9 dpo.. brown spotting??

runner76 · December 2014

okay not sure what to think,really don't wanna get hopes us again.. I just went to the bathroom and wiped and had brown when I wiped.. I don't ever get spotting this early.. I am not due till next wedneday.. my temp was 98.1 today and cover line is 97.5.. my temping has been off this week cause I am sleeping horrible. My boobs are more sore than usual. ( they hurt to lift my arms other day) but today they don't seem as bad

thoughts ?

betch78 · December 2014

Sounds a lot like implantation spotting to me. Timing is right. Fingers crossed for you! Keep us posted.

URMySunshine77 · December 2014

Implantation spotting only happens in around 10% of pregnancies.

Please stop using the forum as your Google search engine.

rspalding001 · December 2014

I know its easy to stress and overthink. Just try and relax... wait until next week then take a test. RELAX

runner76 · December 2014

thank u.. im trying

Nikolie93 · December 2014

Seriously @runner76‌ ? I'm typically very, very, supportive but you do these drive by posts, you ask questions like we are Google when you should ask your Dr, I don't see much support from you, and you very seldom come back to even respond to people's responses in threads you start.

I wish you luck but, FYI, this is a give support and get support community.

emsmama15 · December 2014

Thank you @URMySunshine77‌ and @Nikolie93‌ for sticking up for our board.

happyktmom · December 2014

URMySunshine77 and Nikolie93, you are the reasons I don't go on these boards anymore. I too look for support but whenever I would post, I would have some B pounce on me treating me like I was stupid. Is that really what we're here for? I don't know you chicks from anyone, but COME ON! Are we only allowed to ask certain questions? are we only allowed to ask what eachothers favorite colors are on the GTKY? Let's pull ourselves together and really support.

Davie813 · December 2014

@happyktmom‌, First, it looks like this is your first post, so unless this is (hmmm...) a new username you created to write this, you sure gave up on the boards fast! --------- Second, @URMySunshine77‌ and @nicolie93 are two of the reasons I _stay_ on these boards. They are incredibly supportive. Support is being an active part of the community and, yes, actually getting to know your fellow bumpies--favorite colors or not. It's not answering basic questions for people who give nothing back and reassuring them that, sure, they're probably pregnant, on cue. -------- Third, it is intensely irritating when people are told repeatedly how this board does and doesn't work, and choose to disregard it. If you have an Internet connection and can get here to ask one-sided questions that you pretty obviously want a particular answer to, you can get to Google to do the same thing. And you'll probably like what you see there better, so: win-win! -------- ETA, on my phone. Stupid paragraphs.

KirstenAlecia · December 2014

@URMySunshine77 and @Nikolie93 are actually VERY supportive members of this board. Poke your head around and look at past post and you would see that. I personally have received tons of support from them as have others.

Please don't come in here with clearly a brand new account and expect anyone to believe that you know what happens here or what kind of board members they are.

This board is an amazing place......and very understanding but there are members who will step in when they feel something is off.

MySallyGirl · December 2014

@happyktmom‌ you obviously haven't hung around much or read many past posts if you don't realize why runner76 got the responses she did and why it's not surprising or uncalled for at all.

hooligans4 · December 2014

Wow a white knight on our board. I never ever thought I would see that. Crap I've been here way too long.
... Hangs head #-o

CML11 · December 2014

@happyktmom‌ these boards are about giving and getting and getting support. IRL I don't tell people about my tough battle with infertility because my friends and family don't get it. So I have been a part of this community for about a year now, and yes a lot of these ladies I have gotten to know well. They are very supportive with my struggles, because I've been supportive for them. For us it's fun to talk about other things than our IF battles. And if you had been around at all you would know there hasn't been a GTKY post asking what your favorite color is.
If you were to look at OP's history you would see she comes here when AF is here to ask us if the brown spotting and sore boobs means she's pregnant, then bolts till next month. Maybe you think that's what this community is for, but we do not.

Nikolie93 · December 2014

Thanks for sticking up for me ladies :x

And I think this is the first time I've been called a B. I think she meant bitch

On a serious note @happyktmom‌ , this is the first time I've ever "pounced" (if that's what it is) on anyone on this board and I post quite a bit. I only did so after multiple posts from runner76 where she asked questions that her Dr needs to be answering, not the ladies of this board, or things she can easily Google. The most frustrating part is when everyone spends the time answering and giving advice yet the advice is never taken and she very seldom comes back to respond.

Many ladies here are going through shitty shit so getting support back is needed.

I thought long and hard before I responded to her and I don't regret doing so.

boymamaco · December 2014

I'm not even around that much but have been on/off the boards for years. Even I thought runner76's posts were egregious. Go back two months and read through before you use one post as an example.

vh2014 · December 2014

lucyspeople said:
Even I thought runner76's posts were egregious. Go back two months and read through before you use one post as an example.

This.

I feel like WK showed up to see if they could make our peaceful board drama filled. Adding them to my do not reply list, lol.

emsmama15 · December 2014

I'd have to agree with @vh2014. I think someone noticed we're pretty much drama free and wanted to stir something up. Ugh!

happyktmom · December 2014

Ladies,
I've been on these boards for 5 years now under a different name. I stepped away and shut down my account and started a new one for personal reasons. (nothing exciting - just my username was my full actual name and I was going for a security clearance and wanted some privacy so it was the only way) I assumed this lady was being 'pounced' on because I only looked at this one post. I don't have the time to go back and read and I just became really emotional reading this one post last night and thought I'd stand up for someone. I was 'pounced' on repeatedly in this same forum... about ovulation dates and testing and mentioning a child and ticker warnings and proper ways of doing things. I just don't want to have to worry about stuff like that so I will become a lurker from now on. I get curious if someone out there is going through what I am going through and just want to seek community, much like the rest of you. Good luck to everyone and sorry for causing drama.

hooligans4 · December 2014

@happyktmom this board is NOT like the others and if you are over 35 I encourage you to join us.
We do not have drama here but in the case of this poster we are a little fed up because we have tried several times to give her sound, honest advice. We do not pounce on this board, we discuss and give honest advice like grownups.
I have been here a LONG time and I love it here.
We are a family and will accept everyone who wants to join the family with open arms if they want to participate. That means both give and get support. If you have been a part of the bump you know how that works.
Again I will say to join us if you are over 35 and ttc but if you were just lurking on our board I hope you find somewhere you fit in because we all know ttc can be stressful and lonely if you have no one you can vent to.

I wish you well and I hope we can all just move on from this.

sonpetitlapin · December 2014

@happktmom I am sorry but you sound very selfish. Reread your last post. "I don't have time to look into the history." So instead, you pounced and make ASSumptions. Don't take a leap until you have all the information.

How selfish is it of you to be upset that you are requested to state loss or living child and to have a ticker warning. What about that punch in the gut some of these women get when they open a post and read about a living child and it is blaring in a sigg when they have tried for a long time, even years to have a child and/or encountered loss(s). It is called common courtesy and respect where someone is.

And you obviously was not that involved on these boards because if you knew @urmysunshine77 and @nikolie93 they are one of the MOST supportive and sweetest contributors on this board. Get off your selfish high house.

kelley72 · December 2014

@happyktmom welcome to the ttc Over 35 board, a board of mature, helpful, insightful, funny and intelligent women. Women not here to blow smoke up anyone's ass. If you received drama it wasn't on this board. I've been around for over three years, pre my last pregnancy and now again. Stick around, get to know the active members and you will receive laughter, support, and information. Several of us have children and we don't do too much on sticker warnings and even if you post something egregious just apologize and edit your damn post it really isn't a big deal. If you don't care for honesty and straight talk then see ya

ps all of that has been told to op MANY times. I don't even address her at this point

gscoville · December 2014

runner76 said:

okay not sure what to think,really don't wanna get hopes us again.. I just went to the bathroom and wiped and had brown when I wiped.. I don't ever get spotting this early.. I am not due till next wedneday.. my temp was 98.1 today and cover line is 97.5.. my temping has been off this week cause I am sleeping horrible. My boobs are more sore than usual. ( they hurt to lift my arms other day) but today they don't seem as bad thoughts ?

Thoughts? I think that I and others here have REPEATEDLY requested that you

a) link your chart (we can't tall you anything when you list off random temps)

b) offer support to others once in a while rather than just treating us like another Google

c) read the FF tutorials, inform yourself as we have all done, and stop asking the same damn questions we can't answer because you can't be bothered to do some reading for yourself

Until you can do these things, I for one do not feel like offering any help anymore. It's a waste of time and breath, you never listen anyways.

katie0919 · December 2014

runner76 said:

okay not sure what to think,really don't wanna get hopes us again.. I just went to the bathroom and wiped and had brown when I wiped.. I don't ever get spotting this early.. I am not due till next wedneday.. my temp was 98.1 today and cover line is 97.5.. my temping has been off this week cause I am sleeping horrible. My boobs are more sore than usual. ( they hurt to lift my arms other day) but today they don't seem as bad thoughts ?

Thoughts? My thoughts are, you're not pregnant. And stop using this board as your own Dr. Google and never providing any actual support.

Seriously though, I have spotting starting at 6, 7, 8 or 9 DPO almost every month and my RE has diagnosed me with weak ovulation - the corpus luteum therefore does not produce enough progesterone, which therefore makes your uterine lining weak, which therefore produces spotting before your period is due. IB is something that is in hind sight and VERY RARE. Now, stop trolling and go use Baby Center for this kind of sh*t. Your posts make it hard to believe you're actually an over-35 yr old woman, because you sound like a naive teenager. I'm usually not this blunt or "rude" as I'm sure I'll be called by someone, but EVERY TIME I get on this board (which isn't really all that often) there is another post from you like this.

URMySunshine77 · December 2014

Thanks to my friends for all of the kind words about me, @Nikolie93, and the rest of the >35 community.

I will not remain silent when I see posters continually post questions about themselves without interacting. They are questions that can easily be answered through a search engine. Just Google "implantation bleeding" with "thebump.com" and there are hundreds of answers on the board. In fact, I often search for answers that are already on the site so that I don't have to expose the board with my personal craziness.

hooligans4 · December 2014

@URMySunshine77 I love your kind of craziness!!!! 8-}

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