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Does your SO know you are on TB?

HippoToothHippoTooth member
edited December 2014 in Trying to Get Pregnant

Does your SO know you are on TB? 294 votes

Yes, why wouldn't he.
58% 173 votes
No.
8% 26 votes
Yes, but not necessarily the extent that I am
20% 60 votes
I think he has an idea, but we don't discuss the details
10% 32 votes
SS. Explain.
1% 3 votes

Re: Does your SO know you are on TB?

  • My husband knows... but I don't think he knows how frequently I am on. ;)
    TTC #1 since Nov. 2014

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  • DH knows, I tell him about things I learn. He knew when I lurked on TN and I had to learn the hard way about proper forum etiquette. He doesn't want to know about the 'yucky' stuff so I keep him in the dark about CM and such. He gets a kick out of some of the siggys though. 
  • nuggetRNnuggetRN member
    edited December 2014

    As I have just recently even started chatting with you all (I have been lurking for an embarrassingly long time) no he really doesn't know. He knew that I frequented the knot when we were getting married because I was a little more involved over there. Has not really come up this time around

    edited - missing letters. must proofread before I submit!!

  • I mentioned I'm on a message board about trying to get pregnant I didn't say which
  • Yup! He always asks if I'm "bumping" :)

    This exactly!!
    Married to DH (aka the love of my life) since June 17th, 2006


  • Yes. He likes me to tell him about funny things that happen/are said on here. When he comes to tell me goodnight, he sees me on  my phone and asks, "You bumpin?" Yep.
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    April 2013-Came off BCP
    Cycles1-3: 70+ days ending w/ Provera
    Nov 2013: Dx w/ PCOs and started Pregnitude
    Cycles 4-5: Cycling with Prometrium- Still no ovulation
    Cycle 6: Finally O'd by myself on CD 29 (7 day LP)
    Cycles 7-10: Late ovulation and short LPs
    Sept 2014-Finally making an RE appointment! 9/24
    10/1-began metformin; 10/16 HSG= All clear! SA= super sperm
    Cycle 12: Nov 2014-2.5 mg femara + TI = BFN
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  • Between laughing and throwing fits over trolls I would never be able to keep TB from him.  I'm new HERE but previous to this I was relatively active on my BMB so he's been dealing with my mobile bumping problems for a while.
    12/2007  Engaged  *  1/2010 Married  *  2/2014 Started TTC
    4/2014 1st BFP  *  8/2014 Caleb Emmanuel became an angel  *  11/2014 Started TTC Again
    1/2015 BFP * 9/21/2015  EDD 

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  • He knows. He doesn't care very much. He's extremely interested in my FF chart, more so than me at times! Which might sound weird, but he totally geeks out over numbers and charts. But as for bumping, he's "meh" over it. He just wants to see what I'm laughing at and that's pretty much it.
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  • He knows but he's not really interested in what goes on. We don't really nose into each other's online lives. I do share names from Baby Names with him all the time which he thinks is fun. Bumping to me is like broadcasting video games to him. I think broadcasting is boring and he thinks bump is boring.


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    **Love = August 12, 2012**
    **Marriage = July 4, 2014**
    **Baby Carriage = TBD**

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  • He knows! I talk about you guys all the time and I play cah and chat a lot so it would be hard to hide it. Also he is always looking at the gifs that are posted, sometimes I let him help me pick them cause it makes him special. Haha
  • DorkyMamaDorkyMama member
    edited December 2014
    He knows I'm on a pregnancy/TTC message board. He doesn't know what it's called, though. I've always been a forum, message board, social media, Reddit, etc. kind of person, even before I met him, and way before Facebook ever existed (remember Yahoo chat rooms and Livejournal??). So, even if I didn't tell him I was hanging out here, he'd assume I was doing something of the sort!
    together since '03 / married since '14 / started TTC Dec '14 / Holy shit! BFP 12/28/14!
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  • He knows. I'm not sure if he knows how often I lurk but he knows it is a part of my day.

    Me: 25 DH: 26
    Married 11/12/11
    BFP 12/17/11
    DS 8/29/12 via C-section
    TFAS 3/2014
    BFP #2 5/25/15 EDD 2/4/2016
    It's a BOY!
  • My husband knows I'm on here and he is interested by it when he sees me giggling on our couch at the computer and he asks, "is that the bump thing?" He likes that I have other people to talk to about our TTC journey then just ourselves. 

    Love: April 2012
    Married: November 23, 2013
    TTC #1 September 2014
    **BFP January 12th 2015  EDD September 22nd 2015**
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  • He doesn't know, only because it hasn't been brought up and I really don't know how I would bring it up.

    Married 07/13/13

    DH-25 & Me-21

    Fur baby- Chevy (Jack Russell)

    TTC #1 Sept '14


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  • She knows about TK (she calls them "The naughty girls", spelled like that too), and now she's aware I'm on TB (no nickname for you guys yet...I'm sorry...we'll work on it). 

    She'll read over my shoulder, or I'll even send her links and be all "read this". She doesn't get internet forums, so she won't go on them herself, but she'll totally read what I'm reading and give her opinion. 
    Me 28 and FI 28
    Together since 7-4-2004
    Getting married 11-1-2014
    Tentative TTC date December 2014
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  • Mine knows. And is glad I have someone to ask my questions to when I get confused or need verification. He also asks "Am I bumping?" :P
    Married to LOML: 8/14/12

     TTC #1: Oct. 2014


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  • Mine knows I'm on a forum and I may have told him it was the getting pregnant version of TK... he knew I was on TK. He doesn't ask much and I don't share much other than if someone else has had a similar experience or had good advice that worked for them.  During our wedding I used to use the ettiquete board to steer him in new directions... 
    me:41   dh:43 
    Off Mirena Nov 2013, On Nuvaring end of Jan, Back off Sept 2014.  Never ending cycle starting end of Sept... 
    11/14 Provera failed... cycle continues 
    12/14 High FSH (57 "midcycle")  OBGYN had no clue... about anything 
    01/15 More lab results coming back from RE. U/S showed small (1")cyst on left ovary, thin lining, and couldn't locate right ovary so  possibly straight to DE and IVF 

    Occassionally mess with the chart below to see "what if" and learn (not to make it pretty but because FF stays drunk with me).  

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  • Same here, DH asks if I'm "bumpin'." He's been so supportive throughout this process. He knows I need help with all of this and that TB is just what I need. He never gets upset if I'm playing CAH or lurking. He asks when we're going to a Duck's game @danacullyx lol.
    Even though you left out a letter from my name, @getzystark, you are welcome anytime! We will make those Ducks win!
    TB is dead.




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  • He knows, because he wondered how I knew so much information about TTC and cloth diapers. Plus, he sees the icon on the tablet we share. I don't think he's interested at all, though. I don't discuss details unless we're already talking about something on that topic and I recall something from TB. I think he appreciates that I have another outlet for my baby-talk.
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  • He sure does! He gets concerned though, about internet privacy and sometimes is skeptical of the legitimacy of the people online. He gets worried for my safety, I suppose. I explain to him that not all of y'all are bonkers :)

    I kid, I kid. I tell him to appreciate TB because without it, he would get stuck with all my bitching and cycle talk.
    Me: 29 DH: 34 Married 9/8/12 Started TTC 10/01/12
    Dx: Hypothalamic amenorrhea by RE in 2/2013
          Provera + Ovidrel trigger = BFP #1 3/24/13
    DD born 11/12/13
    TTC #2 since 9/01/14
    Tamoxifen + Ovidrel trigger = CP (cycle 3)

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  • DH know I am on a pregnancy board but does not ask any questions. I try to get on at night especially when he is playing the PS4. I think its an even trade off. 
  • DH even asks me if there have been any new shanangas everyday hahahahaha
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