) 2/13/15- Transferred 1 4BB and 1 4BA 5 day embryos Beta 2/23/15 BFN again (CP)
DE FET #4 - last 2 frosties....5/22/15- Transferred 1 4BA embryo...only one frostie thawed properly. Beta scheduled for 6/1- BFN (beta 2, 2.81, 6, 23, 49.4) 6/15/15 Discovered ectopic in left tube. Methotrexate given. Moving on to a new donor. Hoping to transfer by the end of the year.
Cant find a donor that is healthy and available. Looking at being happy with just the two of us.
@Thespis7 - I'm so sorry you feel like AF is on the horizon. I hate this so much and wish it didn't have to be so hard for any of us.
@TRexsMum - it's getting close!! Here's hoping for a smooth delivery
@Sassmaster33 - good luck with your upcoming appointments!
@refeek1 - best wishes for your new cycle!!
***PAIF***
We were so nervous for our 9 week ultrasound today. The past week was rough, finding out that we lost Ninja B, Ninja A being behind with growth, and then having all my symptoms disappear entirely. I thought it was over. Thank goodness this morning's ultrasound proved us wrong. Ninja Squirrel is still measuring behind, but in a week s/he grew a full week's worth. S/he measures at 8w0d (I am 8w6d today) and the heartbeat is very reassuring at 160bpm. The picture on the ultrasound also looks so much different from last week. Thank god. We were freaking out and feel a lot better now. Every single step of the way has been an uphill battle. I'm so exhausted.
QOTW: I don't do New Year's Resolutions. Though I am really looking forward to a clean slate at work.
***PG Mentioned***
Currently 7 weeks and I have my good days and bad days. We have officially graduated from the RE and we have our first ob/gyn appt on Jan 15.
I don't really do New Years resolutions.
QOTW: Do you have a New Years resolution, if so what is it? I really want to organize my home...damn, Pinterest.
My heart is as open as the sky.
Read about it on the blog
2 Corinthians 12:9 But he said to me, "My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness." Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ's power may rest on me.
@Thespis 7- Perhaps the cramps are a good thing.
@TRexsMum- Hope the appt goes well and your little TREX is here soon
@RunCC37 - Glad to hear Ninja A is hanging in and has such a great HB.
***PG Mention***
We hit 10 weeks on Christmas day. XMAS eve U/S shows great development. We spent XMAS with our Surrogate and her family. Her son loved his gift from Santa. She is feeling a bit better. Looking forward to hitting the second trimester before feeling like this is really going to stick. Next appointment is on January 16th.
SAIF Always Welcome
TTC #1 since Fall 2008
High FSH, Sertoli Cell Only Syndrome
Unsuccessful with my OE, moving to DE + DS
DE + DS IVF #1: Dec 2012 - BFP, nothing at first u/s
DE + DS IVF #3: 7/12/13 - BFP! Finally! No heartbeat at 7w1d.
Graduated from the RE on Monday. Appointment with OB on Jan 8th. Still awaiting results from the panorama.
QOTW: I think this year I need to learn to purge...feels so cluttered in this house!
Married April 9, 2011
TTC since October 2011
Me 34, DH 40
IUI #5 w/ Tamoxifen+Ovidrel+Acupuncture Oct 24, 2014-->BFP!!! EDD July 17, 2015. Panorama=low risk...and it's a GIRL!
DD born July 10, 2015
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Trying for baby #2!
IUI #1 w/ Tamoxifen+Ovidrel+Acupuncture July 10, 2017-->BFP!!! EDD Apr 2, 2018. Panorama=low risk...and another GIRL!