TTC After a Loss

Hello, beautiful people. (Intro)

HEY! Just wanted to poke my head in as a new member. I've been a part of the bump under two separate screen names, both given up with my first loss in may at 9 weeks and the other with my second loss in October at 12 weeks- just too tough to keep up with the fruit measurements when there was no longer a bun in the oven to squeal over. I promise to pep up my new alias with an avatar so I'm more recognizable ASAP, when I can grow the balls to access the bump directly without getting triggered (for now I just load the TTCAL blog directly from mobile.)

Both miscarraiges were missed with no indication anything was wrong until an ultrasound, but my losses have hardened both mine and my husbands resolve to keep trying. I had the gammet of blood work and fetal testing run to show no major issues causing the miscarraiges other than shitty luck. I wish I could say this helps me feel better, but it still worries me for next time.


I was super active in the April '15 board- almost a little too active- so I may be in and out here (just a silly superstition:"maybe I should act differently next time!"), but wanted to say hi and let you ladies know you have been my savior after each of my losses. Looking at a Facebook feed full of friends complaining about no sleep because of their newborns or having your inner circle all deliver healthy kiddos in the last six month period has made it difficult to keep my shit together, and I've found refuge in lurking on these threads; it truly is helpful to feel I'm not alone in my loss or journey to move forward.

Looking forward to getting to know you all better! And, above all else, thank you.
started TTC 3/2014 & got hitched 4/2014
husbter's a 38 y/o smarty pants phD/me? a 27 y/o cat lady extraordinaire
& we're missing our darling barnacles:
May 2014 loss @ 9 weeks, MMC, no hb found at first appointment | edd dec 4 2014
October 2014 loss @ 12 weeks, MMC measuring 10w after hearing hb @ 8w | edd apr 15, 2015
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Re: Hello, beautiful people. (Intro)

  • I am so very sorry for your losses. Welcome to the board.

    Married 9/13/14

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    Me: 24 / DH: 24

    BFP#1 10/15/14 - EDD 6/19/2014 - MC 10/23/14

    BFP #2: 12/18/14 - EDD: 8/31/15 - MC 1/4/14 5w6d

    **Currently Benched until TBD**

    My Chart


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  • I am so sorry for your losses. Welcome.

    Me: 31 DH: 36
    Dated Since ‘02, Married in ‘06
    BFP#1 05/16/06, EDD01/16/07, MC 06/12/06 at 8 weeks
    BFP #2 08/14/14, EDD 04/22/15, MC 09/17/14 at 9 weeks

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     My Chart

  • Welcome.  I'm sorry for your losses.
                                                                                              BFP #1 3/2/12, T born 11/7/12
                                                                                                 BFP #2  7/2/14, CP 7/6/14
                                 BFP #3 8/28/14, MMC 10/2/14 @ 9wks - misoprostol 10/6/14, D&C 11/3/14 for retained tissue
                                       BFP #4 12/25/14, EDD 9/7/15 - please stick baby, you are so loved and wanted!!!!!                                                                                           
                                                                                                                                                   
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  • I am sorry for your losses.  Welcome, I hope that you find support and peace here.
    "S15 January Siggy Challange - Happy Dance"
    Jimmy Fallon Dance

    Married: 10/4/2013
    TTC Since September 2014
    BFP 11/30/2014 ~ EDD 8/13/2015 ~ CP 12/5/2014
    BFP #2 12/30/2014 ~ EDD 9/13/2015 Stick bean stick!
  • I'm very sorry for your losses.  I hope that you find the comfort and support that you are looking for here.  ((((HUGS))))
    TTC #3 since 8/2012 image
    DX Endometriosis 2/2002 (lost left tube due to a cyst), PCOS
    6/2010
     BFP - 10/18/2012, EDD - 6/26/2013, Baby Girl lost at 22 weeks (T21), D&E 2/15/2013
    BFP - 4/23/2014, EDD - 1/2/2015 Twin Boys lost at 12 weeks, M/C 6/25/2014

    My chart here  All ALers welcome!
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    June 3Missing Our January Snowflake
  • Welcome to the board. I'm so sorry for your losses.
    BFP #1: 5-14-2010, DD born 1-22-2011
    BFP #2: 4-20-2012, Natural MC 5-1-2012
    BFP #3: 7-19-2012, DS born 3-27-2013
    BFP #4: 9-13-2014, MMC discovered 10-27-14 at 10w, d&c on 11-6-14 

  • To use definitely not alone here . Sorry for your losses. *hugs*

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    Lilypie Second Birthday tickers

  • Welcome to the board. I'm sorry for your losses. Shitty luck is shitty. I was an April '15 mom too.
    Lilypie Third Birthday tickers Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers 
    BFP #1 DS born 10/16/12 at 39w6d
    BFP #2 DD lost 11/17/14 at 17w2d
  • I'm so sorry for your losses. Thanks for speaking up. I love hearing that we comforted you without even knowing it. I hope you join in the conversation. Welcome.
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    Hubs & I -29 • Met 5/18/04 • Married 5/8/10
    BFP #1 DS 2/7/11 (Born @ 34 wks via ECS due to Pre-e) TTC #2 since Aug '13
    DX Low AMH (.58) March '14 • FSH-7.5 • E2-35.5 (Nov '14)
    SA- Great numbers • SIS- Clear (Nov '14)
     Cycle 1- Clomid CD3-7 & Trigger-BFP • EDD 1/12/15 
    Ectopic @ 5w6d • Methotrexate Shot 5/18/14
    Cycle 2,3,4- Clomid CD3-7 & Trigger-- BFN
    Cycle 5- Letrozole CD3-7 & Trigger BFFN
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    • Everyone Welcom
    TTCAL January Siggy Challenge • Animal Snow Interactions
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  • I'm so sorry for your losses. Every other Monday we have a Multiple Loss Ladies check-in that you are welcome to join. The next time it will be posted is Dec. 22. Please pop in and say hi if you're interested.
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    DX: I'm a Recurrent Loser
    Me (35) + DH (37) - Married Sept. 2007
    BFP #1 - DS born 7/11/11
    BFP#2 11/13/13 - EDD 7/29/14 - M/C at 5w3d
    BFP #3 12/28/13 - EDD 9/7/14 - M/C at 4w6d
    BFP#4 3/27/14 -  EDD 12/5/14 - Girl lost to 45X at 8w6d - D&C 
    BFP#5 10/15/14 - EDD 6/30/15 - M/C at 7w2d
    BFP #6 1/5/15 - EDD 9.16.14 [CLICKY for progress]
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  • Welcome to the board! I'm very sorry for your losses.
    Me: 26 DH:28
    TTC - Sept 2014
    # 1 BFP - October 5, 2014 EDD June 5, 2015 CP - October 14, 2014


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    TTCAL January Siggy Challenge: Animal Interactions in the Snow
  • I am so sorry for your losses but welcome here! 
    I am not sure how to say this without getting a "solicitation" warning so I guess I just say that I am not longer active on THIS site. 



  • I'm very sorry for your losses, but welcome to the board. 

    I know how you feel about Facebook… for the sake of my sanity, I've had to unfollow a lot of people who constantly post pictures of their babies/toddlers, obsessively document their pregnancies, or complain about how much they miss their sleep since they became parents. You are not alone! I hope you find the support and comfort you need here. 
    * Me: 31, DH: 33 * Married 10.16.10 * Parents of our furbaby Sophie *
    BFP: 8.28.14 | EDD 5.6.15 | MMC Discovered 9.25.14 (8 weeks)| D&C 9.30.14

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    "Everybody here has got a story to tell. Everybody's been through their own hell. There's nothing too special about getting hurt, but getting over it that takes the work. Because one way or another, we all need each other. Nothing's going to turn out the way you thought it would. Friends and lovers, don't you duck and cover because everything comes out the way it should in the end." -Glen Phillips, "Duck and Cover" 


  • I'm sorry for your loss. Welcome.




    Me-27 DH-29

     TTC#1 January 2013

    BFP February 27th 2014, MMC ended in D&C

    Working on our rainbow!

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    Curious about my ute?


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  • Welcome and I am very sorry for your losses. 

    praying
    • now somewhere where the love flows •
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  • Welcome, I'm sorry for your losses.  ::hugs:: 
    Me (29) + DH (31) = Married 9 1/2 years
    BFP 11/9/14 - EDD 7/15/15 - natural MC at 8w5d   
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  • Welcome to the board. So sorry for your losses. I know how you feel about Facebook, I completely deleted mine.
    ((Hugs))
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  • I'm so sorry for your losses. Welcome.
    TTC since August 2013 BFP #1 1/15/14...MMC 2/24/14...D&C 3/3/14 BFP #2 5/11/14 ... severe pre-e placental abruption our angel born sleeping at 22 weeks Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
  • I'm sorry for your losses. Welcome to the board.
    Together since April 2004.  Married since June 19th, 2010.
     BFP #1: January 31st 2012: CP. 
     BFP #2: June 1st 2012, Due:2/8/13. Avery was born via unplanned c section on 2/13/13. 
     BFP #3: Sept. 25th, 2014. Due: 6/5/15.  MMC on 10/23/14. Confirmed complete molar pregnancy per D&C 10/29/14, 
    HCG officially negative 12/10/14.  Benched until June 2015.
                                                        
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  • I am sorry for your losses. Welcome.
    TTCAL January Siggy Challenge: Animals in the Snow

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    About Me: 

    AMA 35 :  DH 33
    BFP#1 1/26/14 (EDD: 10/7/14).  MMC 3/10/14 D&C 3/14/14
    RE Consult 11/3/14 - AMH 2.25 "great" . FSH 7.10 . Low Vitamin D
    Myomectomy 12/17/14.  Benched until March.

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    My Ovulation Chart
  • So sorry for your losses and ditto on the facebook. I had 2 MMC this year as well and have had to delete my facebook because seeing how many people have had babies since I got pregnant for the first time just makes it so much harder :( 
  • Welcome. Sorry for your losses.
    Me: 27 My Love: 29
    Married Since: 4/2012

    TTC Since: 5/2014
    BFP: 11/5/15   MC: 11/26/2014


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  • So sorry for your loss!
    Me: 33, DH: 32  
    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickersLilypie Maternity tickers
  • HI! Welcome and I am so sorry for your losses love.

  • I'm so sorry for your losses. Welcome.
  • Thanks, ladies. Don't take offense if I take a few hours to respond--- sometimes I bingebump. This place has become my own virtual blanket fort so I thought it only fair if I piped up and introduced myself.

    so sorry for others' losses, especially my fellow A-15'ers. This sucks.
    started TTC 3/2014 & got hitched 4/2014
    husbter's a 38 y/o smarty pants phD/me? a 27 y/o cat lady extraordinaire
    & we're missing our darling barnacles:
    May 2014 loss @ 9 weeks, MMC, no hb found at first appointment | edd dec 4 2014
    October 2014 loss @ 12 weeks, MMC measuring 10w after hearing hb @ 8w | edd apr 15, 2015
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  • So sorry for your losses! It is so comforting knowing that you're not alone. That has been the best medicine for me. Best of luck on future sticky babies!
  • Welcome, so sorry for your losses



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    My FF Chart:
    http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/490dd7
    TTC #3 since June 2013
    BFP #1 7/21/2013--EDD 3/30/14--D&C 9/24/13
    BFP #2 1/28/14--MC 2/7/14

    IUI #1 5mg Femara + trigger = BFN
    IUI #2 5mg Femara + trigger = BFN
    IUI #3 5mg Femara + trigger = BFN
    IVF #1, Stimmed for 12 days, ER 8/22/14, 9 retrieved, 7M, 7F!!  Freeze all due to fluid in uterus.
    FET end of October 2014 cancelled due to fluid in uterus due to possible c-scar defect
    Surgery scheduled 12/12/14 to fix possible isthmocele
    3/26/15 transferred one 8 cell grade 4 embryo and one 6 cell grade 3 embryo = slow rising betas for 2+ weeks = ectopic MTX shot 4/29/15
    Repeat c-scar surgery June 2015
    2nd and last IVF cycle August 2015, stimmed for 12 days, 2 egg retrieved, both mature and both fertilized.  Transferred both 8-cell embryos on Day 3, beta 9/5/15 = BFFN
    MOVING TO ADOPTION!  


  • I'm so sorry for your losses. Welcome.
    Me: 24 (hypothyroidism)
    DH:25
    Married June 2012 
    TTC September 2014
    BFP #1 October 17, 2014
    MC #1 October 26, 2014
    Benched 2 cycles (hoping to TTC January
    Off the bench as of Jan 2015
  • So sorry for your losses. Welcome to the board. 
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