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Kikabell · December 2014

Hello. I think it is time to join this board. I have been TTC a sibling since August 2013. I had an HSG done back in October. We have now moved forward with my husband having a SA done. I went in to see my doctor today about our next steps and was told they will refer me to a fertility clinic as we have exhausted all our other options. I have been diagnosed with unexplained infertility. I just need somewhere to go where people will understand what I am going through. When I was first pregnant two other ladies at work were also pregnant we went through the pregnancies together and now one has already had a second and the other one just announced she is pregnant again. With that comes all our coworkers asking me when we are going to have another and why are we waiting so long. I'm so tired of it. I just want to cry but instead I'll put my big girl pants on now and get ready for my new cycle.

megastar007 · December 2014

Welcome

Sorry you have to join us... I hope your stay is short!

welly01 · December 2014

I'm sorry you find yourself here. Welcome.

NB817 · December 2014

Welcome. I'm sorry you have to be here. I completely understand how you feel! When we got pregnant with DD we had 12 other friends pregnant too that we went thru pregnancies with and all but one have another baby by now. And the one that doesn't is because they haven't started trying yet.

I also often get the "So when is Faith getting a sibling??" I've started to react like this, "We've actually been trying for over a year now and its obviously not going so well". That usually stuns them enough to not have them ask me again.

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mushE · December 2014

Welcome! I hope you get some answers soon.

Kikabell · December 2014

@NB817‌ I've started to tell those that have asked several times just to shut them up. Although it still hurts inside it gives me a little pleasure to see their face and them squirm their way out of the conversation.

NB817 · December 2014

Kikabell said:

@NB817‌ I've started to tell those that have asked several times just to shut them up. Although it still hurts inside it gives me a little pleasure to see their face and them squirm their way out of the conversation.

Yeah it's a short high because the next time I see them I get the head tilt with the "how's it going?" with the pity look.
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