So my company policy is no paid maternity leave. You can use your vacations and sick time during to keep getting salary but once that runs out you no longer get a paycheck. Luckily for me I get just over 4 weeks paid time...but I would like to have the comfort of 2 more weeks if I wanted them. I am a FTM and don't know what to expect, have no idea what we are going to do for childcare after I return to work and who knows what could happen? I could need to go on leave prior to the birth for any reasons. And that means any time that I need to take off after I use my time for maternity leave I will need to make up for in over-time or owe to the company.
I read online that some states allow you to collect short term disability for maternity leave. Sadly, NC is not one of them. Do any states really let you do that or did I just get sucked into incorrect internet information (it does happen people!).
Is there some option that I am not thinking of?

Baby #1 EDD 6/19/15
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Re: Maternity leave and Short Term Disability
Are you concerned about not getting paid or about actually taking the leave? If you've been at your job more than a year you are covered under FMLA to take 12 weeks off (unpaid). Your employer must hold your job for you. But getting compensation during leave varies widely by employer. If you truly will not be paid try to start saving up now. If you can't afford to rake unpaid leave you'll have to go back to work as soon as you run out of paid time off.
I was just wondering if there were some other options ppl were considering that I am not. I don't think I would want to miss more than 6 weeks at the most (I am a work control freak), but just trying to "plan" for the unexpected. I could not willingly stay home with no pay because I don't feel it's fair to put that burden on our finances or put all that burden on my DH. We are pay check to pay check type of people. We are trying to save now and will be saving most of our taxes but god only knows what will come up between now and then!
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Keep in mind that daycare may not be willing to take an infant until they are a certain number of weeks old so definitely start researching now if you want to go back between 4-6 weeks.
I'm not sure what your financial situation is but you may also consider taking out a small loan to help with expenses during your time out of the office. It would obviously be preferable to save the extra money up first but a small personal loan could be a nice safety net in case something crazy happens.
You might feel great after 6 weeks...I have plenty of friends that went back to work that early. But you might not feel up to it yet so be prepared for that. Also start looking into daycare/nanny/child care options. Some places here will take babies as early as 6 weeks but others won't even take them until 3 months. So make sure you have planned for that.
Baby #1 EDD 6/19/15
Married to my best friend since 9/8/13
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My employer covers STD for all full time employees, but with some employers you would have to opt in and pay for that yourself. In which case you need to be covered already before you get pregnant. Otherwise maternity leave is a pre-existing condition and it won't cover you.
For up to 6 weeks for vag delivery. Fortunately my union covers my salary up to70% on top of STD. The lame thing is that this is for only 6 weeks.. but i will use 2 weeks vacation and may use an additional 2 weeks of my max alloted yearly sick leave. Im trying to milk the stingy shitty US system as much as i can because they are so cheap with professional, hardworking moms.