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Monday Bitchfest

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I already mentioned this in Random Thoughts, but I forgot my ALL my pump parts and the bottles to pump the milk into - ugh. I can't go back to the house yet because traffic is a bitch right now. My boobs already hurt. 

I also forgot DD's crib sheet at home for DC. 

I really would like to start over today. 
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 M14 January Siggy Challenge: Resolution I have no intention of keeping...SHOPPING LESS!

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  • EmmagkEmmagk member
    I'm getting a cold. Throat hurts and all stuffy, fx LO doesn't get it
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  • bazingaabazingaa member
    I tried to get DH to go get a Christmas tree all weekend. He refused. He's now gone for the week (travels for work). So the earliest we could get a tree would be Saturday. Considering we leave to go visit family the following Saturday through the end of the year, that means we would have a tree up for one week. What the fuck is the point? And why the fuck does not having a tree for DS's first Christmas not bother him at all?!
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  • THD7580THD7580 member
    My mother in laws bday was yesterday. I made her favorite dinner and my SIL (her daughter) and BIL came over to eat. Not once did my SIL ask if she could help do anything. She's 6 months pregnant and she acts like she's missing an arm. When it was time to clean up she says oh honey lets get home. Seriously I wanted to punch her.
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  • gutsysneakersgutsysneakers member
    @bazingaa - I'd be so pissed off about that too.
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  • LunaBug924LunaBug924 member
    I haven't had my car for 3 weeks after hitting a deer. It's been in the body shop and I have a rental that is covered by insurance, but I'm still paying $18 a day for the extra insurance. I just called the shop for an update and best-case-scenario I'll have it by the end of the week. Meanwhile the rental car is saying to change the oil and has a headlight out. I so do not want to deal with going to switch out the rental, but driving at night with DD makes me nervous. Ugh!!!
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  • Lbarron915Lbarron915 member
    bazingaa said:
    I tried to get DH to go get a Christmas tree all weekend. He refused. He's now gone for the week (travels for work). So the earliest we could get a tree would be Saturday. Considering we leave to go visit family the following Saturday through the end of the year, that means we would have a tree up for one week. What the fuck is the point? And why the fuck does not having a tree for DS's first Christmas not bother him at all?!
    That sucks, @bazingaa. I know how you feel though. My husband decided to tell me like 3 days ago, to return all the presents I got him because he doesn't want to do Christmas this year. Um, I'm sorry, you want to cancel your baby's first Christmas?! WTF? I told him I'm not going to return anything, and if he doesn't want to get us anything, that's fine, but I'm still celebrating. 
    He tried to tell me that we can't afford it this year because of LO's surgery. Well, 1) Christmas isn't a surprise... we know it's coming every year. It's not my fault he waits until the last minute to try to go buy everything! and 2) I told him that I'd be more than happy with free gifts, like him taking me to go see the lights and walking around holding hands. He says now he can't do that because I ruined any surprise aspect to it. 
    UGH!
    (Also, he just asked me if he could give me a birthday gift - my birthday is tomorrow - that could count for Christmas too. I HATE when people do that!)

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  • NorthernGal248NorthernGal248 member
    edited December 2014

    @bunannie I have a friend who does the same exact thing! Let's get together and mug them?

     

    Edit to add... totally kidding about the mugging.. eh.

    That One Gal From Alaska :)

     

     

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  • SurprisePartySueSurprisePartySue member
    I'm so sick of my husband bitching about our sex life. First it was no sex and now that he gets it atleast every 3 days he wants more of a variety of things. Does the guy not realize that all this bitching is making me resent him and sex!?!? Oh and he doesn't do any feedings with DD and when he watches her he just sits there on his phone and doesn't realize why she's crying. But then if I bitch to him he throws in my face that he's making a living for our family.
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  • bridetobe9132013bridetobe9132013 member
    @bunannie‌ I have a friend who is a major one upper. Her DS was born 2 months before my DD and she constantly brags about what her LO is doing. Well, she has calmed down with it since my LO has been doing everything earlier than her DS. She always says that all babies even out no matter how early they hit milestones. I think she is trying to reassure herself. It was really annoying though because he is 2 months older... of course he is going to be doing things my DD isnt. Now she is starting with Christmas and how much her DS is going to be getting, like the $120 ball pit she got him. I have pointed out several times to her in previous conversations that part of me staying home is cutting down our spending. I guess her having more money to spend is the one thing she thinks she can be better at than us. I dont care because my LO doesnt need 1000 toys for xmas. We love her just as much! I feel like her kid is going to grow up getting anything he wants.
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  • bridetobe9132013bridetobe9132013 member
    One more: I pretty much stopped hanging out with a group of people because I got the feeling I wasnt welcome anymore. I never received any acknowledgement on DD's birth and I saw them when DD was 3 weeks old and they all ignored me. Well, none of them received xmas cards from us this year because I dont consider them friends. Well, we just got a card in the mail from one of them today (the one that deleted me off her fb). I REALLY dont want to send her a card. I feel like we got one as just a name on a list. Would you send one just because she sent one?
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    bridetobe9132013 said:

    One more: I pretty much stopped hanging out with a group of people because I got the feeling I wasnt welcome anymore. I never received any acknowledgement on DD's birth and I saw them when DD was 3 weeks old and they all ignored me. Well, none of them received xmas cards from us this year because I dont consider them friends. Well, we just got a card in the mail from one of them today (the one that deleted me off her fb). I REALLY dont want to send her a card. I feel like we got one as just a name on a list. Would you send one just because she sent one?

    Nope. That will also get the hint across.

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  • bridetobe9132013bridetobe9132013 member
    @Babybarlow2014‌ she is! I swear she sits around all day thinking of things one up me on. She's a sweetheart but she needs to stop! She was upset my DD got her second tooth before her DS. Come on now lol
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  • bazingaabazingaa member
    Thanks, ladies! I keep debating on what my next move will be. I don't think my current pouting is enough. I may go with the suggestion of getting an artificial tree and setting it up myself. It just baffles me how men just don't get it sometimes.
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  • bridetobe9132013bridetobe9132013 member
    I agree! She told me a few months ago that everyone says her baby is the cutest baby ever. Was she expecting me to agree? Of course every mom thinks their baby is the most beautiful baby.
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  • ho11ydayho11yday member
    edited December 2014
    SurprisePartySue said:

    I'm so sick of my husband bitching about our sex life. First it was no sex and now that he gets it atleast every 3 days he wants more of a variety of things. Does the guy not realize that all this bitching is making me resent him and sex!?!? Oh and he doesn't do any feedings with DD and when he watches her he just sits there on his phone and doesn't realize why she's crying. But then if I bitch to him he throws in my face that he's making a living for our family.

    I think you hit the nail on the head. I never thought of it that way but that's exactly the issue.

    Be happy with what you get. The fact that you get anything should make you happy. Omg. The thing my dh wants is more variety (positions...partners...fantasies... who knows) and more spontaneity. Dude. There's no spontaneity because we only have sex on my days off.

    Ten bucks dh will want sex tonight after me driving 6 hours in two days and am emotionally exhausted. I think I'm going to say fuck it and buy him a flesh light.
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  • Lbarron915Lbarron915 member
    Yep, total Grinch. I like the idea of returning them all and using the money on myself, but I know I could never go through with it. Hopefully he comes around soon. If not, @bazingaa I might be coming over to enjoy your fake tree! ;)

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  • ho11ydayho11yday member
    Sure enough. I was right. Except he's saying I feel run-down because I'm not getting *enough* sex. Yeah. I'm sure that's the reason.
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  • spinsoffresonancespinsoffresonance member
    ho11yday said:

    Sure enough. I was right. Except he's saying I feel run-down because I'm not getting *enough* sex. Yeah. I'm sure that's the reason.

    Make sure to demand all the sex of him when his mom is dying. Let's see how he feels about it then! Men are so dense. And LOL at flesh light!
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  • ksyknelvr73ksyknelvr73 member
    Lissiehoya said:
    I just want to say that it helps immensely to know I'm not the only one having these feelings about DH and sex. I wish I could say something more to him but he just gets defensive. BTW, one of my friends who just had a baby this summer too said her H wasn't much good with her first until her kid was a toddler.

    Agreeing with everyone on the sex stuff. H tells me I am depriving him but I'm like, dude, I literally have zero help around here. You half-ass everything and you do NOTHING romantic for me, ever. Throw me a bone here.

    I can also add that H wasn't so great with helping until our son was older either. It was like once he didn't seem so "babyish" anymore, he just KNEW what needed to be done. So weird. But, we started all over and instead of thinking that since this is our second kid and he'd just naturally know what to do this time, it's right back to square one with him.

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  • SurprisePartySueSurprisePartySue member
    Preach @becole42‌!!!! Oh you have one problem and it's cause you want bjs!? Oh well why don't you get up with DD in the MOtN since you woke her up getting a drink and now she wants to eat and play! Then DH says he talks to other guys and they don't have this problem. My ass!... They are just good liars.
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  • bridetobe9132013bridetobe9132013 member
    Haha @Jcrewgirl85‌, I should try that. I am struggling with it because when i'm on any kind of BC, I just dont want it. I may be getting my mirena out next month and if I do, we will just pull out for a couple of months. If I get pregnant in that time nbd but i'd rather not ttc until April.
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  • SurprisePartySueSurprisePartySue member
    ^^^^ Hahahaha dying!! @becole42‌ he actually asked my why I don't like them. Then he pouted after I tore them apart! Hopefully he won't bring it back up.
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  • lrmrtnlrmrtn member
    On a different less interesting note, I feel like I'm penalized at work for being efficient by getting more work.
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