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Unsuccessfully Trying to Move on....

daydreamer3451daydreamer3451 member
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Hey All,

I posted an intro a little bit after Thanksgiving (when we found out about our loss). As of right now, I tried to do the M/C naturally, which didn't work, took the pill to help the process speed up which also didn't work, and just had a D & C a little over a week ago. I went to the doctors on Friday, and the doctor is nervous because I am still bleeding and still passing tissue and said that I might need to go through another D and C because she is unsure if everything has passed...

The thought of having to go through this again is completely terrifying!!! I feel like all I want to do is move on but the past 4 weeks have not allowed me to do so. With the holiday right around the corner, I am finding myself withdraw from those around me....I don't want the holiday to come now (even though we are hosting both sides of the family). My doctor said that because of the holiday we would have to wait until next week until we can do anything. Having no control over my body right now is extremely upsetting, and with this worry in the back of my mind I am having such a difficult time trying to think of anything else.

I just want it to be over :(

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Re: Unsuccessfully Trying to Move on....

  • Nikolie93Nikolie93 member
    I gave you hugs over at TTCAL but wanted to give you more here. 

    I so hope this is over for you soon so you and your husband can move on and start healing mentally. 
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  • OctoberStarsOctoberStars member
    I'm so sorry! That is devastating to have to do another d&c and to have to wait through the holidays on top of it. I totally understand the reaction to withdraw. I'm also feeling withdrawn waiting for my Mc to start. I hope you get distracted enough over the holiday to take your mind off things from time to time.

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  • ashleyann62215ashleyann62215 member
    So sorry :( it's rough during the holidays. Hope this gets better for you.
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  • alovett26alovett26 member
    Lots of big hugs for you!
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  • elsiefayeelsiefaye member
    I'm sorry you are going through this, I am too so I know how it feels. It's been over 5 weeks since my miscarriage and over 2 weeks since the D&C. I don't want to go through another one and just want this to be finished. I hope everything works out so you don't need another D&C.
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  • stephy1221stephy1221 member
    I am so sorry for your loss and the complications. I hope this is over for you soon and you do not need another procedure. Hugs. 
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  • shupertj09shupertj09 member
    I am so very sorry that you are having to go through all this! ((Hugs))
    Praying this is our take home baby. STICK TURKEY Mommy will miss you everyday my beautiful angel. We love you Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers M/C on 1/05/11 at 11 weeks.
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  • 4N6s4N6s member
    I'm so sorry... I'll be praying for you. I hope it's all over soon.
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  • IslandDreaminIslandDreamin member
    I am so sorry. I can really relate to this situation and know how hard it is. I had emergency surgery due to a right tubal ectopic pregnancy before Thanksgiving and was starting to finally feel like I was healing up physically 4 weeks post-op and then BAM, it was discovered that my hCG levels nearly doubled. I had to get another procedure done. This time a chemotherapy drug injection to stop the leftover tissue from growing. The first time was heartbreaking and having it drawn out with another procedure made me feel like my heart was now being stomped on. I know what you mean by feeling out of control with your body again and dealing with new fears. I am here if you want to vent more and I will be sending you positive thoughts that everything turns out the best they can.
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