Does anyone seem to dislike/hate their husbands/partners?

Knottie02569476 · December 2014

I can't stand mine and I'm hoping it's just the hormones. I know I love him but I've contemplated breaking up with him just because I really dislike him right now. His voice annoys me, the way he looks, when he compliments me, just everything annoys me. He hasn't done anything wrong and he's so good to me but UGH I just can't.

tealbee · December 2014

Oh my god ! You are not alone! Sometimes I can't stand my fiancé the smallest things tick me off..my guy is a goofball/funnyman and today was just not the day for jokes I personally think it's 95% hormones but it's gotten easier the farther I get into this pregnancy. I hope you pull through it(:

amooraxo · December 2014

My husband is the same way @tealbee ... he's always laughing and joking, which, normally I love! But lately... I just can't deal with him. I literally tell him to please go out of the house and do something... I just want to be alone!

Hoping that second tri is better!

HaleePowell · December 2014

Always remember you take things out intentionally or unintentionally on the ones that matter most to u because u know that they will hold u up no matter what. My first pregnancy (in 2nd now)if something was wrong it was somehow my husband's fault (even if it really wasn't ) they understand we have emotions and feelings we have no control over. When u start to feel mad or aggravated with him remember You picked him and even tho yall have crazy feelings going on he's still there because he loves u and baby.

atj13ne · December 2014

Yes! My SO makes me crazy lately! I can barely stand him!! No I dont want to be tickled! Nor do I want to wrestle! Nor do infind it funny for you to try to start ssomething when I am trying to read! Uuggh! I love this time of year at his job requires longer work hrs...heres to hoping it gets better for everyone!

AmyCee · December 2014

I almost killed mine when I sat next to him while he ate cereal the other day...slurp, chomp, slurp, chomp.

mathistm · December 2014

I alternate between wanting to kill him and being a stage 5 clinger. I love him to death but I just can't find a happy medium. Usually I feel either extreme as I get more tired throughout the day which sucks because he leaves for work at 600am and I don't get home from work until 8:00pm some days.

Redlipz · December 2014

I'm furious with my husband right now. We went to the sweet factory and I bought a ton of strawberry sour strips because I find that they help with my nausea. I asked him if he wanted any candy and he said only some peach ones so that's what I got him. We get home n I'm gagging all over the place so I are 2 strips. I go to get more and they are fucking gone!!! All of them!!!!! I nearly ripped his head apart!

wegrowsheep · December 2014

Spent the whole morning with 3 yo DS running errands, appts, etc. He was so good, I let him pick out a special cookie at starbucks. He was so happy with it, and only had one bite so he could "save the rest for later." DH ate it while I was putting the kids in bed. I found the empty bag and totally bitched him out. Go eat something else. Or not. Omg so pissed.

Aceybaby · December 2014

I was with my boyfriend for just a few months before I found out I was pregnant.... I'm feelin the same way! I'm so excited to have a baby! But the boyfriend, waking up and seeing his face annoys me ... I keep tellin myself it's pregnancy hormones but honestly idk!? I've been like this for weeks now

adrihope2015 · December 2014

HaleePowell said:
Always remember you take things out intentionally or unintentionally on the ones that matter most to u because u know that they will hold u up no matter what. My first pregnancy (in 2nd now)if something was wrong it was somehow my husband's fault (even if it really wasn't ) they understand we have emotions and feelings we have no control over. When u start to feel mad or aggravated with him remember You picked him and even tho yall have crazy feelings going on he's still there because he loves u and baby.

you couldn't have said it any better, I always have to remind mysetlf of this expecially when he's done everything right, but I still get frustrated, I'm suprised the poor guy hasn't moved into the spare bedroom lol

Tarahdactal · December 2014

This makes me feel soooo much better knowing I'm not the only one going through this... My husband and I were only married a couple months when I got pregnant, so as of late whenever I feel like I hate his guts I tell myself it's just the hormones but sometimes I can't tell if it's the pregnancy or just me!! He is so good to me too and I just feel like a horrible person because I couldn't help but think maybe it was a mistake to get married =/ plus on top of it all we are broke and living with his parents

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Elley1486 · December 2014

I contemplated kicking my DH out of the house until this pregnancy is over the entire way into work today. Like, seriously was thinking, ok, I can totally mow the lawn and handle the dogs by myself. I would spend less on groceries. I can find a mechanic...and on and on. All because he was sitting shotgun and his constant complaining about my driving was driving me to threaten divorce. He should just read my face and know to STFU at this point, right? Jeez. (I swear I am not usually like this, it must be something out of my control).

IsadoraB · December 2014

My BFF told me that she always knows when she is pregnant because her first symptom is wanting to physically murder her husband.

So yeah... It's totally normal.

courtyowl427 · December 2014

I consider every day that I don't murder him or kick him out to be a success.

charleylove · December 2014

I am SO glad I am not the only one. My fiancé is annoying me sooooo much at the moment. Usually we get on brilliantly. Have a laugh together. But lately I have been taking everything he says the wrong way. He has a thing that at the beginning of our pregnancy I found cute and that was to see how much tighter the seatbelt is getting. He keeps doing it now but for some reason it just annoys me now. I just feel fat now and not blooming at all. I'm having trouble sleeping at night for reasons unknown to me. Yet in the morning it takes my fiancé ages to wake me up and convince me to get out of bed. All of his little jokes that I would just laugh off etc have been niggling at me and I've been left wondering what I see in him some days. I never understood why and felt totally alone before. But since reading your comments I feel better about it xx

erbear84 · December 2014

Mine has almost gotten kneed a few times for trying to touch my boobs. He'll try to be cute about it and I'm like...fuck off! He's been whiny about back pain and he had a cold a few weeks ago. Sorry, I don't feel sorry for you, you big whiny baby.

charleylove · December 2014

I am totally with you on the touching the boobs problem. My fiancé touches them all the time and I wanna scream at him sometimes. It's like is that all he wants from me right now!!! Is just to touch my boobs cos they are growing. Yet he wont have sex with me as I am pregnant and have had miscarriages before. So he wants to wait for the first scan to make sure all is ok. In the meantime I'm left with him teasing me by touching my boobs which he knows gets me in the mood. Talk about FRUSTRATING!!!!!!!!

mariettex · December 2014

For about three weeks I absolutely hated my boyfriend I could not stand him, his smell, him talking to me, him being around me, he was driving me crazy. I did not want to even touch him, no kiss or cuddle. and he didn't do one thing wrong, he was always so good to me! I started to get so worried because I didn't know If it was my pregnancy or if I actually felt this way about him! I ended up in tears about it and thought if it got any worse we would have to break up! Ends up a few weeks later I totally got over it and love him and his cuddles more than anything! It's just a phase and most defiantly hormones it doesn't last too long! Xx

MamaCarson · December 2014

My husband and I are 2 and a half years into our marriage and have been together for nearly 8 total...he is certainly my best friend. But there are days that I contemplate cutting him loose! I've gone through the whole "okay, how will I take care of the baby on my own... cause this dude has got to go!" conversation many times in my head. And I have no issue telling him about my "I'm going to smother you with a pillow while you sleep" fantasies! But at the end of the day, I know the hormones are getting the best of me. As intensely as I hate him one minute, I'm head over heels again the next minute ...or maybe by the next day...week...

Hang in there ladies!

apeschka · December 2014

I always hate my husband when I'm pregnant and last time for a few months after but it passes.

kristaB1989 · December 2014

Same here! My dear sweet husband is honestly the greatest man in the world. But when I come home from work and he says, "hey babe, I missed you today." I immediately think, "ew. Shut the hell up." I'm not sure why. Or when he compliments me I think, "oh he is trying to get some sweet lovin', and that shit ain't happening." I do love him dearly though!

amby90 · December 2014

I just finished having a big go at my partner about a fine he hasn't paid. I ended up crying myself into a state cause things like this make me hate him more, reading these comments totally just changed my mood lol I'm lieing here giggling to myself now lol I'm sure he thinks I'm crazy. Thanks ladies for cheering me up

kmcdaniel7 · December 2014

Ummm.. :-?

No. Can't say that I relate. [-(

But I can say that the last time I felt that way about someone was with my ex husband... ~X(

Hope it gets better for you and is just hormonal! ;;)

KJKNAJ · December 2014

Yeeuuuuuup. I can only notice the things that annoy me, not the things I like about him.

NADJA921 · December 2014

Ughhhh.. yessss!!.. my husband drives me insane!!!!!! His face, smell, voice even when hes trying his hardest to just take care of me... i wanna throw him off a cliff.. but then i wanna run down and catch him cuz my mood swings quickly remind me i love him!!!

Knottie02569476 · December 2014

Hahaha same here

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