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Why do we look on sal?

CleryClery
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I hate it, I clicked on every name I knew just to see how pregnant they were. It's like a kick in the teeth. :(
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Re: Why do we look on sal?

  • lovesinthehouselovesinthehouse
    I know exactly what you mean. I try to stay away from there now. It used to give me hope, but lately all I feel is jealous. I'm so evil. :(
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  • shaysmom05shaysmom05 member
    Yeah I know the feeling. For some reason I still lurk on the Tri boards to see how pregnant everyone else is. It hurts, but I can't stop.
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  • WBsLadyWBsLady

    (Hugs)  I know.

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  • mh2tmh2t
    I lurk over there quite a lot.  In general I get hopeful and happy when I lurk there, but sometimes when I see that someone who I knew on PL or TTCAL is already in the 3rd tri, or even had their baby, it reminds me how long it's been since my m/c ... I want to be pg already!
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  • Mrs.BrinkMrs.Brink
    I feel ya, I go on the PAL board (parenting after a loss) and check on the girls that I was on the old pl board with. some of them have almost year old babies now
    Married 6/30/07, TTC 9/07,Mc 12/07, Mc #2 10/8/09,Twin boys 11/30/10, seperated 8/11image
    "Our greatest glory isn't in never falling but in rising every time we fall"
    8/24/09 3rd cycle on 50mg Clomid= BFP 9/23/09 =10/8/09 m/c #2 at 6wks 2days 3/9/10 4th Cycle on 50mg Clomid = BFP 4-5-10 200mg prometrium 2xdaily 1st beta/progesterone 10dpo=43 2nd beta 13dpo=339 u/s 4/16=5wks 3days single visible sac and fetal pole h/b 4/28=Suprise it's Twins! 150 and 127 bpm Labor Buddy to Sonadora and Strunella
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  • jschreibjschreib
    SAL gives me hope, however I can't even lurk at 1st tri because I see girls with the same EDD as myself and I get depressed.  One of them just posted her ultrasound pics and I wanted to throw up.  It doesn't hurt on SAL because they give me hope, however, I could see the longer I try after my m/c the harder it would be, I'm new to this board.
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  • jinnymbjinnymb member
    Yeah I look at the SAL board but that makes me feel good and gives me hope.  I realized looking at the 2nd tri board that is I should be posting next week and a lot of the girls I recognize are there, that stings a little.



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  • crysbenacrysbena
    Yup... a kick in the teeth and the gut at the same time.  I love love those girls but there are only certain days I can venture to go on there.  Yesterday was defintley not one of them.  BIg hugs!
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  • orleylorleyl
    Thats like me going on 1st tri...bad decision.
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  • lunatwolunatwo member
    Honestly, I never leave this board.  I can't deal with it.
    4/08 BFP resulted in m/c
    8/08 BFP resulted in m/c
    3/09 Polyp removed and dx MTHFR (both copies)
    6 Clomid cycles, all BFN
    5/09 IUI#1 with Clomid=BFN
    6/09 IUI#2 with Clomid=BFN
    8/09 IUI#3 with Clomid=BFN
    IVF#1 = BFN
    IVF#2 = BFN
    IVF#3 ET 2 Grade A blasts 11/16/11
    Beta #1: 485
    Beta #2: 2,495
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  • samm1983samm1983 member
    I know.  I am happy for them, but it makes me horribly sad.  There are women who had miscarriages after me that already have given birth to healthy babies!  Ugh.....it's hard to feel left behind.
    7 mm/c
    APS, hetero factor v leiden & MTHFR
    bfp #1 - 12.11.07, edd 8.14.08, mm/c 1.21.08 (10w4d)
    bfp #2 - 4.4.08, edd 12.3.08, mm/c 5.14.08 (11w)
    bfp #3 - 8.3.08, edd 4.15.09, mm/c 9.17.08 (10w)
    bfp #4 - 1.15.09, edd 9.26.09, mm/c 2.16.09 (8w2d)
    bfp #5 - 6.16.09, edd 2.25.10, mm/c 7.23.09 (9w)
    bfp #6 - 8.12.10, edd 4.27.11, mm/c 9.16.10 (8w1d)
    one more try -> bfp #7 - 2.11, our miracle baby boy arrived 10.11
    ttc again -> bfp #8 - 5.3.13, edd 1.13.14, mm/c 5.30.13 (7w3d)
    bfp #9 - 9.23.13, our miracle baby girl arrived 5.29.14

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  • kimisuejoiakimisuejoia

    imagelunatwo:
    Honestly, I never leave this board.  I can't deal with it.

    Me too. I used to lurk on others boards but it just kept reopening the wounds... Now I just lurk here!

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