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Fourth Pregnancy Third Child (loss mentioned)

MommyCheyanneMommyCheyanne member
edited December 2014 in Pregnant after a Loss
I've never done this before. Well back in June my fiance and I found out we were pregnant with our third child. A few days after that I started having some pain and spotting. I went to the ER just to get checked out and no sooner did I check in did I start gushing blood. We were devastated. He and I started trying for a baby as soon as we could. Well November we found out that I'm pregnant again. I'm 11 weeks and I am so scared that I'm going to wake up again to another miscarriage. I'm already starting to feel the baby kicking and moving and I feel like if I have another miscarriage that I will never get over it. I just can't shake the feeling that it's going to happen again. Will this feeling ever go away??
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Re: Fourth Pregnancy Third Child (loss mentioned)

  • Samuelismomma Samuelismomma member
    Welcome and congrats! You just have to take one day at a time...read the mantras on the board. They will help.
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  • raelynn71109raelynn71109 member
    Welcome and congrats!

    Me: 34; DH: 38; SD: 9
    TTC #1 since November 2013

    BFP #1: 2/4/14--EDD 10/14/14--CP 2/8/14

    BFP #2: 3/1/14--EDD 11/15/14--MMC at 12w6d (baby stopped developing at 11w4d)
    D&C 5/13/14; Retained Tissue Found: Cytotec 5/30/14; 2nd D&C 6/20/14

    BFP #3: 12/13/14--EDD 8/27/15--MMC at 7 weeks (no fetal pole and measuring 1 1/2 weeks behind)--Cytotec 1/9/15

    January 2015: Off to RE for RPL testing

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  • lcwedlcwed member
    Welcome and congrats!  Unfortunately, I still feel like I am waiting for the other shoe to drop.  It is completely normal.  As PP suggested, the mantras help me all the time.
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                      BFP 6/4/14 ~ MMC 7/7/14 ~ D&C 7/15/14            
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  • pblgepblge member
    Welcome and congratulations!
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    ***Losses mentioned.*** TTC #1 since May 2012. Me: 37, OH: 41. Ectopic August 2012 => tubal damage. :'(  Stage 1 endo removed June 2013. IVF #1 Oct/Nov 2013: Long Lupron with Gonal-F. 7R, 7M, 7F. 2 txfer@3d. Nothing frozen.  => M/C @ 8 wks. :'( Selected RPL panel all normal. Very hyper and brittle response to stims. IVF #2 (antagonist protocol) Feb 2014 => Converted to IUI (Perfect conditions). BFN. IVF #2.1 w/ new RE June 2014: Antagonist protocol. 33R, 31M, 30F, 19 blasts to test!!! I made it through without crashing!! :) Hats off to Dr. Fancypants!! ET of one 5AB blast. BFN. 13 10 CCS'ed snowflakes! FET #1 PUPO as of 7/29 Betas: 8/7@24, 8/9@97, 8/11@334 (etc.) Two sacs on 8/15, one seen on 8/18 after a bleed. U/s 8/25 (6+3) "perfect": 5.9 mm + HB@120bpm! U/s 9/4 (7+6): 15.9 mm + HB@172 bpm! Please, PLEASE stick this time!!!!
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  • sgio7485sgio7485 member
    Congrats and welcome!
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    BFP #2 5/14/14 EDD 1/19/15 Beta 1: 728 Beta 2: 1858 We have a heartbeat! 166 @ 7w3d  Please be our RAINBOW!
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  • asglover514asglover514 member
    Congrats and welcome, as PPs have said take it one day at a time. I know I still have some days where I feel like it's too good to be true.
    Stephanie Lynn 
    *BFP3:7/10/14 EDD: 3/19/15--Renley Alexander born 3/12/15!!*
    11/17/14-adopted a furbaby named Luna (born 9/05/14)
    BFP2: 11/25/11-Aaron Alexander born sleeping at 31 weeks on 05/31/12
    BFP1: 07/28/11-EDD:3/19/12, natural MC 09/12/11 at 12 wks-HB and growth stopped at 6wks
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  • stinybeanstinybean member
    Welcome and congrats!
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  • kate6214kate6214 member
    Welcome and congrats. I know the anxiety is hard. Take it one day at a time. I'm 21 weeks and I'm still nervous.

    BFP #1: 8/17/13     Due Date: 4/26/14      MMC discovered @ 9w 4d       D&C: 10/2/13
    BFP #2: 12/23/13       Due Date: 9/6/14      MMC discovered @ 8w 5d    D&C: 2/6/14
    BFP #3 8/26/14     Due Date: 5/7/15  

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  • MommyCheyanneMommyCheyanne member
    Thank you so much everyone. I've been reading the mantras and they make me feel better. I also finally opened up to my fiance about it more which made me feeling better as well.
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