This is my first Christmas as a mom and I want to start some traditions that we can carry through every year.
My In-laws live with us so it will be them + me, DH and LO (who is 8 months). They are European/Australian so they have a very different menu and very different traditions than I do and since I'm outnumbered I don't want to lose the Christmas feeling by doing it all their way.
Any suggestions for traditions to start or fun things to do/cook/prepare? TIA!
Re: Holiday Traditions after Baby?
Maybe you could do their favorite Christmas dish (one for each) for the meal. Also, do they celebrate a different day than on Christmas? Maybe you can do a smaller celebration on that day, for example: One thing we do for DH's side of the family is celebrate on Christmas Eve. His grandma was from Germany, and that's when she traditionally celebrated, so we've continued that tradition. Also, my grandma on my dad's side made a particular type of roll for all family get-together meals, and I've decided that I'm going to make those for our family meals (DH, LOs, my parents, and my sister) on Thanksgiving and Christmas.
You could always start something new, like watching a favorite Christmas movie on Christmas Eve or Christmas Night, or drive around and look at Christmas lights in your area. Maybe find a place to volunteer (e.g., ringing a Salvation Army bell, serving a meal to the homeless, etc.). Maybe make a keepsake Christmas ornament (this year you could do a handprint).
Have fun!!
Here are the things we do
Santa
Lights (drive through a set up or great area)
Sing to the elves on the front porch every night (my parents always had me be still and look for the elves as a child, so continuing that with a twist). The elves bring the kids' Christmas PJs and leave them wrapped in the front yard.
This year we are unwrapping a Christmas book and reading every night. As the kids sort of think this should be cumulative, this is taking an hour a night.
Adopt an angel and shop as a family
Family ornament every year (delivered by our Elf on the Shelf)
City Children's Parade
Walk in our town's parade (did this with ECPTA when they were little, now Girl Scouts)
Bake sugar cookies and refrigerator roll cookies (same as my childhood)
Decorate a gingerbread village