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Ten Things Tuesday (Xmas Eve Eve Edition!)

Re: Ten Things Tuesday (Xmas Eve Eve Edition!)

  • 1. I'm up early with the boys while they play in their cribs. Since they still sleep in their RNPs, the cribs are for play time mostly. This is the routine now and it's pretty cool since waking up at 6 gives me time to get ready for work when I go back on 1/5. Also early waking means early bedtime- 7pm! I love that!

    2. We've got a mama's boy! Ben has started constantly babbling ma ma ma ma ma. It's ridiculously cute.

    3. We also have somewhat of a sitter. Owen will push himself to straight up sitting when placed in any reclined position. Not from laying flat though. He also goes from sitting to falling on his face sometimes, which does not seem to bother him. He will figure it out.

    4. My sister is here staying with us, she is so much more engaged with the babies and they are just more interactive. She last saw them 2 months ago and was rather hands off, now she just jumps right in.

    5. My sister's boyfriend is coming to Christmas Eve dinner then he is taking her to meet his family in NJ on xmas day. They are going to a couple Broadway shows while there and I'm jealous. K and I have both been craving a trip to NY lately. We look forward to taking the boys to the Macy's parade someday.

    6. I am very happy for @doodah1013‌ and @firstcomeslove2013. Home with Hayden for the holidays!!

    7. I have 2 friends who had baby boys yesterday on their due dates. They don't know each other and live on opposite coasts. One friend named her baby with the other friend's last name. Interesting.

    8. @2MamazInSeattle‌ making another baby?!! Awesome!! How exciting! So many lgbt bump siblings in 2015!

    9. I have not wrapped 3/4s of the Christmas gifts. That is what I will be doing today.

    10. Happy Holidays to everyone!

    A & K, married 7/1/13.

    After 10 months of ttc via medicated IUIs and two early losses, we finally got our boys- Perfect premie twins born 5/27/14.

     

     

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  • 1. @2momsinCA, I keep forgetting you have a Ben too!

    2. @StacyLH24, I'm not sure exactly what's involved in an endo scratch but it doesn't sound fun. I'm glad you had no lasting issues. Everything crossed for this cycle!

    3. My wedding band and engagement ring don't fit right now, and I want to avoid re-sizing them until I take off some weight (hoping of course that I will reach my goal weight and won't need them re-sized). In the meantime, I feel a little weird going around without any kind of wedding ring on now that I don't have the excuse of being pregnant. I mentioned it to my wife because I didn't want her to think that wearing a wedding ring didn't matter to me, and so she surprised me with a new ring with B's birth stone on it (alexandrite). So now I have something to wear on my left ring finger until either I or my rings get re-sized, and I also get to think of B every time I look at it. <3

    4. I need a project. For a long time my project was getting pregnant, and then it was, you know, gestation. I haven't done any writing in a long time and I'm wondering if it would be rewarding to get back into it.

    5. Someone brought my co-workers and me fleur de sel caramels for the holidays. YES please.

    6. My therapist told me yesterday that she thinks I have a very good marriage. I agree, but it was nice to hear it from someone else.

    7. Have I mentioned that pregnancy made my curly hair straighten out and I'm REALLY not happy about it?

    8. I am so looking forward to tomorrow! We are taking B to have his Santa photo taken in the morning and having dinner with my family, but I think we're going to get some nice quiet time as a threesome in the middle of the day.

    9. Sometimes B touches my face and smiles and it pretty much breaks me in half.

    10. If I don't get another opportunity to say this -- I hope everyone who celebrates Christmas has a great one! (And of course Happy Chanukah to those who are celebrating now).
    Married my wife 8/2007 ~ TTC #1 since 7/2011
    9 IUIs = 9 BFNs
    IVF October 2012: 22 eggs retrieved, 17 fertilized, 5 frozen
    ET #1: 1 blast = BFP; Blighted ovum discovered at 7w5d; D&E
    FET #1: 1 blast = BFP; Missed m/c discovered at 9w5d; D&E
    Karyotyping: normal ~ RPL Testing: normal ~ Hysteroscopy: normal
    FET #2: 1 blast transferred 10/25; BFP 10/31!
    EDD 7/13/14 ~ Induced at 37w4d due to pre-eclampsia ~ Born on 6/28/14
    *Everyone welcome*

    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • @ball.and.chain - it involves a speculum (of course), a clamp that looks similar to scissors (according to C who saw it) and is used to keep your cervix open, and then a thicker catheter. He scratched my lining for a total of 5 seconds in a circular motion - getting all sides of my ute. It was a very long 5 seconds and not something I ever hope to repeat. I was good until the catheter went in...then not so good. The nurse helped me take my scarf and sweater off so that I didn't pass out.

    Me: 30  DW (aka C): 29

    Together since 2/15/11 ~ Legally married in NY on 9/29/12

    ***CP mentioned***

    We've been working on baby #1 since July 2013 using Open ID donor sperm.  8 IUI attempts with 5 actual IUIs and one chemical pregnancy.  We have one fresh IVF cycle under our belts as well as a FET.  I have endometriosis and a uterine septum that was corrected via surgery in November 2013. 

    11/14/14 -  Second HSG shows that tubes are still clear and ute is looking good. 

    12/6/14 - Started BCPs in prep for IVF #2

    12/22/14 - Saline u/s and endometrial scratch (All was clear and OUCH!)

    1/2/15 - Began stimming for IVF #2

     ****All Welcome!****

    We are Mommas to four fur babies - 3 dogs and 1 cat.

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  • OMG @2mamazinseattle - I'm sitting here at my kitchen table tearing up :(  Soooo sad. So grateful for my sleeping boys. I agree that the "shiny" side of having experienced a loss is being able to support others going through the experience. Though if it were up to me mine would have been the last - ever.   Sigh.

    1. Christmas music playing in the background. I should be jumping in the shower, or napping - but I can't seem to move.  TIRED.... 

    2. The talk on the Parenting thread regarding having two toddlers has me doing an "insider chuckle".  Can't wait to read 2015/2016's threads ;-)

    3. Speaking of which - two babies means all the more reason to get up multiple times a night.  4 times - 5 times last night? Lost count....
    Still. I made an appointment for an RE's open house/meet the doctors for early March. You might ask why would anyone want a preschooler, toddler and newborn???  Insanity... but babies are addicting.  

    4. I found a light popcorn at costco that I loooove - so yummmy

    5. I signed up for a Crossfit gym but they're basically closed for the holidays- not sure if I should be relieved or sad?

    6.  Kaden just woke up and snuggled with me at the table. His head smells amazing, and his curls are so soft.  Baths before naps are the best. ;-)  Owen is also learning to lean into his hugs and cuddles. OMG makes me melt.

    7. For those debating whether or not to start TTC younger, I say go for it. I turn 38 next month and see time running out. And honestly if I were say 33 - I'd wait a little longer before TTC #3 (see #3 ;-)  )

    8. I found a leftover present for Kaden at the back of the shelf. Excellent!! - we tried to balance our use of wrapping paper and where light on snowmen.  LOL

    9. I've talked a lot about my in-laws and their newborn on here. I'm still not sure where we stand, but I am trying to put my hurt feelings aside and just show up for them no questions asked. They're struggling, and so is there little guy.  

    10. I am sooooo looking forward to Christmas this year.  I just finished my cards - YES.. super late.  But they will at least go out today (well FX).  Trying to find a last minute little gift for EV for under the tree. She got her XMas present early (its a Dinopet, a clear statue filled with biolumenscents, that glow when you gently shake the container).  But I feel like we adults need a little something to open. 
  • @cetcar2013‌, may I be the first to apologize for the full-on Seattle weather? At least it's not cold....just rainy, perpetual twilight, you know, the usual for December.
    Lil'mamaz was born on Aug 21, 2014! She's PERFECT!

    It's been a long road to here...
    Me (43) and J (45) - same sex couple. And we don't feel 40+!
    June'12 - First RE Visit
    Sept. '12 - Tubes removed
    Dec. '12 - Donor Egg/Donor Sperm IVF Cycle - 4 good embies!
    Dec. '12 - Fresh transfer, BFP! EDD 8/29/13
    Mar. '13 - Missed m/c at 16w1d, baby boy stopped growing at 15w4d
    Loss due to umbilical cord clot...baby was perfect. :(
    Jul '13 - FET#1 - c/p
    Sept. '13 - FET#2 - BFN
    Dec.' 2, 2013 - FET#3 with our last chance embie - BFP!!!
    Dec' 26, 2013 - hb!!
    EDD 8/20/14 with a baby girl!
    Little S was born on 8/21/14 - 8lb, 14 oz and 20 inches long.
    We live in Seattle and used SRM for our donor egg IVF cycle


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  • @cetcar2013‌, may I be the first to apologize for the full-on Seattle weather? At least it's not cold....just rainy, perpetual twilight, you know, the usual for December.
    Our Christmas is supposed to be in the 50s and rainy...I think you sent your Seattle weather east!
    Married my wife 8/2007 ~ TTC #1 since 7/2011
    9 IUIs = 9 BFNs
    IVF October 2012: 22 eggs retrieved, 17 fertilized, 5 frozen
    ET #1: 1 blast = BFP; Blighted ovum discovered at 7w5d; D&E
    FET #1: 1 blast = BFP; Missed m/c discovered at 9w5d; D&E
    Karyotyping: normal ~ RPL Testing: normal ~ Hysteroscopy: normal
    FET #2: 1 blast transferred 10/25; BFP 10/31!
    EDD 7/13/14 ~ Induced at 37w4d due to pre-eclampsia ~ Born on 6/28/14
    *Everyone welcome*

    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker


  • @cetcar2013‌, may I be the first to apologize for the full-on Seattle weather? At least it's not cold....just rainy, perpetual twilight, you know, the usual for December.

    Our Christmas is supposed to be in the 50s and rainy...I think you sent your Seattle weather east!


    Upside? You don't have to shovel the rain!!!
    Lil'mamaz was born on Aug 21, 2014! She's PERFECT!

    It's been a long road to here...
    Me (43) and J (45) - same sex couple. And we don't feel 40+!
    June'12 - First RE Visit
    Sept. '12 - Tubes removed
    Dec. '12 - Donor Egg/Donor Sperm IVF Cycle - 4 good embies!
    Dec. '12 - Fresh transfer, BFP! EDD 8/29/13
    Mar. '13 - Missed m/c at 16w1d, baby boy stopped growing at 15w4d
    Loss due to umbilical cord clot...baby was perfect. :(
    Jul '13 - FET#1 - c/p
    Sept. '13 - FET#2 - BFN
    Dec.' 2, 2013 - FET#3 with our last chance embie - BFP!!!
    Dec' 26, 2013 - hb!!
    EDD 8/20/14 with a baby girl!
    Little S was born on 8/21/14 - 8lb, 14 oz and 20 inches long.
    We live in Seattle and used SRM for our donor egg IVF cycle


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  • @2MamazInSeattle‌ Thanks! CT is from Whidbey Island. We'll be in Seattle tonight then heading north. It can be really gray. Love it on days when the mountains are peaking out! I love running on the island, really looking forward to that. And all the trees!!
  • 1. @trisholio‌ - did you survive? Just wave hello to let us know. ;)

    2. Our Christmas tree makes me giggle. There are no ornaments left on the bottom of the tree. Guess that's what our tree will looks like for the next few years!

    3. Am really happy that we were able to send Z's family a nice sum of cash for Christmas. It's nice to help out when we can.

    4. I ordered Z a really sentimental ornament off Etsy. It's hand stamped metal with her family's name on it. Just a sentiment that they are in our hearts at Christmas even though we're not physically with them. I didn't realize until I ordered, though, that it was coming from England. It still hasn't arrived. :(

    5. Ate lunch with my old boss who retired almost two year ago. Love seeing her. She looks so rested! Only 25-30 years before I can retire!

    6. For it being the week of Christmas, I had a tough work week. Considerable amount of stress. Oh well. Our legislative session starts in January and my division is mostly responsible, so I'm going to relax as much as possible before the craziness begins!

    7. I'm excited that my mom is baking Syrian bread (think really fluffy pita). My moms family is Lebanese and I grew up eating my grandmother's bread. My mom hasn't made it in a while, and I'm soooo looking forward to it

    8. Y'all, I really hope my SIL doesn't act crazy. I can't take it. I just want a nice visit.

    9. Z's done with some work, so it's cheesy Christmas movie time!

    10. Happy holidays to all!
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • @2MamazInSeattle‌ Thanks! CT is from Whidbey Island. We'll be in Seattle tonight then heading north. It can be really gray. Love it on days when the mountains are peaking out! I love running on the island, really looking forward to that. And all the trees!!

    Oh we love Whidbey!! A friend has an awesome beach house there he rents us for $50/night and we go a couple times a year. Enjoy! Even thus time of year, Whidbey is charming. Oh and there was a new baby store in Langley about to open in July!
    Lil'mamaz was born on Aug 21, 2014! She's PERFECT!

    It's been a long road to here...
    Me (43) and J (45) - same sex couple. And we don't feel 40+!
    June'12 - First RE Visit
    Sept. '12 - Tubes removed
    Dec. '12 - Donor Egg/Donor Sperm IVF Cycle - 4 good embies!
    Dec. '12 - Fresh transfer, BFP! EDD 8/29/13
    Mar. '13 - Missed m/c at 16w1d, baby boy stopped growing at 15w4d
    Loss due to umbilical cord clot...baby was perfect. :(
    Jul '13 - FET#1 - c/p
    Sept. '13 - FET#2 - BFN
    Dec.' 2, 2013 - FET#3 with our last chance embie - BFP!!!
    Dec' 26, 2013 - hb!!
    EDD 8/20/14 with a baby girl!
    Little S was born on 8/21/14 - 8lb, 14 oz and 20 inches long.
    We live in Seattle and used SRM for our donor egg IVF cycle


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  • 1. Just did gifts with my love. I haven't felt like I could find the perfect gift for two years now and that sucks. Or I find one that I love and she likes.  Oh well. It seems to get harder every year

    2. Just traded in our camper (which was not built for children) for a new camper with a bunkhouse for the girls. I know they are only 4 months old, but it gives us room to grow and we love camping. Truly, camping isn't the right word. We "glamp." Camping kinda gives the impression of some sort of roughing it, but there is no roughing it with us. It is like a traveling apartment LOL

    3. Can't wait to spend some time with our family, extended and otherwise

    4. I wish Dave Navarro (sp?) wouldn't wear so much damn make-up

    5. My back is killing me. I keep getting spasms that hurt like hell. Afraid to take the muscle relaxers the Dr gave me b/c I am not sure about how safe they are with breastfeeding

    6. Sad that this year is coming to a close. It feels like time is flying by and I am grasping trying to savor these younger years. I know that it goes by all too fast and I am trying to soak up and remember each moment

    7. My cat is cRaZy. Like- seriously an asshole crazy. He just ran the house like it is the indy 500 and attacked anything that was in his path. He cracks me up. My little jungle kitty

    8. I like pink. I didn't always like pink, but it has grown on me. Not light or pastel pink, but bright, neon pink. Random thought of the day

    9. I need to go pump now. I hate pumping

    10. I hope all of you have a fantastic and safe holiday season

    Daisypath Anniversary tickers

    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker

    Married to M and proud mothers to Olivia and Elise (8/19/2014) and to our fur-babies: Capone (pitbull), Jax and Atticus (cats)


  • 1. I have had a hard time finding time to Bump the last several days between holiday travel/festivities and prepping for the Christmas Eve dinner I am hosting... Oh, and Will's epic top tooth teething spree that has made him a clingy puddle of baby goo the last 2 days...

    2. There is so much I want to say to everyone, but I'm sure I will forget 1/2 of it now ... @doodah1013 & @firstcomeslove2013 - I hope you are enjoying every moment of your first days home with Hayden! @StacyLH24‌ - I am sending you every single positive thought I have for this upcoming cycle. Everything crossed, my friend! @trisholio‌ - I too hope you survived! You are seriously super mom... It makes my head spin!

    3. I have decided to make a RE appointment for early March to discuss options and timelines (and cost) for an FET in late spring/early summer...

    4. I am annoyed with my family. Our visit to Mass this past weekend was a little less than stellar. I do not want to vent and make this post (and my attitude) negative... But come January I will likely need to do some venting...

    5. I am so ridiculously excited for Will's first Christmas!

    6. I wish I could pick up my house and move it to another neighborhood and then add on an upstairs addition to it.

    7. J's snoring has suddenly gotten a lot worse... It keeps me up at night semi-often... Though it never seems to bother Will. What the heck?

    8. Will has discovered the "m" sound and now says "Mamamamamama" all.day.long. I know he isn't saying it with purpose, but it melts me anyway.

    9. Earlier today I was dreading hosting Christmas Eve, since I was stressed and overwhelmed with cleaning and cooking. Now I am back to being glad we are doing it. The house is pretty clean and I think we are mostly ready (minus tomorrow's cooking) ... It will also be nice to be at home when the night is over and to be able to stick to Will's bed time and routine and start our own traditions at home.

    10. Merry Christmas to all my bump friends and their families who are celebrating! Thank you all for being so amazing! This place makes my heart happy :)

    Me - 30, My wife - 31 , Together for 10 yrs - Married August 2012

    5 medicated IUIs w/ RE (March - July 2013) = BFN

    Fresh IVF Cycle in September 2013 resulted in 18 mature eggs, 16 fertilized, 12 made it to day 5. Transfer of 2 Grade A blastocysts on 9/15/13, and 10 embryos in the freezer!      *****BFP on 9/25/13 - betas: @10dp5dt = 232; @12dp5dt = 465; @15dp5dt = 1,581   *********William George born June 4, 2014*********
  • @2MamazInSeattle‌ That's a great price! We're headed to Langley tomorrow. CT's family has a long history along Useless Bay in Freeland. They owned and ran a fishing resort back in the day. Now it's where her grandmother and extended family have houses.
  • @KH826‌ your #8 matches my #2. I love hearing the mamamas!

    A & K, married 7/1/13.

    After 10 months of ttc via medicated IUIs and two early losses, we finally got our boys- Perfect premie twins born 5/27/14.

     

     

  • @2MamazInSeattle‌ That's a great price! We're headed to Langley tomorrow. CT's family has a long history along Useless Bay in Freeland. They owned and ran a fishing resort back in the day. Now it's where her grandmother and extended family have houses.

    We stay in Greenbank, and shop in Freeland. Enjoy!!!
    Lil'mamaz was born on Aug 21, 2014! She's PERFECT!

    It's been a long road to here...
    Me (43) and J (45) - same sex couple. And we don't feel 40+!
    June'12 - First RE Visit
    Sept. '12 - Tubes removed
    Dec. '12 - Donor Egg/Donor Sperm IVF Cycle - 4 good embies!
    Dec. '12 - Fresh transfer, BFP! EDD 8/29/13
    Mar. '13 - Missed m/c at 16w1d, baby boy stopped growing at 15w4d
    Loss due to umbilical cord clot...baby was perfect. :(
    Jul '13 - FET#1 - c/p
    Sept. '13 - FET#2 - BFN
    Dec.' 2, 2013 - FET#3 with our last chance embie - BFP!!!
    Dec' 26, 2013 - hb!!
    EDD 8/20/14 with a baby girl!
    Little S was born on 8/21/14 - 8lb, 14 oz and 20 inches long.
    We live in Seattle and used SRM for our donor egg IVF cycle


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  • @2MamazInSeattle‌ Thank you, you too! We looked at a wedding venue in Greenbank but ultimately decided on Massachusetts instead.

    On a different note, my brother in law is in the coffee roasting business, lives in Seattle, and I thought he may like the to participate in the coffee exchange next time. Do you know the name of it?



    Merry Christmas to those who celebrate it.
  • @2MamazInSeattle‌ Thank you, you too! We looked at a wedding venue in Greenbank but ultimately decided on Massachusetts instead.

    On a different note, my brother in law is in the coffee roasting business, lives in Seattle, and I thought he may like the to participate in the coffee exchange next time. Do you know the name of it?



    Merry Christmas to those who celebrate it.

    I'll PM you! You know we own two coffee shops right? And J hangs with lots of roasters! Who's he work for?
    Lil'mamaz was born on Aug 21, 2014! She's PERFECT!

    It's been a long road to here...
    Me (43) and J (45) - same sex couple. And we don't feel 40+!
    June'12 - First RE Visit
    Sept. '12 - Tubes removed
    Dec. '12 - Donor Egg/Donor Sperm IVF Cycle - 4 good embies!
    Dec. '12 - Fresh transfer, BFP! EDD 8/29/13
    Mar. '13 - Missed m/c at 16w1d, baby boy stopped growing at 15w4d
    Loss due to umbilical cord clot...baby was perfect. :(
    Jul '13 - FET#1 - c/p
    Sept. '13 - FET#2 - BFN
    Dec.' 2, 2013 - FET#3 with our last chance embie - BFP!!!
    Dec' 26, 2013 - hb!!
    EDD 8/20/14 with a baby girl!
    Little S was born on 8/21/14 - 8lb, 14 oz and 20 inches long.
    We live in Seattle and used SRM for our donor egg IVF cycle


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  • @2MamazInSeattle‌ I had no idea. How funny. I think it's called Seven coffee roasters. What's the name of your shops?
  • @2MamazInSeattle‌ Can you check messages on the mobile site?
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