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Themisfit444Themisfit444 member
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I was so excited to discover the birth month club a couple days ago. I thought it was so awesome that I could communicate with other expecting women. Finally a safe place to turn and talk to people that are having my same type of experiences that I am. It started off great. I met some amazing women with similar situations as mine. My excitement was short lived when I discovered the abundance of cyber bullies on these threads. It almost feels like there are certain "women" who will find something wrong with anything you say. I went from feeling supported to quickly feeling ganged up on. It really turned me off. Thanks to those women who were supportive. I'm sure you will make amazing mothers. I'm concerned about all the negativity here. With that being said, I'm done posting my thoughts on here. To the girls that get entertained by being nasty to other women, thanks for ruining something that could have been a great tool for most of us. It's easy to say anything behind a computer screen. I'm done venting now. Good luck everyone!
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    RachiCakesRachiCakes member
    Bye! :D
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    Bye! It is your loss; this board is full of amazing women!
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    beebe918 said:

    I have a serious question: Does this happen on all the month boards or are we just lucky?

    It happens everywhere unfortunately!
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    beebe918 said:
    I have a serious question: Does this happen on all the month boards or are we just lucky?
    Evvvverrrryyyywwwwhhhheeeerrrrreeeee. We are not special in this regard.

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    Ballet80Ballet80 member
    This is like a daily thing now, I wonder if they are all the same person?!? Mmmm... :-h
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    CamoBride2010CamoBride2010 member
    Ugh, post like this annoy me. It's like someone in real life being like "I'm never talking to you again!" well fine then DON'T no need to mention it to me, just go away and quit talking.  And this is seriously one of the most supportive and helpful boards I've seen, so.....good luck elsewhere.
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    sarahchrismcksarahchrismck member
    I love how almost all these GBCB posts refer to us as "women."
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    animaldoctor12 said:

    Bye! It is your loss; this board is full of amazing women!

    I did
    orangepickle said:


    Themisfit444 said:

    I was so excited to discover the birth month club a couple days ago. I thought it was so awesome that I could communicate with other expecting women. Finally a safe place to turn and talk to people that are having my same type of experiences that I am. It started off great. I met some amazing women with similar situations as mine. My excitement was short lived when I discovered the abundance of cyber bullies on these threads. It almost feels like there are certain "women" who will find something wrong with anything you say. I went from feeling supported to quickly feeling ganged up on. It really turned me off. Thanks to those women who were supportive. I'm sure you will make amazing mothers. I'm concerned about all the negativity here. With that being said, I'm done posting my thoughts on here. To the girls that get entertained by being nasty to other women, thanks for ruining something that could have been a great tool for most of us. It's easy to say anything behind a computer screen. I'm done venting now. Good luck everyone!


    seriously? Have you read any other thread that's currently on the first page, many of which contain some of the most heartfelt support that I've ever seen anywhere on the internet.
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    Themisfit444Themisfit444 member
    Chill out! Most the ladies were amazing. Some of the other communities I went into, I had a bad experience. It really had nothing to do with May 15. I have the same experience on FB and other sites. People are just rude that doesn't mean everyone.
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    sarahchrismck said:

    I love how almost all these GBCB posts refer to us as "women."

    I don't get the quotations...are we not actually women, but something sort of resembling them??
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    Starbuck128 said:
    Themisfit444 said:
    Chill out! Most the ladies were amazing. Some of the other communities I went into, I had a bad experience. It really had nothing to do with May 15. I have the same experience on FB and other sites. People are just rude that doesn't mean everyone.
    If it had nothing to do with May 15, why are you posting this here? This post makes it seem like you're accusing us here.
    Because she's being a drama queen. Same reason she said GBCB and then is stalking and replying to her thread. Should we expect a lot of these trolls as some people have an excess of free time with the holidays?
    Yeah, probably. OP, stop it.
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    IFinTN said:

    Wtf OP...everyone was every nice on your post about your friends dropping you...starting to understand maybe why now.

    I really need to step up my game and remember who posts what bc yeah! I was one of many who were understanding and offered advice..... Bc that's the point right?
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    Bye, Felicia.

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    SarahDawn725SarahDawn725 member
    I don't get all these posts. It seems like everyone on here is nice as long as you don't show your ass. Even if people are rude...who cares? It's not that serious!
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    Themisfit444 said:
    I was so excited to discover the birth month club a couple days ago. I thought it was so awesome that I could communicate with other expecting women. Finally a safe place to turn and talk to people that are having my same type of experiences that I am. It started off great. I met some amazing women with similar situations as mine. My excitement was short lived when I discovered the abundance of cyber bullies on these threads. It almost feels like there are certain "women" who will find something wrong with anything you say. I went from feeling supported to quickly feeling ganged up on. It really turned me off. Thanks to those women who were supportive. I'm sure you will make amazing mothers. I'm concerned about all the negativity here. With that being said, I'm done posting my thoughts on here. To the girls that get entertained by being nasty to other women, thanks for ruining something that could have been a great tool for most of us. It's easy to say anything behind a computer screen. I'm done venting now. Good luck everyone!
    The irony is so thick in here.
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    You've been banished to the island of misfit toys lol!!


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    FutureMrs.Wilson1990FutureMrs.Wilson1990 member
    Amen! Alot of the "mothers" are rude as shit anytime someone posts anything on here. As seen in a lot of the replys you have received. God forbid a new mother to the site ask a question that was asked before she was part of the community and knows nothing about how to search through and find anything remotely similar to what she is looking for. I know I damn sure dont need this negative bullshit from people I don't know. And I am with you I will not be posting to this site any question I might possibly need an answer for.
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    NeverTooManyShoes said:
    Amen! Alot of the "mothers" are rude as shit anytime someone posts anything on here. As seen in a lot of the replys you have received. God forbid a new mother to the site ask a question that was asked before she was part of the community and knows nothing about how to search through and find anything remotely similar to what she is looking for. I know I damn sure dont need this negative bullshit from people I don't know. And I am with you I will not be posting to this site any question I might possibly need an answer for.
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    gtiniogtinio member
    Agree with you 100%!! The 'group' is useless just talk to your doctor or a close friend. The same thing happened to me so I just keep the app for other things. You are not alone with this observation. Too bad the bump let's this happen!
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    Sorry I am late to the party but what exactly is a WK?
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