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PeachsMama · December 2014

I had a misscarriage.

I probably won't be on much the next few days.

[Deleted User] · December 2014

I'm so so sorry.

fitmama418 · December 2014

Jeez. I'm so sorry Peach. (((HUGS))) We'll all be here when you're ready to return.

Eboote · December 2014

So very sorry for your loss! Will be thinking about you. I feel like there is so much more to say, but all I can come up with is that it just sucks.

big hugs for you.

tikiroom · December 2014

I'm so sorry, sending thoughts and prayers your way.

JessLB1014 · December 2014

I am so sorry!

rbtrumpet · December 2014

So sorry! You're in my thoughts and prayers.

mwhipple77 · December 2014

So sorry. Many hugs, thoughts and prayers for you!

88sharonlee · December 2014

I'm so truly saddened to hear this news, i really didn't even want to open the thread but I want to show you as much support as a random internet stranger can in this tough time.

We are here for you to vent, cry whatever, wish there was more we could do.

So so sorry love.

mskatiep · December 2014

Hugs hunny. I am so sorry.

cagoldi · December 2014

I'm so sorry. We'll be here if you need to talk. Try to take care of yourself.

TJHine · December 2014

I am so so sorry. Big hugs and prayers
for you and your family.

mamasoup030 · December 2014

I'm so very sorry to hear this. My heart goes out to you and your DH.

Kfran84 · December 2014

I'm so, so sorry to hear this. I will be thinking of you.

PeachsMama · December 2014

Thank you everyone. I'm lurking and love titting when my phone allows. I'd love direction to groups/blogs that might be helpful. Literally no one in my life has experienced this. They're all trying to be nice and helpful but don't know what to say or do. My mil already threw out "it must not have been the right time" bull shit and "Gods plan" bull shit. I don't know about her God but my God doesn't take babies.. I'm angry. I'm sad. I don't know what to say. People keep asking how they can help, what do I need. I don't know. I'm just lost.

mbafall09 · December 2014

I am so very sorry @PeachsMama‌! The pregnancy loss board here on the bump was a huge help to me. I know I'm a stranger (and a sporadic poster around here), but please feel free to PM me. It's so hard when no one around you has experienced it, I hope that (as you are ready) you have people to help you through. Be kind to yourself, and take whatever time you need.

VegasGal1978 · December 2014

So sorry. Take care of yourself. Hugs.

margaerytyrell · December 2014

I'm so sorry for your loss.

Karadee1 · December 2014

I am so sorry for your loss. I am thinking of you.

Mum2Be28 · December 2014

I am so so so sorry! I just went through this 3 weeks ago. It's the worst feeling in the world. My heart aches for you. For me there hasn't been anything that anyone can say to make it better or easier to understand. But I am finding that time makes it easier. I'll never forget, and every day is hard, but each day gets a little easier. I hope that will be the same for you too.

Thinking of you! Big hugs!!

Jennybabe0706 · December 2014

So sorry for your loss. Hugs

Kim22 · December 2014

I'm so sorry.

[Deleted User] · December 2014

I am so sorry. I Hope you are able to get some rest. Hugs and prayers xo

megswen · December 2014

I am so sad to hear this, and so very sorry. Go love on that husband and toddler of yours. You are in my thoughts.

thelastunicornxo · December 2014

I am so so sorry to hear this. I haven't been around much, but this just broke my heart for you when I opened the thread. Sending lots of love your way.

housewifehair · December 2014

I am so sorry for your loss. I'll be thinking of you.

AlisonM12 · December 2014

I was hoping that was not what this thread was. So, SO sorry for you. Please take care of yourself and know that we are here if you need anything.

UntaggableKatie · December 2014

So So Sorry. Hugs and we are here when you need us

SV917 · December 2014

I'm so sorry, @PeachsMama‌.

ChantyPants477 · December 2014

Oh so incredibly sorry for your loss.

PeachsMama · December 2014

I forgot to call my doctor today because all 3 of us have that stomach bug so now I won't know until Monday if I have to have a d and c. ) : I'm so mad at myself. I don't know how I'm gonna get through the weekend thinking about it constantly..

PeachsMama · December 2014

kamakaziartist said:

PeachsMama said:
I forgot to call my doctor today because all 3 of us have that stomach bug so now I won't know until Monday if I have to have a d and c. ) : I'm so mad at myself. I don't know how I'm gonna get through the weekend thinking about it constantly..
Can you talk to the on call dr? I'm surprised they didn't give you a plan of action at your last appointment.

I'm sorry you're sick on top of all this.

I'll try that. They did. If my hcg levels are really high I have to have a d and c. If they're in the middle I have to have blood work every week until they're 0. I was supposed to call at 2 to talk to the doctor I saw but I spent 2 hours getting peach to nap so I completely forgot. He's so miserable.

sands42 · December 2014

I'm very sorry.... Thoughts and prayers to you and your family.

Mum2Be28 · December 2014

Peaches, if you do have to have the d and c I'll say this in hopes it gives you some relief. If I ever have to have another one I will not be afraid. It was so much easier than I thought.

I was so worried- I was scared to be put to sleep and not be with my son and I Was worried they would F up my uterus. But the procedure is so easy and in my case painless. She even prescribed me hydrocodone to take for the weeks following since I was pretty far along I think they expected me to have some pretty bad cramping. But I never had to take any pain meds.

I'm not sure how many weeks you are but you should have some choices as far as how you want to move forward. My loss was at 13ish weeks but I didn't find out until almost 16 weeks. My body never miscarried, but my dr did give me the option of taking some drugs to help me miscarry naturally if I prefered that route. But I opted to do the D and C.

PeachsMama · December 2014

I was 11 weeks but they think I lost her at 7. I passed slot of large clots when I had that bleeding so I'm hoping I don't have to do either option..

PeachsMama · December 2014

I'm so sorry so many of you can relate but I'm so grateful for the support and advice. I adore you all!

Mum2Be28 · December 2014

PeachsMama said:
I was 11 weeks but they think I lost her at 7. I passed slot of large clots when I had that bleeding so I'm hoping I don't have to do either option..

I'm so sorry you're having to go through this. I hope everything happened on its own so you won't have to go through anything else. Big hugs!

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