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My very bad day (intro)

I think I go here now. We have been TTC for about 2.5 years and working with an RE for over a year. Our dx is DOR. After being told to move on to DE, we got our first BFP ever on an unmedicated cycle. It was our first month in our new house. At 6 weeks and 1 day, we saw identical twins with a flicker of a heartbeat. At 7 weeks and 3 days, we were measuring 6 weeks and 5 days and there were no heartbeats. We had announced to our families at Christmas. I am so sad. In an instant, my hopes and dreams were crushed. I doubt we will be able to conceive again. We will try, but our track record is bad. We go back in a few days for another scan. I was told we could schedule a d & c or let nature takes its course. I want this over and I also want to know what happened. I believe I want the d & c. I am so sorry that any of us are here, but thank you all for having me.
Me: 34 | He: 40
TTC since 08/2012

Re: My very bad day (intro)

  • I am so sorry for your loss. ((Hugs)) to you during this very difficult time. I had (my second) D&C last week so I would be happy to chat with you about my experience if you think that would be helpful.
    Married to DH since 6/30/2007
    Me: 32  DH: 32
    BFP #1: 4/1/2010 DS born: 12/3/10
    TTC #2 since 5/2014

    BFP # 2 : 6/16/14 EDD: 2/25/15  Missed Miscarriage discovered 7/10/14 D&C 7/17/14 Pathology results normal
    BFP #3: 10/21/14 EDD: 7/6/15  11/24/14:  Saw heartbeat! 
    Missed Miscarriage discovered 12/22/14 at 12w0d D&C 12/23/14 Pathology: Partial Molar Pregnancy/Triploidy
    ~~Currently benched following PMP~~ 
    **all AL welcome**

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  • I am so sorry for your loss. (Hugs)

    Me: 31 DH: 36
    Dated Since ‘02, Married in ‘06
    BFP#1 05/16/06, EDD01/16/07, MC 06/12/06 at 8 weeks
    BFP #2 08/14/14, EDD 04/22/15, MC 09/17/14 at 9 weeks


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  • I am so sorry for everything you are going through. *hug*
    Married 10.03.2014
    TTC the day we were married
    BFP October 2014 - Due 7/2/2015 - MMC discovered 12/1/2014 (D&C)
  • I am so sorry for your losses.

  • I'm so sorry you're going through this. So many *hugs* to you
    I am not sure how to say this without getting a "solicitation" warning so I guess I just say that I am not longer active on THIS site. 

  • Sending you lots of hugs. So sorry this happened
  • Oh ronniesgirl, I am so sorry :( I hate this so much for you. I have also had a D&C because I needed it to be over quickly. Please feel free to PM me. ((Hugs))
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    Me:35, blocked left tube, RPL, AMA  DH: 34, low morph & borderline count
    TTC since 8/2012
    1st ever BFP 11/4/13 - CP 11/6 @ 4w4d
    12/2013: 50 mg Clomid + trigger + IUI TI + progesterone = BFN (all follies on left side)
    1/2014: 50 mg Clomid + trigger + IUI #1 + progesterone = BFP!
    Beta #1 14 dpIUI = 51 Beta #2 16 dpIUI = 144 Beta #3 19 dpIUI = 354
    U/S @ 6w1d = empty gestational sac. Heartbroken :( D&C 2/22/14
    ~Mental Health Break~
    6/2014: Clomid + ASA 81 mg + trigger + IUI #2 + progesterone = BFN
    7/2014: Clomid + ASA + trigger + IUI #3 + progesterone = CP
    ~Mental Health Break #2~
    1/2015: IVF #1 - please be our rainbow baby!
  • I am sorry for your loss
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    Oct Angel*BFP 1/25/14 * EDD 10/6/14 * US#1 2/26/14 *US#2 3/3/14 no heartbeat*d&c 3/12/14*

    BFP 1/17/15 * EDD 9/30/15


  • I am so sorry for your losses. I hope you find comfort and support here. Hugs***
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