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kirsty203 · December 2014

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Nikolie93 · December 2014

I am also sorry for your loss.

I agree with the PP. Here is the link she is referring to:

https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12383490/read-this-before-posting-here#latest

Acid reflux can be caused by many things, unfortunately your best bet is to wait to take a test.

If you are not pregnant please feel free to stick around and give/get support. If you are, please move over to PgAL. Good luck.

kirsty203 · December 2014

Yes thank u all for replying and letting me know u are not the correct people to ask. . I understand ur all angry and hurt and feel upset that I would ask u all such a question but under stand this. . I do understand ur liss as I have too had 2 of them!! And when someone asks me a question about something I'm open enough to not talk down to them and try and give them advice. I never meant to upset any of u but figured maybe someone out there would understand the anxiety and panic I'm going through!! Wish I K ew how to take myself and this post off the this site but seems I camt figure it out so NO NEED to reply to my post as I will not be reviewing it. Hope u all have a blessed holiday and safe new year.

kirsty203 · December 2014

Yes I was just replying to you post. Thank you as I am getting is from my OB amd ur correct they never give u information just tell u it shpuld work. It's only my 2nd month on it after trying for 8 months after our loss. And I didn't want to take it because I was worried about side effects. I will reach out to the doctor today and ask him my concerns. Thank you.

kirsty203 · December 2014

Yes reason is I hit reply and it went to your wall not sure why and that would be the reason I tried to take it down. Also. If u feel I over reacted then my apologies. Moving on I will be sure to follow the advise that was given. Also like I said on another post. My app on my phone sometimes shows things and some times dosent. So I deff missed the whole intro thing. So I will be going back to see if it's on my app. Best wishes for a happy holiday.

PinkCamino · December 2014

kirsty203 said:

Yes reason is I hit reply and it went to your wall not sure why and that would be the reason I tried to take it down. Also. If u feel I over reacted then my apologies. Moving on I will be sure to follow the advise that was given. Also like I said on another post. My app on my phone sometimes shows things and some times dosent. So I deff missed the whole into thing. So I will be going back to see if it's on my app. Best wishes for a happy holiday.

Hi @Kirsty203.

I'm so sorry for your loss and your struggles.

I just wanted to second what @petrastonegirl asked about your clomid use. From your original post it made it sound like you have been using clomid for 8 cycles. Then, I reread it and I *think* I understood that you started to use clomid after 8 unsuccessful cycles TTC after losing your son. Just to be extra careful and cautious that you're not in the first scenario I want to echo what PPs are telling you about clomid being dangerous. That drug can have some serious side effects that can permanently damage your fertility if taken incorrectly.

Again, so sorry for your loss.

buggirl72 · December 2014

kirsty203 said:
Yes thank u all for replying and letting me know u are not the correct people to ask. . I understand ur all angry and hurt and feel upset that I would ask u all such a question but under stand this. . I do understand ur liss as I have too had 2 of them!! And when someone asks me a question about something I'm open enough to not talk down to them and try and give them advice. I never meant to upset any of u but figured maybe someone out there would understand the anxiety and panic I'm going through!! Wish I K ew how to take myself and this post off the this site but seems I camt figure it out so NO NEED to reply to my post as I will not be reviewing it. Hope u all have a blessed holiday and safe new year.

OP, I am sorry for your loss. I wanted to respond to this because I don't think you understand why asking if this might be a pregnancy symptom is inappropriate here.

Our BFPs ended in losses. You are asking us to remember and dredge up what it was like in our 2WW before our pregnancy ended. Would you like to be reminded of that? Also, if this was a symptom that you had with your pregnancy and don't normally have, why are you asking us? You know it is a symptom you have had in the past.

kirsty203 · December 2014

@buggirl72 I deff understand.. but this is called TTC. and im sorry to say this but we are all re living that fear each month.. we relive the 2ww on anxiety and ups and downs and crying ourself to sleep over the ones we have lost. So i do deff unstand and i by noooooo way was trying to make any of you "remember and dredge up what it was like in our 2WW before our pregnancy ended." and to answere your question.. whould i like to be reminded of that time... I am reminded of it every month when i pray that this time will be diffirent that some how it will all turn out ok becuase i have to think of something bright to fill the darkness. if you are not ttc then you wont understand what im saying out re living it each month while ttc. again sorry if i have offended or upset you and anyone else on this site. not sure how else i can say sorry. And also not sure what else i can do to get this post to stop being seen so i dont upset people. because it the last thing im trying to do here.

welly01 · December 2014

kirsty203 said:

@buggirl72 I deff understand.. but this is called TTC. and im sorry to say this but we are all re living that fear each month.. we relive the 2ww on anxiety and ups and downs and crying ourself to sleep over the ones we have lost. So i do deff unstand and i by noooooo way was trying to make any of you "remember and dredge up what it was like in our 2WW before our pregnancy ended." and to answere your question.. whould i like to be reminded of that time... I am reminded of it every month when i pray that this time will be diffirent that some how it will all turn out ok becuase i have to think of something bright to fill the darkness. if you are not ttc then you wont understand what im saying out re living it each month while ttc. again sorry if i have offended or upset you and anyone else on this site. not sure how else i can say sorry. And also not sure what else i can do to get this post to stop being seen so i dont upset people. because it the last thing im trying to do here.

First, please try harder to spell/punctuate.

Second, you're still missing what buggirl is saying.

welly01 · December 2014

@kirsty203, deleting your post and putting a period is just going to bring more attention to this thread. Just FYI.

I hope you will at least take the advice to at least see an RE before continuing with clomid. Good luck on your journey.

blackbird818 · December 2014

.....and she went with the period. Shocker.

Also to the OP, previous posters have covered pretty much everything & given you great advice. I just want to ask if you are going to continue to post here, PLEASE for all that is holy, please use correct grammar & spelling (ie no text speak). @-) my eyes are killing me

rslh10 · December 2014

blackbird818 said:
.....and she went with the period. Shocker.

Also to the OP, previous posters have covered pretty much everything & given you great advice. I just want to ask if you are going to continue to post here, PLEASE for all that is holy, please use correct grammar & spelling (ie no text speak). @-) my eyes are killing me

The emoji

) I love you BB.

blackbird818 · December 2014

rslh10 said:

.....and she went with the period. Shocker.

Also to the OP, previous posters have covered pretty much everything & given you great advice. I just want to ask if you are going to continue to post here, PLEASE for all that is holy, please use correct grammar & spelling (ie no text speak). @-) my eyes are killing me
The emoji ) I love you BB.

seriously it was hurting me. I like maybe this is why @furrypaws eye was twitching

buggirl72 · December 2014

kirsty203 said:
@buggirl72 I deff understand.. but this is called TTC. and im sorry to say this but we are all re living that fear each month.. we relive the 2ww on anxiety and ups and downs and crying ourself to sleep over the ones we have lost. So i do deff unstand and i by noooooo way was trying to make any of you "remember and dredge up what it was like in our 2WW before our pregnancy ended." and to answere your question.. whould i like to be reminded of that time... I am reminded of it every month when i pray that this time will be diffirent that some how it will all turn out ok becuase i have to think of something bright to fill the darkness. if you are not ttc then you wont understand what im saying out re living it each month while ttc. again sorry if i have offended or upset you and anyone else on this site. not sure how else i can say sorry. And also not sure what else i can do to get this post to stop being seen so i dont upset people. because it the last thing im trying to do here.

Okay. I'm going to simplify this. Going up to a person that had a miscarriage and saying "hey! What were your pregnancy symptoms?" Is rude. In some cases, it's even cruel.

Telling me "i won't understand if I'm not TTC" is also rude.

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