TTC After a Loss

Just another intro! * one living, one loss mentioned*

Hi ladies! So I have been active on TB since I was pregnant with my S12 baby boy, so about three years now! I took a little break last year and just recently came back! But, anyways I didn't know we had the TTC after a loss board and wanted to chat and support women who were going through things similiar to me! I hate that anyone has ever had to go through this. It's so heartbreaking!

My husband and I decided back in July we wanted to have another baby and got pregnant a couple of months later!

I was on the July 15' board for a very short time and had my natural MC at 6 weeks. I felt so helpless because there was nothing I could do to stop it.

We decided to start trying as soon as we can and I'm so glad I can have the support from you all! Can't wait to get to know everyone!

Re: Just another intro! * one living, one loss mentioned*

  • TayScott1TayScott1 member
    edited December 2014
    And some random facts....
    I work at a health insurance company.
    I love Christmas! Mainly, I love buying for others!
    I am a good listener and try to give as best advice I can, when needed of course.
    My mom died In a car accident when I was twelve and I have had horrible anxiety from it since. I was in a bad wreck last year and it made it worst. Just brought up a lot of suppressed things I guess. But I am happy to say I am feeling 100% better and now go to counseling twice a month to talk about my mom and to help cope with losing her.

    A guilty pleasure of mine is I love to watch American Horror Story!

    I'm not very interesting so there you have it!

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  • agpjt413 said:

    I'm so sorry for your loss ((HUGS)). Welcome to the board.

    Thank you! I was nervous to intro but what the heck! Glad I did!
  • No need to be nervous here! Welcome to the board. I'm very sorry for your loss. *hugs*. I hope you find this a comforting place to be.
    We met in middle school. We got married 15 years later in a February blizzard of 2010. 
    TTC since February 2010
    Diagnosed with Lyme Disease June 2010 Diagnosed with PCOS March 2011 Diagnosed with Celiac Disease January 2013
    BFP #1: August 25th 2013 EDD May 4th 2014 SCH MC October 3rd 2013
    BFP #2: February 14th 2014 EDD October 25th 2014 CP February 17th 2014

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  • I'm very sorry for your loss.  Welcome to the board and there's certainly nothing to be scared of.  We don't bite!  ;)
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    6/2010
     BFP - 10/18/2012, EDD - 6/26/2013, Baby Girl lost at 22 weeks (T21), D&E 2/15/2013
    BFP - 4/23/2014, EDD - 1/2/2015 Twin Boys lost at 12 weeks, M/C 6/25/2014

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  • Sorry for your loss. I hope you find the board gives you the support you are looking for. Welcome. 
     Me: 30, DH: 30. Dating since 2007- Married: 5/18/13. 
    BFP: 9/3/14, Found out we had triplets 10/10/14,  EDD: 5/14/15, Confirmed MMC: 10/14/14. D&C: 10/16/14.
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  • Welcome to the board. I'm sorry for your loss. I have an O12 baby boy and lost my second child too.

    What's your favorite season of AHS?  I don't think anything has lived up to the first.

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    BFP #2 DD lost 11/17/14 at 17w2d
  • I'm so sorry for your loss. Welcome.
    BFP #1: 5-14-2010, DD born 1-22-2011
    BFP #2: 4-20-2012, Natural MC 5-1-2012
    BFP #3: 7-19-2012, DS born 3-27-2013
    BFP #4: 9-13-2014, MMC discovered 10-27-14 at 10w, d&c on 11-6-14 

  • Welcome to the board. All of the women here are really nice and caring. I hope you find the comfort and support you need. 
    * Me: 31, DH: 33 * Married 10.16.10 * Parents of our furbaby Sophie *
    BFP: 8.28.14 | EDD 5.6.15 | MMC Discovered 9.25.14 (8 weeks)| D&C 9.30.14

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  • I'm very sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board! I hope you find the support that you need here.
    Me: 26 DH:28
    TTC - Sept 2014
    # 1 BFP - October 5, 2014 EDD June 5, 2015 CP - October 14, 2014


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  • Welcome. I am sorry for your loss. 

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  • I am sorry for your loss but welcome!

    Don't be nervous, so many awesome ladies here. Just jump right in :D 

    I am sorry to hear about your mom and the anxiety it caused. I can imagine how hard the accident you were in was for you. *hug* 
    I am not sure how to say this without getting a "solicitation" warning so I guess I just say that I am not longer active on THIS site. 



  • I'm so sorry for your loss and all you've been through. Welcome to the board.
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    Me (35) + DH (37) - Married Sept. 2007
    BFP #1 - DS born 7/11/11
    BFP#2 11/13/13 - EDD 7/29/14 - M/C at 5w3d
    BFP #3 12/28/13 - EDD 9/7/14 - M/C at 4w6d
    BFP#4 3/27/14 -  EDD 12/5/14 - Girl lost to 45X at 8w6d - D&C 
    BFP#5 10/15/14 - EDD 6/30/15 - M/C at 7w2d
    BFP #6 1/5/15 - EDD 9.16.14 [CLICKY for progress]
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  • So sorry for your loss - welcome to the board!

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    ME: 32   DH: 38

    BFP#1 - 7/18/14; EDD 3/23/14; MMC 8/11/14 (passed naturally on 8/17/14)

    BFP#2 - 12/29/14; EDD 9/10/15 *PLEASE BE OUR RAINBOW!*

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  • I'm so sorry for your loss and what you've been through with your family.  Welcome to the board.
    Me: 31     DH: 33
    Dx: Me: Recurrent Pregnancy Loss; DH: Low Morphology (2%)
    BFP#1: MC 3/1/11 at 6w1d - EDD 10/21/11
    BFP#2: 5/3/11 - EDD 1/9/12 - DD Born 1/6/12
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    BFP#3: MC 2/8/14 at 4w5d - EDD 10/13/14
    BFP#4: MC 5/6/14 at 4w4d - EDD 1/9/15
    BFP#5: MMC discovered 8/4/14 at 9w1d - D&C 8/5/14 - Baby Boy with Trisomy 16 (maternal origin) - EDD 3/8/15
    BFP#6: CP 11/6/14 at 4w2d - EDD 7/14/15
    IVF #1 with ICSI & PGS: May/June 2015, ER 6/3/15, 17R/17M/15F
    IVF #2 with ICSI & PGS: July 2015, ER 7/16/15, 16R/11M/9F
    PGS results = 6 normal embryos (4 boys, 2 girls)
    FET 9/23/15 = BFFN
    Natural FET 11/4/15 = BFP!
    Beta 9dp5dt = 92

  • I'm sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board.
    Me: 24 (hypothyroidism)
    DH:25
    Married June 2012 
    TTC September 2014
    BFP #1 October 17, 2014
    MC #1 October 26, 2014
    Benched 2 cycles (hoping to TTC January
    Off the bench as of Jan 2015
  • Sorry for your loss. Hope you find the support you're looking for here. No need to be nervous, the ladies in this board are wonderful. Welcome!!
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  • I am so sorry for your loss. Welcome.

    Me: 31 DH: 36
    Dated Since ‘02, Married in ‘06
    BFP#1 05/16/06, EDD01/16/07, MC 06/12/06 at 8 weeks
    BFP #2 08/14/14, EDD 04/22/15, MC 09/17/14 at 9 weeks

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  • I'm sorry for your loss. No need to be nervous, we're a bunch of kooky welcoming women. Also, I'd like to say thank you for remembering to put warnings in the title. It makes it a lot easier when people don't have to be told =)
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  • CC1017 said:

    Welcome to the board. I'm sorry for your loss. I have an O12 baby boy and lost my second child too.

    What's your favorite season of AHS?  I don't think anything has lived up to the first.

    I like the first the best! This season is alright but not the greatest!
  • Thank you for welcoming me with open arms guys!
  • I'm so sorry for your loss. Welcome. ((hugs))
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    BFP #1 DS 2/7/11 (Born @ 34 wks via ECS due to Pre-e) TTC #2 since Aug '13
    DX Low AMH (.58) March '14 • FSH-7.5 • E2-35.5 (Nov '14)
    SA- Great numbers • SIS- Clear (Nov '14)
     Cycle 1- Clomid CD3-7 & Trigger-BFP • EDD 1/12/15 
    Ectopic @ 5w6d • Methotrexate Shot 5/18/14
    Cycle 2,3,4- Clomid CD3-7 & Trigger-- BFN
    Cycle 5- Letrozole CD3-7 & Trigger BFFN
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  • TayScott1 said:

    CC1017 said:

    Welcome to the board. I'm sorry for your loss. I have an O12 baby boy and lost my second child too.

    What's your favorite season of AHS?  I don't think anything has lived up to the first.

    I like the first the best! This season is alright but not the greatest!
    Welcome, I'm sorry for your loss.

    And I couldn't agree more! ^
    Me: 27 My Love: 29
    Married Since: 4/2012

    TTC Since: 5/2014
    BFP: 11/5/15   MC: 11/26/2014


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  • TayScott1 said:

    CC1017 said:

    Welcome to the board. I'm sorry for your loss. I have an O12 baby boy and lost my second child too.

    What's your favorite season of AHS?  I don't think anything has lived up to the first.

    I like the first the best! This season is alright but not the greatest!
    Welcome, I'm sorry for your loss.

    And I couldn't agree more! ^
    Thank you!

    I just think this season is getting so predictable and boring! It's so far fetched lol but I can't stop watching so there's that.
  • Welcome to the board!
    Me: 29 DH: 30
    DS born 12/29/12 @ 41+1 
    TTC#2 07/2014
    BFP 10/14/14 MC 11/14/14 D&C for RT 11/18/2014 
    Given all clear 12/15/2014 - back to TTC



  • I'm sorry for your loss.  Welcome.
                                                                                              BFP #1 3/2/12, T born 11/7/12
                                                                                                 BFP #2  7/2/14, CP 7/6/14
                                 BFP #3 8/28/14, MMC 10/2/14 @ 9wks - misoprostol 10/6/14, D&C 11/3/14 for retained tissue
                                       BFP #4 12/25/14, EDD 9/7/15 - please stick baby, you are so loved and wanted!!!!!                                                                                           
                                                                                                                                                   
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  • Welcome to the board. So very sorry for your loss
    DH & me - 31. 

    BFP #1 09/27/14 -- MMC 5w (discovered 8w) 
    IUI #1 - #4  - bfn (late 2015 to early 2016)
    01/03/17 - 12mm x 6mm polyp removed from uterus- neg path, yay!
    IUI #5 - February 2017. Hoping for some magic 
    02.22.17 - BFP! EDD 11/01/17

    Baby G has arrived! 10/14/17
  • I'm sorry for your loss. Welcome.
    Together since April 2004.  Married since June 19th, 2010.
     BFP #1: January 31st 2012: CP. 
     BFP #2: June 1st 2012, Due:2/8/13. Avery was born via unplanned c section on 2/13/13. 
     BFP #3: Sept. 25th, 2014. Due: 6/5/15.  MMC on 10/23/14. Confirmed complete molar pregnancy per D&C 10/29/14, 
    HCG officially negative 12/10/14.  Benched until June 2015.
                                                        
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  • I'm sorry for your loss and everything you've been through.  This board is a great place, welcome.
    Me: 32 DH: 32
    Met: 4/25/2004, Married 8/14/2010
    Off BC 1/2013 TTC (actively) since 5/2013
    5/2014 started testing with RE, me:  HSG normal, normal AMH, no cysts; DH: great sperm
    Unexplained IF + unexplained anovulation (post-pill vs hypothalamic)

    7/2014 Clomid (monitored) + TI: BFN
    8/2014 Clomid (monitored) + TI: BFP #1: 9/12/2014, EDD 5/22/2015, MMC 10/11/2014 8w1d
    11/2014 Clomid + Novarel + IUI 12/5/14: BFFN
    12/2014 Comid + Novarel + IUI 1/3/15: ???

    **PgAL/PAL welcome**

  • Thank you ladies!

    I am sorry for your losses as well :(
  • I am so very sorry for your losses.  You sound like a very sweet and bubbly person!  I hope you find all the support you need here.

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  • I am very sorry for your loss. Welcome.
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    AMA 35 :  DH 33
    BFP#1 1/26/14 (EDD: 10/7/14).  MMC 3/10/14 D&C 3/14/14
    RE Consult 11/3/14 - AMH 2.25 "great" . FSH 7.10 . Low Vitamin D
    Myomectomy 12/17/14.  Benched until March.

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  • @TayScott1, I apologize if someone has already mentioned this, but if you are considering sticking around you might consider changing your avatar.  Some ladies here don't have a LC and it can be a painful reminder when they see your picture.
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                                                                                                 BFP #2  7/2/14, CP 7/6/14
                                 BFP #3 8/28/14, MMC 10/2/14 @ 9wks - misoprostol 10/6/14, D&C 11/3/14 for retained tissue
                                       BFP #4 12/25/14, EDD 9/7/15 - please stick baby, you are so loved and wanted!!!!!                                                                                           
                                                                                                                                                   
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