Pregnant after a Loss

Pregnancy #10... !!!!

Hey guys. It's been forever since I've  been on these boards. We just found out we are expecting last week... after we completely gave up, and decided to adopt.

I'm 26, hubs is military (but retiring soon).

Pregnancy history: DS 6/30/2007 (was ressusitated at birth), Ect 10/08, Severe defect baby 6/09, Chemical 09/09, DS 8/11/11, Ect 1/2012, Ect blown tube/surgery 6 or 7/2012 depending on when you date it, DD who was stillborn at 38w3d placental abruption (and bad hospital care) july 26 2013, chem 3/2014.

We're due 8/11/14. She was due 8/6 (and it's our youngest livings birthday).

We also found out today via U/S this pregnancy is NOT ectopic, and there are multiple sacs... only one we can confirm is mature and has blurs within (nothing we could make out.. I'm 5w1d).

I'm so nervous.. so scared... I could've died twice.. so now it's a huge mind game. I don't really know how to approach this pregnancy.

I'm a doula. This goes against everything i stand for... but all I want is baby born alive. period.

Sigh.

I can't wait to get to know you all, and see our rainbows born into this world <3

((I'm not a bummer i promise.. this has just been a HUGE shock for us.))

Momma to:

Aiden (6/30//2007), Ect 10/08, MC 6/09, Chem 10/09, Brice (8/11/11), Ect 1/12, Ect 6/12, Sophia (6/26/2013 passed during labor from placental abruption 38w3d), Chem 3/2013

EXPECTING 8/11/15! Three SACS!


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  • I am my gosh.  I am so happy for you.  What an incredible story.  I am so sorry for all your losses.  FX this is your rainbow baby.  Welcome to the board and congrats!
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  • I am very sorry for all of your losses! Congrats on your current pregnancy. Wishing you a H&H 9 months.

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    BFP #1: 8/4/11; DS1 born sleeping on 11/16/11 at 19w1d

    BFP # 2: 5/7/12, EDD 1/10/13, DS2 born 1/4/13

    BFP # 3: 11/8/13, EDD 7/17/14, mmc 10wks

    BFP # 4: 5/16/14, EDD 1/15/15, praying for our 2nd rainbow baby 

  • So sorry for your losses welcome to the group!

    BFP #1: 8/17/13     Due Date: 4/26/14      MMC discovered @ 9w 4d       D&C: 10/2/13
    BFP #2: 12/23/13       Due Date: 9/6/14      MMC discovered @ 8w 5d    D&C: 2/6/14
    BFP #3 8/26/14     Due Date: 5/7/15  

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  • wow, you've had quite a journey.  i'm so sorry for all of your losses...how traumatic.  welcome and congratulations...i hope you have a very boring pregnancy this time around, with a lovely rainbow at the end.  :)
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    BFP#2 EDD 12.07.2014, natural mc 04.09.2014 at 5w3d
    BFP#3 EDD 01.14.15, RAINBOW baby girl born 01.16.2015


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  • *hugs* welcome!
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    *BFP3:7/10/14 EDD: 3/19/15--Renley Alexander born 3/12/15!!*
    11/17/14-adopted a furbaby named Luna (born 9/05/14)
    BFP2: 11/25/11-Aaron Alexander born sleeping at 31 weeks on 05/31/12
    BFP1: 07/28/11-EDD:3/19/12, natural MC 09/12/11 at 12 wks-HB and growth stopped at 6wks
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  • What a journey! Sending you lots of positive thoughts! Welcome! ♡♡♡
  • I'm sorry for all that you've been through. Congratulations on this pregnancy and I hope you have a h&h 9 months. Welcome.
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    BFP #1 6.29.12 EDD 3.12.13 MMC discovered 8.11.12 9w5d D&C 8.15.12
    BFP #2 11.2.12 EDD 7.14.13 MMC 6w5d discovered 8w6d 2 failed rounds miso D&C 12.27.12
    BFP #3 8.5.13 EDD 4.18.14 MMC 7w4d discovered 9.25.13 at 10w6d -Trisomy 13- 1 round miso & emergency D&C 10.2.13
    RPL Testing. DX Asherman's November 2013. Low AMH (0.44) January 2014. 
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    BFP#4 6.18.14 EDD 3.3.15 Team Pink
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  • So sorry for all of you losses. What a journey you've had! Praying for a happy and uneventful nine months!
    Married since Dec 2010. TTC since Feb of 2014. 

    **BFP#1 Feb 20th. EDD October 28th, 2014. MC March 20th (7.5 wks) D&C.

    **BFP #2 May 22nd. EDD Feb 8th, 2015.   MC  July 1st, 2014 (6.5 weeks) D&C

     Heard both babies heartbeats @6w3d, 122bpm and 100bpm. Will never forget that sound!

    **BFP #3 EDD 8/21/15  Please, please be our rainbow!!

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  • I'm so very sorry for your heartbreaking losses. ((hugs)) I hope this is your take home baby at long last. Congratulations!
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    ***Losses mentioned.*** TTC #1 since May 2012. Me: 37, OH: 41. Ectopic August 2012 => tubal damage. :'(  Stage 1 endo removed June 2013. IVF #1 Oct/Nov 2013: Long Lupron with Gonal-F. 7R, 7M, 7F. 2 txfer@3d. Nothing frozen.  => M/C @ 8 wks. :'( Selected RPL panel all normal. Very hyper and brittle response to stims. IVF #2 (antagonist protocol) Feb 2014 => Converted to IUI (Perfect conditions). BFN. IVF #2.1 w/ new RE June 2014: Antagonist protocol. 33R, 31M, 30F, 19 blasts to test!!! I made it through without crashing!! :) Hats off to Dr. Fancypants!! ET of one 5AB blast. BFN. 13 10 CCS'ed snowflakes! FET #1 PUPO as of 7/29 Betas: 8/7@24, 8/9@97, 8/11@334 (etc.) Two sacs on 8/15, one seen on 8/18 after a bleed. U/s 8/25 (6+3) "perfect": 5.9 mm + HB@120bpm! U/s 9/4 (7+6): 15.9 mm + HB@172 bpm! Please, PLEASE stick this time!!!!
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  • I'm so sorry for your losses. What a journey. Thinking of you and that little baby.
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  • Congrats and welcome, so sorry for your losses

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  • Wow you have been through so much and you are so strong and brave. I am praying for you that this pregnancy goes smoothly and you have healthy happy baby(ies)! So many ((hugs))

    Me (30) DH (31) Married 5/13, TTC since 2/13
    BFP #1 Blighted Ovum resulting in D&C on 11/1/13
    BFP #2 Ectopic Pg, lap surgery on 3/12/14, R tube removed

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  • I'm so sorry for all of your losses.  Congrats on your LO's... praying for a happy, healthy 9 months!
  • Congratulations and welcome!!!
    BFP #1 09/26/2013 EDD 06/04/2013 MMC 11/01/2013
    BFP #2 05/15/2014 EDD 01/24/2015

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  • Welcome and congrats! :-) I am sorry for your losses, but very happy for your hope! I am confused by "she was due 8/6" and are you still adopting/not adopting now? GL with multiple sacs...
    looking forward to the updates! H&H 9 months...

    oh and yay! A doula.... excited to have you here :-)
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  • I'm sorry for your losses.  Congrats on your new adventure and welcome to the board.
    Me: 37                                               
    DH: 45
    BFP #1 3/19/14  EDD 11/29/14 MMC D&C 4/24/14
    BFP #2  12/4/14 Beta #1 218 at 12dpo Beta #2 1055 at 16dpo
    Saw heartbeat 12/29.  Please be a rainbow.
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  • Thanks Ladies! <3


    Momma to:

    Aiden (6/30//2007), Ect 10/08, MC 6/09, Chem 10/09, Brice (8/11/11), Ect 1/12, Ect 6/12, Sophia (6/26/2013 passed during labor from placental abruption 38w3d), Chem 3/2013

    EXPECTING 8/11/15! Three SACS!


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  • Congrats! Hoping for a very uneventful pregnancy for you!

     
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    EDD 2/15/14 - Stillbirth at 21 wks 10/02/13
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  • Our daughter who passed away was due 8/6. It depends on the number of babies we bring home, but we do plan to adopt if we bring home twins or a singleton. <3

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    Aiden (6/30//2007), Ect 10/08, MC 6/09, Chem 10/09, Brice (8/11/11), Ect 1/12, Ect 6/12, Sophia (6/26/2013 passed during labor from placental abruption 38w3d), Chem 3/2013

    EXPECTING 8/11/15! Three SACS!


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  • I am so sorry for all your losses. Congrats on this pregnancy and welcome to the board!

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    BFP #1 11/22/13 EDD 7/31/14
    MMC 13 weeks - discovered 2/13/14 at 16 weeks - Trisomy 13 - D&C 2/14/14
    BFP #2 10/9/14 EDD 6/22/15
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  • You are one strong woman. I am so sorry for your losses. I hope this pregnancy is long, boring , and healthy as can be ♡

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  • I'm so sorry for the journey you have experienced. Congrats on this new pregnancy and welcome!






     


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