Up till now I've been following the "awake no more than 1.5-2 hours" philosophy for naps so no matter what time DS wakes, I put him down for his next nap no more than 2 hrs later. We've recently started having major night time sleep issue and the book I'm reading advocates for set nap times during the day (9 am, 12 pm and late afternoon). They assume these are 1 hour naps though and DS usually naps for 30-40 mins.
I'm a bit unsure now of what is best. Should I keep up the shorter, more frequent naps or should I set three times in the day and try to get him to sleep longer? Anyone have experience making this transition?
Re: Nap times vs. intervals
I don't have experience per say since I am a FTM, but my cousin a mom of 2U2 and I had this very conversation. She is a SAHM and followed an "interval" sleep schedule for her boys because they didn't have to always wake up at the same time. She had returned to work after her first LO and followed a set nap time (for the most part) for him during those 6 months.
In talking to her DH have decided to do a structured nap schedule for our LO except the first nap of the day. DH and I work different shifts so LO does not have to have a morning routine, but needs to have a more structured afternoon/evening do to my mom having to watch DS for 4 hours in the afternoon. So basically his morning nap (usually his longest of the day) happens about an hour after he wakes up. Then his afternoon/evening naps (30-45min) are basically at 1:00ish, 4:00, and a quick cat nap around 6:30 with bedtime at 9:00. Ultimately we want to drop the 6:30 nap and get an earlier bed time, but our efforts at attempting this so far have been vetoed by LO, so we aren't pushing.
So his naps are usually at 9:30-10 am, 1:30 ish and he naps for about 45 mins in his swing around 4:30.
His longest awake stretch is from 5 - 8-8:30.
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