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Trouble ttc a sibling?

ambmamaambmama member
in January 2013 Moms
So I'm going to put myself out there - are any of my other jan mamas having trouble ttc a sibling to your lo's? We are TTA right now, but that's after 2 losses within a few months in the early/mid part of this year. I'm on the tttcas board but wondering if anyone here can relate? Fwiw, I hope not, but would obviously love to chat if so. Feel free to pm if you don't feel comfortable doing it publicly!

BFP #1: 05/2012 DS born 12/30/12

BFP #2: 02/2014 Natural M/C 03/2014 @ 7 weeks

BFP #3: 06/2014 EDD: 02/17/2015 M/C @ 7w2d, D&E 7/15/14


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Re: Trouble ttc a sibling?

  • chrissynenachrissynena member
    I was an active member of the 2IF board, until I got pregnant. It's def not easy putting yourself out there like that. If there is anything I can help you with let me know. My situation is probably different, but it always helps to have someone that can somewhat relate.

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  • ConstanceGoodspeedConstanceGoodspeed member
    edited December 2014
    Yes, we had tttc a second, but we also had trouble trying to conceive our first. We did IVF for both.

    So sorry you are having difficulties; it is heartbreaking.
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  • court115court115 member
    No advice. I just wanted to say I'm sorry.
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  • spainy17spainy17 member
    No advice but I have worried about this. We are TTA but I guess you never know. I'm so sorry for your losses and prayers for a sticky baby.
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  • ambmamaambmama member
    Thanks ladies!

    BFP #1: 05/2012 DS born 12/30/12

    BFP #2: 02/2014 Natural M/C 03/2014 @ 7 weeks

    BFP #3: 06/2014 EDD: 02/17/2015 M/C @ 7w2d, D&E 7/15/14


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  • ambmamaambmama member

    I'm so sorry @TarHeelMomToBe! Hugs to you! Be good to yourself!

    That's where we are at. If we have another loss, it would be time to start getting tested and I don't think we will go that route. Part of me just wants to be OAD now so I don't have to experience that pain again, it can be hard to bounce back from. And agreed - we think DS is perfect and he's in daycare so he spends plenty of social time. We had originally said January to think about TTC, but that's pushed off until...who knows.

    BFP #1: 05/2012 DS born 12/30/12

    BFP #2: 02/2014 Natural M/C 03/2014 @ 7 weeks

    BFP #3: 06/2014 EDD: 02/17/2015 M/C @ 7w2d, D&E 7/15/14


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  • SunshineShadesSunshineShades member
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    I never post here anymore though I originally was a J13 mom, but I also experienced 2 back to back miscarriages (see siggy) trying to conceive a sibling. We are trying again in January and I'll be taking progesterone once I start trying in hopes that helps me out. Feel free to PM me! and sorry for your losses

    BFP #1 05/03/12 DD: 12/18/12
    BFP #2 05/26/14 MMC: 6/26/14 D&C: 7/18/14
    BFP #3 10/09/14 MC 10/24/14


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  • loreeann86loreeann86 member
    Soo sorry for your losses! Thinking of you and praying.
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  • portentosaportentosa member
    I'm so sorry for your losses @ambmama @tarheelmomtobe and @‌sunshineshades

    Wishing you all sticky babies in the coming year.
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  • URMySunshine77URMySunshine77 member
    I am so sorry for your losses, @ambmama, @sunshineshades, and @TarHeelMomtoBe. Sending hugs to each of you.

    We have been TTC for nine months, eight cycles now. It's starting to feel rough. Plus, I'm over 35 and don't feel comfortable with medical interventions. 

    I hope that those of you who wish to conceive get your BFPs soon. Also PM me if you ever need to talk or rant.

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  • ambmamaambmama member
    I'm so glad I asked - as much as I wished I was the only one, it's nice to have people to talk to! H and I have some serious milestones before we will ttc again (I think the losses really affected our marriage but I'm just realizing it), but hoping we can talk through it and get to ttc again soon. Good luck to all of you ladies! I'm here if anyone ever wants to chat!

    BFP #1: 05/2012 DS born 12/30/12

    BFP #2: 02/2014 Natural M/C 03/2014 @ 7 weeks

    BFP #3: 06/2014 EDD: 02/17/2015 M/C @ 7w2d, D&E 7/15/14


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