Rough story short. Everyone is pregnant or just popped. Four babies still waiting to be named. You know everyone has a secret baby name list and you obviously don't share it with anyone. Which creates sometimes a problem when everyone is pregnant....Lol Now what do you do when this list you've had forever starts getting compromised out of just random bad luck. My cousins both names there daughters from names off my list. I was crushed. I'm like of all names? Lol Well its starting to happen again, I have no idea how but it is lol my friend is further along than me but still can't decide on a baby name for her son. I've already decided but we're still having to wait on sex. The other day she mentioned 2 names off my list out of all the names she's come up with that are really good. Anyways, we finally told her she can't name it that because that's our number one name. The second one has been on the list forever and i understand i can't hold names for ransom on a chance will have 2 sons. She's frustrated, I'm frustrated. Lol what do you do? I'm getting mad at her cause she's throwing her frustrations at me. Like I can't help you picked my names out of thin air but I know I don't own them either. Just because I'm less along than her doesn't give her first pick? Lol sorry this was suppose to be short.
There are only 5 names that are held sacred. They are:
Harry Styles
Zayn Malik
Niall Horan
Liam Payne
Louis Tomlinson
All other names are far game and there is no reason you can't repeat a name that someone else is using. Imagine if no one was every allowed to repeat a name. People would be getting real crafty and we'd have a whole lot more Blue Ivys and North Wests up in this place, and that is just something the world isn't ready for.
TTC since June 2009 01/10- Femara 03/10- Femara 07/2010- Clomid with injectables and IUI #1 08/2010- IUI #2 06/2011- IVF #1 BFP! 09/2011- Miscarriage at 10 1/2 weeks 11/2011- FET 01/2012- Start Home Study process 03/2012- Home Study approved and now waiting on our child to find us! 07/2012- matched with a BM who is due in October! 11/10/12- our son is born! 11/13/12- court grants us custody! 12/28/12- finalization! Always ours in our hearts, but.now also ours forever
Lol that's funny. She was and still is mad we picked our names first and one name she picked was already grabbed. I told her the others were fine. But she's still all panty twisted about it lol
TTC since June 2009 01/10- Femara 03/10- Femara 07/2010- Clomid with injectables and IUI #1 08/2010- IUI #2 06/2011- IVF #1 BFP! 09/2011- Miscarriage at 10 1/2 weeks 11/2011- FET 01/2012- Start Home Study process 03/2012- Home Study approved and now waiting on our child to find us! 07/2012- matched with a BM who is due in October! 11/10/12- our son is born! 11/13/12- court grants us custody! 12/28/12- finalization! Always ours in our hearts, but.now also ours forever
It sounds like you're choosing extremely common names, if this many people are choosing the same ones. If that's the case, as soon as your kid starts school, half their classmates will have the same name as them anyway. If you don't want to share names, don't name them something common.
This is why I stick to different names. I hve dd and dd2 on the way and they both have boys names. Dd1 is named austyn, and soon to be dd2 will be named Aubrey. It sucks when people pick names you wanted your entire life but you can't help what other people do an is it really worth losing a friendship over? You will find a name you like better I promise.
Re: Sharing baby names.
There are only 5 names that are held sacred. They are:
Harry Styles
Zayn Malik
Niall Horan
Liam Payne
Louis Tomlinson
All other names are far game and there is no reason you can't repeat a name that someone else is using. Imagine if no one was every allowed to repeat a name. People would be getting real crafty and we'd have a whole lot more Blue Ivys and North Wests up in this place, and that is just something the world isn't ready for.
TTC since June 2009
01/10- Femara
03/10- Femara
07/2010- Clomid with injectables and IUI #1
08/2010- IUI #2
06/2011- IVF #1 BFP!
09/2011- Miscarriage at 10 1/2 weeks
11/2011- FET
01/2012- Start Home Study process
03/2012- Home Study approved and now waiting on our child to find us!
07/2012- matched with a BM who is due in October!
11/10/12- our son is born!
11/13/12- court grants us custody!
12/28/12- finalization! Always ours in our hearts, but.now also ours forever
http://keepingupwiththejoneses-dana.blogspot.com/
TTC since June 2009
01/10- Femara
03/10- Femara
07/2010- Clomid with injectables and IUI #1
08/2010- IUI #2
06/2011- IVF #1 BFP!
09/2011- Miscarriage at 10 1/2 weeks
11/2011- FET
01/2012- Start Home Study process
03/2012- Home Study approved and now waiting on our child to find us!
07/2012- matched with a BM who is due in October!
11/10/12- our son is born!
11/13/12- court grants us custody!
12/28/12- finalization! Always ours in our hearts, but.now also ours forever
http://keepingupwiththejoneses-dana.blogspot.com/
BFP- 10-16-14 EDD 6/13/15: MC 12-1-14
Married 4/13/13
Loss at 6 weeks 5/4/2013
Loss at 9 weeks 12/2013
Healthy baby boy 7/12/15
Due 1/6/18