Trouble TTC a Sibling

I'm jealous of a cow...

A friend of mine who is pregnant with #2 has a farm in our town that she and her husband started. Yesterday she announced on FB how their cow is "FINALLY" pregnant after months of trying and I found myself shaking my head and thinking "even the damn cow is pregnant! WTF?!?" And feeling jealous of said cow. Of course there was also a pic of the cow to go with the announcement. I found this to be my new low...jealous of a cow. Anyone else have a "new low" recently??

ME: 35 DH: 39

Married July 2011

DD Born 8/12

TTC #2 since 11/13

ME: Submucosal Fibroid Surgery Date APRIL 14th 2015 -Left Tube is blocked by Fibroid~Surgeon removed 26 Fibroids from my Ute and Unblocked my Tube

DH:Azoospermia...Thank God we have 12 vials of frozen swimmers

July 15-Check to see if Ute is all healed

IUI #1 8/3/15...BFN

IUI #2 9/5/15...BFP on 9/17/15

Beta #1-344

Beta #2-809

Beta #3 8,390

1st u/s 8/8/15 1 bean HB 135 @ 6w5d



Re: I'm jealous of a cow...

  • My sister, best friend, and sister-in-law all just found out they are pregnant within the last couple of weeks. I'm trying really hard to be happy for them, but it's so hard. Especially since none of them were trying for a baby and it was more of an OH NO than a YAY lol. If I don't get pregnant soon I'm not gonna be able to be around them once they start getting bellies :(
    Me-30     DH-28
    BFP #1-EDD 04/06/2001, DS born 04/02/2001
    BFP #2-EDD 08/12/2006, DD born 08/19/2006
    TTC #3 since 6/12
    BFP #3-M/C in August 2012 at 6 weeks
    BFP #4-M/C in January 2013 at 9 weeks
    11/14-blood work, ultrasound, and DH SA all normal
    12/14-1st cycle of Clomid; BFN
    1/15-2nd cycle of Clomid
  • Today there was a very pregnant woman standing behind me in line at Target. I honestly wanted to hear her complain so I could say something snarky to her. I'm not usually bitter, and it certainly isn't that random woman's fault I'm not in her shoes, but I wanted her to feel bad just for a minute. For all I know it took her multiple years to conceive.
    Hannah born 4/5/11
    TTC #2 since 1/14
    Miscarriage d/t blighted ovum 8/14
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  • @Leah2489 That's rough! Especially because of the oh no factor!

    @Mamababyrn I hear you on those moments!! But like you said we have no idea how long it took her. HUGS!

    ME: 35 DH: 39

    Married July 2011

    DD Born 8/12

    TTC #2 since 11/13

    ME: Submucosal Fibroid Surgery Date APRIL 14th 2015 -Left Tube is blocked by Fibroid~Surgeon removed 26 Fibroids from my Ute and Unblocked my Tube

    DH:Azoospermia...Thank God we have 12 vials of frozen swimmers

    July 15-Check to see if Ute is all healed

    IUI #1 8/3/15...BFN

    IUI #2 9/5/15...BFP on 9/17/15

    Beta #1-344

    Beta #2-809

    Beta #3 8,390

    1st u/s 8/8/15 1 bean HB 135 @ 6w5d



  • I have started stalking the One and Done board.  I don't know why I feel so pessimistic about our future.  I guess I am just trying to prepare myself. 

    Also, I refuse to pack tampons for my out of state vacation.  AF is due right in the middle, but I am only bring my progesterone suppositories in case I get a BFP instead of AF.  Murphy's law right?

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  • "Even the damn cow!" is giving me a much-needed laugh today.  Lots of love to you right now!
    DS: 11/11
    TTC #2 since March 2014. BFP in April 2014; MMC @8w. CP December 2014 @5w
  • LOL, Sorry @NB817 but I loved your post.  "Even the damn cow." I can't top that :) 
    DS: Born November 2011
    TTC #2 since April '13
    DH 35, Me: 34
    DX: Unexplained Secondary Infertility, Slight DOR
    Sept 14 - IUI (Clomid + Ovidrel) = BFN
    Oct 14 - IUI (Clomid + Ovidrel + Progesterone) = BFN
    Nov 14- Benched due to cysts Looking for New Doc
    Feb - IUI #3 (Letrozole + Ovridrel)
    March/April - IVF #1 - Antagonist Protocol - Follistim+HGH+Low Dose HCG - 11R/9M/5F - 2 8 cell 3dtransfer - BFN on April 23, 2014


  • A coworker that I share an office with just starting trying this month. I know I'm crazy because I am confident she will get pregnant on the first try and I'm already jelous. :(
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