Monday Bitchfest

suzysurparis · December 2014

It's a new week, and it's cold and raining outside. Let it all out ladies.

suzysurparis · December 2014

My bitch: my co-worker came in 45 minutes late because she went to the pharmacy to get medicine and it wasnt open yet. She'd left a message so we didnt really care. When she got here she looked and sounded kinda sick, so we asked how she felt. Now, she doesnt know I'm pregnant and she only recently came over from the US, so she isnt used to the French bugs nor the idea that when you're sick, you stay home. So she tells us she feels bad about missing days since she's been sick every month for the past three months. We dont mind, it's normal. She then explains that she has a fever, sore throat, and has been coughing with blood in it. COUGHING WITH BLOOD!

My boss who knows I'm pregnant and I immediately kick her out of the office with a couple doctors' phone numbers. That's fucking scary! I admit to coming to work with a head-cold, but not fever and definitely not a fucking bloody cough. Fucking work ethics, not cool man, not cool.

suzysurparis · December 2014

emilyzemily said:

A girl on my team who sits opposite me came in with a real bad cold today. I told her she needed to go home as she was struggling, plus, I don't want to catch her cold. Her response was, stop using your baby as an excuse to why you don't want to get ill. This girls a friend of mine, and just really grumpy because she's so poorly but it really threw me!

That's a great comeback on her part. You don't want to get ill because of your baby. How about not wanting to get ill because it sucks? And the risk of pregnancy complications is just an added incentive.

aspengroen · December 2014

Every time I'm sick my husband is "sick" too.

starkbaby22 · December 2014

Can I bitch about how long it takes to get test results? Like, it's a pretty big deal for me right now. Why Do they make us stress for two freaking weeks waiting and waiting? !

I do understand that not everything can be "rushed" or "overnighted" so to speak, but I will go crazy for the next 7 days with this waiting game.

littlechemist · December 2014

Here's my bitch today: FRIENDS WHO DON'T KEEP THEIR MOUTH SHUT!

DH and I announced our news to a close group of work friends (he and I work together) on Friday. We told everyone that this was NOT public yet and to please keep it to themselves. Honestly, we shouldn't have had to say that because regardless it's NOT YOUR NEWS TO SHARE in the first place.

Come in to work this morning and I hadn't been at my desk but 15 minutes when a random coworker (somewhat friends, but not close friends) comes by and is all "HEY I HEARD SOME NEWS ABOUT YOU, CONGRATS!"

I knew immediately who had told him, so I had to do some damage control. My friend was all apologetic and "ohh I'm so sorry it just slipped out!" WHAT THE EFF. NOT COOL.

/rant over

dkleid · December 2014

So my Bitchfest is kind of long so bear with me on this one...

Over the summer DH got in trouble with the law, he ended up spending the night in jail. After i killed him once he got home, we went to court the following week and the case was thrown out and now 5 months later everything is 100% expunged off of his record like it never happened. Now I've lost a few friends because they went online and case searched him and saw what he was arrested for and made a decision based off of that as to if I should of stayed with him or not. One friend went as far as to say that when her and another girl were 19 they were arrested for underage drinking (we are in the states its 21 to drink) and they got that expunged off of their record.. Ill be honest, the charge was for everyone's worst nightmare but DH happened to be in the wrong place at the wrong time hence why he was let go on zero bail, and the charges were dropped and expunged. I didn't tell them they full details because its really none of their business, they a never reached out to me to see how I was doing and B when they did it was only for details. I happened to be out of town and a bunch of my friends went out to lunch and tried getting details from my one friend who was with me the whole time I thought he was missing. A few of my friend have told me that they want to distance themselves from DH but that our friendship is fine.. Well over the past few week ive noticed that its not fine. I try to make plans and either dont get response back or they are very short. I texted one of these friends this morning asking her to get dinner one night since it has been a while since we have seen each other. But im still waiting to hear back.

I just hate how people read something online think they know wtf happened and then make a decision based off of that.. One told me that because of his charge he was going to become abusive towards me and is now worried about me. But never came out to tell me this until i reached out to her about her distanceness. I just wish people would trust their friends and not what they read online... two of these girls were bridesmaids in my wedding and now one wants nothing to do with me and I have a feeling the other doesnt either.

neongreen · December 2014

My mother mentioned to me that my father wanted to speak to me because he thought I spoke to my husband in an excessively nasty way when he was over on Saturday. I seriously had to sit down and think hard about what he could possibly be referring to, especially since the three of us were only together in the same room for about five minutes. After replaying those five minutes over and over again, I think I finally figured out what it was, and it's something so completely minor and stupid. Was what I said the nicest, most lovey-dovey thing to come out of my mouth? No, probably not. But obviously I didn't think I was being a horrible bitch, and neither did DH, because he didn't say anything to me, and we went on with the rest of our day perfectly fine.

Since I'm probably hormonal anyway, I got very upset, and told my mother it's probably a good thing my father didn't say anything directly to me. It's absolutely none of his business and he needs to stay out of it since he is not a third party in this marriage and doesn't know what goes on here 24/7. I don't like being made to feel bad about something I said 1) in my own house, 2) about nothing that involved him, and 3) that DH didn't even care about.

mrscampos4life · December 2014

emilyzemily said:
A girl on my team who sits opposite me came in with a real bad cold today. I told her she needed to go home as she was struggling, plus, I don't want to catch her cold. Her response was, stop using your baby as an excuse to why you don't want to get ill. This girls a friend of mine, and just really grumpy because she's so poorly but it really threw me!

Omg! That is so rude and such a selfish comment. I think I would have blew up !

My bitchiness is at myself. I procrastinated and left my paper for the last minute i.e last night, i finished at 2 am. I napped (3 and a half hours) of sleep to finish putting it together. Had to bring it to school, into the city, for 8:30 and there was a bunch of traffic. The bridge i normally take has train tracks near and someone got hit and both legs cut off at 6:10 am. Any whooo, made it at school for 7:45. I feel relived but also dead tired.

taboullio84 · December 2014

suzysurparis said:
My bitch: my co-worker came in 45 minutes late because she went to the pharmacy to get medicine and it wasnt open yet. She'd left a message so we didnt really care. When she got here she looked and sounded kinda sick, so we asked how she felt. Now, she doesnt know I'm pregnant and she only recently came over from the US, so she isnt used to the French bugs nor the idea that when you're sick, you stay home. So she tells us she feels bad about missing days since she's been sick every month for the past three months. We dont mind, it's normal. She then explains that she has a fever, sore throat, and has been coughing with blood in it. COUGHING WITH BLOOD!

My boss who knows I'm pregnant and I immediately kick her out of the office with a couple doctors' phone numbers. That's fucking scary! I admit to coming to work with a head-cold, but not fever and definitely not a fucking bloody cough. Fucking work ethics, not cool man, not cool.

Blood? Oh I would have lost my sh#t real quick.

dkleid · December 2014

ilovelucyv said:

dkleid said:

So my Bitchfest is kind of long so bear with me on this one...

Over the summer DH got in trouble with the law, he ended up spending the night in jail. After i killed him once he got home, we went to court the following week and the case was thrown out and now 5 months later everything is 100% expunged off of his record like it never happened. Now I've lost a few friends because they went online and case searched him and saw what he was arrested for and made a decision based off of that as to if I should of stayed with him or not. One friend went as far as to say that when her and another girl were 19 they were arrested for underage drinking (we are in the states its 21 to drink) and they got that expunged off of their record.. Ill be honest, the charge was for everyone's worst nightmare but DH happened to be in the wrong place at the wrong time hence why he was let go on zero bail, and the charges were dropped and expunged. I didn't tell them they full details because its really none of their business, they a never reached out to me to see how I was doing and B when they did it was only for details. I happened to be out of town and a bunch of my friends went out to lunch and tried getting details from my one friend who was with me the whole time I thought he was missing. A few of my friend have told me that they want to distance themselves from DH but that our friendship is fine.. Well over the past few week ive noticed that its not fine. I try to make plans and either dont get response back or they are very short. I texted one of these friends this morning asking her to get dinner one night since it has been a while since we have seen each other. But im still waiting to hear back.

I just hate how people read something online think they know wtf happened and then make a decision based off of that.. One told me that because of his charge he was going to become abusive towards me and is now worried about me. But never came out to tell me this until i reached out to her about her distanceness. I just wish people would trust their friends and not what they read online... two of these girls were bridesmaids in my wedding and now one wants nothing to do with me and I have a feeling the other doesnt either.

Wow that sucks. As much as I can try to guess what your husband did there must be more to the story to get such a reaction out of them, but we don't need to know. Regardless, if they were really your friends they should have stuck by you no matter what your husband did and I would like to think my friends would stick by me in a similar situation. I've lost friends the hard way too, it sucks but it is what it is.

That's the thing, he didn't do anything Thus the case being thrown out and being 100% expunged from his record. They just believe what it showed online. Because when you get arrested it goes on the states Judicial Website which anyone can look up, until there is a court hearing and the charges either stick or get thrown out. If he did what the state was saying he did, he wouldn't be my husband and I wouldn't be having his child right now. I just wish people would believe the person involved instead of what a website says.

crashski13 · December 2014

I called out of work today because I have a stomach bug and my DS is sick as well. I got bitched at by my boss because I ran out of ET and can't take time unpaid...she said well address it when I get back...delightful...so you'd rather me come in with a fever and throwing up and work...in a hospital setting...for 10 hours. Next time I'll be sure to go in and throw up there to prove my point
Worst. Place. To. Work. Ever.

littlegrapey · December 2014

One of the girls I worked with just came into my office to tell me I'm not eating enough because I'm not showing. Her reasoning is that I should be showing be the other pregnant girl is. The other girl is on her 3rd kid and is already 20 weeks along.

Schnurette · December 2014

threearrows said:

My husband keeps peeing on the floor. It's as if he is completely incapable of locating the bowl when he goes to the bathroom---it's either on the floor, back of the toilet, running down the sides...but, good lord--it's a mess. We have always had this problem, but he used to have his own bathroom (and was responsible for cleaning it). Now, we moved across the country for him to go back to school, and downsized our living space drastically----no more individual bathrooms for everyone. He hates when I point it out to him because he thinks I'm trying to embarrass him or shame him---but, when I'm already nauseous and walk into to see piss all over the floor, well....

SO GROSS! DH is really bad for this too. He tries to blame it on me when there is pee on the front of the toilet. Uh, dude, I'm sitting down. Unless I am sitting on the very edge of the seat I'm not going to hit the outside of the toilet.

On a lighter note - to cheer everyone up - DH's cousin once peed in his inlaws bedroom when he was drunk because he thought it was the bathroom. Apparently he just walked in in the middle of the night, walked up beside the bed, and peed all over the floor. The most disturbing part is that he and his girlfriend were only dating at that point, and she still married him.

dkleid · December 2014

sensitivesally said:

dkleid said:
That's the thing, he didn't do anything Thus the case being thrown out and being 100% expunged from his record. They just believe what it showed online. Because when you get arrested it goes on the states Judicial Website which anyone can look up, until there is a court hearing and the charges either stick or get thrown out. If he did what the state was saying he did, he wouldn't be my husband and I wouldn't be having his child right now. I just wish people would believe the person involved instead of what a website says.

I want to say this gently, because I really feel for you, and it sounds like such a painful thing to be on the receiving end of such harsh judgment from people you love.

Cases get thrown out of court all the time, and it doesn't necessarily mean that people are innocent. Oftentimes it is a matter of not having strong enough evidence to prove it in court, having nothing to do with whether the accused actually committed the act or acts.

I'm not saying this is the case for your husband. Obviously you believe he is innocent and are choosing to stand by him. However, you have had the benefit of a full explanation from your husband whereas others have not. Perhaps those closest to you would benefit from hearing his side of the story as well rather than just being told it is none of their business.

I wish you all the best in repairing whatever damage has been done to your family as a result of this incident. I'm sorry this is happening to you!

And I completely understand that. At the time because of Legal reason we told them as much as we were allowed to. But that wasn't enough for this one person, she flat out told me she pretty much wanted to see the case files so that she could make her own judgement.. 1st of all thats none of her business. The case files in which she is A not a lawyer and B not part of my immediate family. She is just nosey and wants to know every fine detail.. Others who we have told just as much to have stood by us and respected that we were telling them the truth.. Its just really hurtful that people dont believe what someone has to say and wants to see something. She also then went and started spreading rumors about our marriage which were 100% false which hurt even more.. It was an extremly DIFFICULT summer. Despite my husband not wanting me to see the case files and the police report, I wanted to see them and I saw what the police had to say, I believe everything 100% that my husband told me. Someone who said yes to being a bridesmaid in my wedding and that I have known for over 10 years should trust me when I tell them something.

I do agree that cases get thrown out all the time, but they do not always get expunged and that is the difference.. IT takes a lot to get written off of your record and I know someone who was arrested for being around drug paraphernalia and it took her 6 years to get off of her record after filing to have it expunged from her record...It took him 4 months.. That alone says something.

veggiemo · December 2014

threearrows said:

My husband keeps peeing on the floor. It's as if he is completely incapable of locating the bowl when he goes to the bathroom---it's either on the floor, back of the toilet, running down the sides...but, good lord--it's a mess. We have always had this problem, but he used to have his own bathroom (and was responsible for cleaning it). Now, we moved across the country for him to go back to school, and downsized our living space drastically----no more individual bathrooms for everyone. He hates when I point it out to him because he thinks I'm trying to embarrass him or shame him---but, when I'm already nauseous and walk into to see piss all over the floor, well....

My husband sits to pee at home. I used to make fun of him all the time and think he was weird. Now I have NO COMPLAINTS. Sit all you want, my friend.

AliceKC9876 · December 2014

dkleid said:

sensitivesally said:

dkleid said:
That's the thing, he didn't do anything Thus the case being thrown out and being 100% expunged from his record. They just believe what it showed online. Because when you get arrested it goes on the states Judicial Website which anyone can look up, until there is a court hearing and the charges either stick or get thrown out. If he did what the state was saying he did, he wouldn't be my husband and I wouldn't be having his child right now. I just wish people would believe the person involved instead of what a website says.

I want to say this gently, because I really feel for you, and it sounds like such a painful thing to be on the receiving end of such harsh judgment from people you love.

Cases get thrown out of court all the time, and it doesn't necessarily mean that people are innocent. Oftentimes it is a matter of not having strong enough evidence to prove it in court, having nothing to do with whether the accused actually committed the act or acts.

I'm not saying this is the case for your husband. Obviously you believe he is innocent and are choosing to stand by him. However, you have had the benefit of a full explanation from your husband whereas others have not. Perhaps those closest to you would benefit from hearing his side of the story as well rather than just being told it is none of their business.

I wish you all the best in repairing whatever damage has been done to your family as a result of this incident. I'm sorry this is happening to you!

And I completely understand that. At the time because of Legal reason we told them as much as we were allowed to. But that wasn't enough for this one person, she flat out told me she pretty much wanted to see the case files so that she could make her own judgement.. 1st of all thats none of her business. The case files in which she is A not a lawyer and B not part of my immediate family. She is just nosey and wants to know every fine detail.. Others who we have told just as much to have stood by us and respected that we were telling them the truth.. Its just really hurtful that people dont believe what someone has to say and wants to see something. She also then went and started spreading rumors about our marriage which were 100% false which hurt even more.. It was an extremly DIFFICULT summer. Despite my husband not wanting me to see the case files and the police report, I wanted to see them and I saw what the police had to say, I believe everything 100% that my husband told me. Someone who said yes to being a bridesmaid in my wedding and that I have known for over 10 years should trust me when I tell them something.

I do agree that cases get thrown out all the time, but they do not always get expunged and that is the difference.. IT takes a lot to get written off of your record and I know someone who was arrested for being around drug paraphernalia and it took her 6 years to get off of her record after filing to have it expunged from her record...It took him 4 months.. That alone says something.

I think my reaction towards this situation depends on the charges...I don't know what they are, and I think there are a lot of things that I would stand by a friend after, but if the charges were child molestation or solicitation of a minor or anything like that, I wouldn't stand by a friend that stayed with her husband after that, even if she believed he was innocent. I wouldn't want anything to do with a person who was charged with that (especially since I have a child), and I wouldn't believe him for a second that he was at the wrong place at the wrong time. That being said, I would try to see past any other type of charge I think (besides rape or murder).

dkleid · December 2014

AliceKC9876 said:

dkleid said:

sensitivesally said:

dkleid said:
That's the thing, he didn't do anything Thus the case being thrown out and being 100% expunged from his record. They just believe what it showed online. Because when you get arrested it goes on the states Judicial Website which anyone can look up, until there is a court hearing and the charges either stick or get thrown out. If he did what the state was saying he did, he wouldn't be my husband and I wouldn't be having his child right now. I just wish people would believe the person involved instead of what a website says.

I want to say this gently, because I really feel for you, and it sounds like such a painful thing to be on the receiving end of such harsh judgment from people you love.

Cases get thrown out of court all the time, and it doesn't necessarily mean that people are innocent. Oftentimes it is a matter of not having strong enough evidence to prove it in court, having nothing to do with whether the accused actually committed the act or acts.

I'm not saying this is the case for your husband. Obviously you believe he is innocent and are choosing to stand by him. However, you have had the benefit of a full explanation from your husband whereas others have not. Perhaps those closest to you would benefit from hearing his side of the story as well rather than just being told it is none of their business.

I wish you all the best in repairing whatever damage has been done to your family as a result of this incident. I'm sorry this is happening to you!

And I completely understand that. At the time because of Legal reason we told them as much as we were allowed to. But that wasn't enough for this one person, she flat out told me she pretty much wanted to see the case files so that she could make her own judgement.. 1st of all thats none of her business. The case files in which she is A not a lawyer and B not part of my immediate family. She is just nosey and wants to know every fine detail.. Others who we have told just as much to have stood by us and respected that we were telling them the truth.. Its just really hurtful that people dont believe what someone has to say and wants to see something. She also then went and started spreading rumors about our marriage which were 100% false which hurt even more.. It was an extremly DIFFICULT summer. Despite my husband not wanting me to see the case files and the police report, I wanted to see them and I saw what the police had to say, I believe everything 100% that my husband told me. Someone who said yes to being a bridesmaid in my wedding and that I have known for over 10 years should trust me when I tell them something.

I do agree that cases get thrown out all the time, but they do not always get expunged and that is the difference.. IT takes a lot to get written off of your record and I know someone who was arrested for being around drug paraphernalia and it took her 6 years to get off of her record after filing to have it expunged from her record...It took him 4 months.. That alone says something.

I think my reaction towards this situation depends on the charges...I don't know what they are, and I think there are a lot of things that I would stand by a friend after, but if the charges were child molestation or solicitation of a minor or anything like that, I wouldn't stand by a friend that stayed with her husband after that, even if she believed he was innocent. I wouldn't want anything to do with a person who was charged with that (especially since I have a child), and I wouldn't believe him for a second that he was at the wrong place at the wrong time. That being said, I would try to see past any other type of charge I think (besides rape or murder).

I will say this it had NOTHING to do with Children at all. NOTHING OF THE SORT because I would not stay with him for that.

holliberry28 · December 2014

Tomorrow is my NT scan and meeting with genetics counselor and DH forgot and now has to attend a management meeting during that time.

It's really not that big a deal to go alone, right? I'm just irrationally nervous b/c been consistently measuring 4 days behind.

AliceKC9876 · December 2014

dkleid said:

AliceKC9876 said:

dkleid said:

sensitivesally said:

dkleid said:
That's the thing, he didn't do anything Thus the case being thrown out and being 100% expunged from his record. They just believe what it showed online. Because when you get arrested it goes on the states Judicial Website which anyone can look up, until there is a court hearing and the charges either stick or get thrown out. If he did what the state was saying he did, he wouldn't be my husband and I wouldn't be having his child right now. I just wish people would believe the person involved instead of what a website says.

I want to say this gently, because I really feel for you, and it sounds like such a painful thing to be on the receiving end of such harsh judgment from people you love.

Cases get thrown out of court all the time, and it doesn't necessarily mean that people are innocent. Oftentimes it is a matter of not having strong enough evidence to prove it in court, having nothing to do with whether the accused actually committed the act or acts.

I'm not saying this is the case for your husband. Obviously you believe he is innocent and are choosing to stand by him. However, you have had the benefit of a full explanation from your husband whereas others have not. Perhaps those closest to you would benefit from hearing his side of the story as well rather than just being told it is none of their business.

I wish you all the best in repairing whatever damage has been done to your family as a result of this incident. I'm sorry this is happening to you!

And I completely understand that. At the time because of Legal reason we told them as much as we were allowed to. But that wasn't enough for this one person, she flat out told me she pretty much wanted to see the case files so that she could make her own judgement.. 1st of all thats none of her business. The case files in which she is A not a lawyer and B not part of my immediate family. She is just nosey and wants to know every fine detail.. Others who we have told just as much to have stood by us and respected that we were telling them the truth.. Its just really hurtful that people dont believe what someone has to say and wants to see something. She also then went and started spreading rumors about our marriage which were 100% false which hurt even more.. It was an extremly DIFFICULT summer. Despite my husband not wanting me to see the case files and the police report, I wanted to see them and I saw what the police had to say, I believe everything 100% that my husband told me. Someone who said yes to being a bridesmaid in my wedding and that I have known for over 10 years should trust me when I tell them something.

I do agree that cases get thrown out all the time, but they do not always get expunged and that is the difference.. IT takes a lot to get written off of your record and I know someone who was arrested for being around drug paraphernalia and it took her 6 years to get off of her record after filing to have it expunged from her record...It took him 4 months.. That alone says something.

I think my reaction towards this situation depends on the charges...I don't know what they are, and I think there are a lot of things that I would stand by a friend after, but if the charges were child molestation or solicitation of a minor or anything like that, I wouldn't stand by a friend that stayed with her husband after that, even if she believed he was innocent. I wouldn't want anything to do with a person who was charged with that (especially since I have a child), and I wouldn't believe him for a second that he was at the wrong place at the wrong time. That being said, I would try to see past any other type of charge I think (besides rape or murder).

I will say this it had NOTHING to do with Children at all. NOTHING OF THE SORT because I would not stay with him for that.

Since that is the case I would hope that your true friends will hear you out and be supportive of you even if they are judging your husband...it sucks losing friends like that...I hope some good friends will have your back.

suzysurparis · December 2014

@holliberry28 said:

Tomorrow is my NT scan and meeting with genetics counselor and DH forgot and now has to attend a management meeting during that time. It's really not that big a deal to go alone, right? I'm just irrationally nervous b/c been consistently measuring 4 days behind.

My NT scan and blood test went really fast, I spent far more time in the waiting room than with the Dr. For the original scan and blood draw they dont really tell you anything, so it should be fine to go in alone.

erbear84 · December 2014

I have a drs appointment this afternoon so I only worked a half day. In the two and a half hours I had students, one managed to get himself suspended for throwing a chair (FINALLY, this is a near-daily occurrence) and one managed to lose his upcoming field trip. I teach SECOND grade. They already lost their class Christmas party due to poor behaviors (I told them they had this week to earn it back) and they're going to tear apart the sub in for me this afternoon. Ugh.

mommacandi · December 2014

dkleid said:

ilovelucyv said:

dkleid said:

So my Bitchfest is kind of long so bear with me on this one...

Over the summer DH got in trouble with the law, he ended up spending the night in jail. After i killed him once he got home, we went to court the following week and the case was thrown out and now 5 months later everything is 100% expunged off of his record like it never happened. Now I've lost a few friends because they went online and case searched him and saw what he was arrested for and made a decision based off of that as to if I should of stayed with him or not. One friend went as far as to say that when her and another girl were 19 they were arrested for underage drinking (we are in the states its 21 to drink) and they got that expunged off of their record.. Ill be honest, the charge was for everyone's worst nightmare but DH happened to be in the wrong place at the wrong time hence why he was let go on zero bail, and the charges were dropped and expunged. I didn't tell them they full details because its really none of their business, they a never reached out to me to see how I was doing and B when they did it was only for details. I happened to be out of town and a bunch of my friends went out to lunch and tried getting details from my one friend who was with me the whole time I thought he was missing. A few of my friend have told me that they want to distance themselves from DH but that our friendship is fine.. Well over the past few week ive noticed that its not fine. I try to make plans and either dont get response back or they are very short. I texted one of these friends this morning asking her to get dinner one night since it has been a while since we have seen each other. But im still waiting to hear back.

I just hate how people read something online think they know wtf happened and then make a decision based off of that.. One told me that because of his charge he was going to become abusive towards me and is now worried about me. But never came out to tell me this until i reached out to her about her distanceness. I just wish people would trust their friends and not what they read online... two of these girls were bridesmaids in my wedding and now one wants nothing to do with me and I have a feeling the other doesnt either.

Wow that sucks. As much as I can try to guess what your husband did there must be more to the story to get such a reaction out of them, but we don't need to know. Regardless, if they were really your friends they should have stuck by you no matter what your husband did and I would like to think my friends would stick by me in a similar situation. I've lost friends the hard way too, it sucks but it is what it is.

That's the thing, he didn't do anything Thus the case being thrown out and being 100% expunged from his record. They just believe what it showed online. Because when you get arrested it goes on the states Judicial Website which anyone can look up, until there is a court hearing and the charges either stick or get thrown out. If he did what the state was saying he did, he wouldn't be my husband and I wouldn't be having his child right now. I just wish people would believe the person involved instead of what a website says.

These people are obviously not true friends if they'd chose to believe the internet over your judgment. I have been in the place where I didn't agree with a friend's choice of SO for one reason or the other, but I never let it impact the friendship because quite frankly, it is none of my business who my friends chose to be with. Now, obviously, if there was a situation where a friend was being abused or something similar, I would be concerned and talk to her about it, but still wouldn't discontinue the friendship. This is a tough situation, especially since it's all a misconception, as you say your H didn't do anything. I'm sorry you're going through this.

Elley1486 · December 2014

Interesting cross-section of Monday Bitchfest's here ladies. Let me lay out my bitch issues...

1.) Our bed frame broke and is currently being held up by floor jacks (for cars), thanks to me "genius" mechanic husband. He calls this "fixed". I call it redneck and unsatisfactory. I also want to make mention that I have not put on THAT much weight to bust our bed frame...I love antique beds and well, I am now paying for it. So, we need to by a new bed frame.

2.) My husband drove my car on Saturday and came in the house pissed because my tires are "completely unsafe and how dumb am I for continuing to drive on bald tires"...well shit, I don't look at the effin tires..that's his job! And way to spring this on me 2 weeks before we drive 1600 miles for the holidays. Awesome dude. I was still angry about it all this morning on the way to work when we passed a car flipped over in the center median. Bare roads, no obvious reason what happened. We stopped for gas and my husband asked someone about it...apparently the drive had bald tires and one blew out...injuries were sustained. Oh thanks world, I needed this effin fear now. GREAT!

3.) I am super stressing over a lab bill that doesn't seem legit (posted about it on the main page, not going over it here) so yea...basically, I should have just stayed in bed today...my jacked up rednecked bed.

NoeliaV · December 2014

@brennazesquire

omg. I am ticked off for you. Get it together, people!

My data person just delivered to me a stack of, like, 50 letters to review... with the date "November 5th" on them. I don't mind double checking her work, but could she at least give it a look herself first? Lazy git.

HoosOnFirst · December 2014

Maybe better for symptom thread, but I thought I had moved beyond morning sickness. I haven't been sick in over a week, but then, this morning, it came back. Siiiiigh!

angielayne926 · December 2014

ilovelucyv 's and it reminded me.

We had family pictures taken and also our announcement picture with DS opening a "Big Brother" ornament a few weeks ago. At the time, I gave our photographer (my friend) a jumpdrive to put the pics on because we upgraded to an imac and don't have a CD drive. She said it was not a problem. She sent me a text to let me know pics were on their way, so I got super excited to work on Christmas cards this weekend. Got the mail on Friday....no jumpdrive....a CD. I sent her a text asking about it and she was like, "OMG, totally just put them on a CD because that's what I'm used to doing." Ugh...while I understand this is not her full time job....I WANT MY PICS! Not a huge deal, we'll have them this week...but still...

b4ebeth · December 2014

Our large family Christmas get together is this weekend...my dad called me to see if he was missing anything from the liquor list. REALLY? I was good until he asked me if I could think of any new drinks to make. I told him to kiss it. Luckily, my dad just laughed and laughed.

Its gonna be a tough weekend. Ugh.

happygardner85 · December 2014

I am small and due to my very
Visible bump i want to smack the next person who asks if I am sure I am
Not having twins?!

vanproos · December 2014

threearrows said:

veggiemo said:

threearrows said:

My husband keeps peeing on the floor. It's as if he is completely incapable of locating the bowl when he goes to the bathroom---it's either on the floor, back of the toilet, running down the sides...but, good lord--it's a mess. We have always had this problem, but he used to have his own bathroom (and was responsible for cleaning it). Now, we moved across the country for him to go back to school, and downsized our living space drastically----no more individual bathrooms for everyone. He hates when I point it out to him because he thinks I'm trying to embarrass him or shame him---but, when I'm already nauseous and walk into to see piss all over the floor, well....

My husband sits to pee at home. I used to make fun of him all the time and think he was weird. Now I have NO COMPLAINTS. Sit all you want, my friend.

At this point, I'd actually pay him money to sit and pee. It would save me from having to constantly clean the floor--and might prevent me from projectile vomitting when I step in it next time.

(Quote fail)

There's not much worse than going to puke (yay first trimester) only puke even more in response to getting urine on my hand as I lift the seat, or due to that nasty smell of urine as my head is in the toilet! Glad I'm not alone in my agony!!! I, too, would pay at this point to have a squatter as a DH.

kyleegail89 · December 2014

I need to jump in on this!!! One of my coworkers monitors how many times a day I go to the restroom!!!

She made a comment that since I've gotten pregnant, I go to the restroom more often. Bitch, I drink so much water a day!! She can take a smoke break, but I can't pee?!?! Then she said that I didn't pee at all at our company Christmas party ( I actually went 2 times in the 3 hours I was there).

She's also bitching because I had the day after our party off and New Years Day off. She said that since I'm pregnant and can't drink, that I should be working those days. Mind you, I'm working New Years Eve and the day after Christmas!

I work in an urgent care and they only days we are closed are thanksgiving and Christmas.

Katerina&Baby · December 2014

I know it's not Monday anymore but I just have to get this off my chest. DH and I are team Green and a significant amount of people ask what on earth I'm going to do for the nursery. Then one of two things happens, both of which drive me nuts: Option A is that they say (with sort of a dissapointed voice) "oh - well yellow and green are nice colors". Oh - I'm sorry - I didn't realize that we only had that option since we won't know the baby's sex ::eye roll::. Option B is that I'm given the time to explain that I really just want to do neutrals (winter whites, soft grey) in a variety of textures - people seem to always pipe up "that's such a good idea - and then you can throw in pink or blue as an accent color once you find out!" Umm - NO! First of all - there is no rule that says that you HAVE to decorate a girl nursery pink and a boy nursery blue. Also - I JUST told you that I'm going for a largely monochromatic nursery (which, btw, will be SO freaking chic - my carefully curated Pinterest board is a masterpiece). But please - continue to tell me how I can/should "improve" my child's nursery.

suzysurparis · December 2014

Katerina&Baby said:

I know it's not Monday anymore but I just have to get this off my chest. DH and I are team Green and a significant amount of people ask what on earth I'm going to do for the nursery. Then one of two things happens, both of which drive me nuts: Option A is that they say (with sort of a dissapointed voice) "oh - well yellow and green are nice colors". Oh - I'm sorry - I didn't realize that we only had that option since we won't know the baby's sex ::eye roll::. Option B is that I'm given the time to explain that I really just want to do neutrals (winter whites, soft grey) in a variety of textures - people seem to always pipe up "that's such a good idea - and then you can throw in pink or blue as an accent color once you find out!" Umm - NO! First of all - there is no rule that says that you HAVE to decorate a girl nursery pink and a boy nursery blue. Also - I JUST told you that I'm going for a largely monochromatic nursery (which, btw, will be SO freaking chic - my carefully curated Pinterest board is a masterpiece). But please - continue to tell me how I can/should "improve" my child's nursery.

Those people also probably forget how colorful children's clothing, toys, accessories can be. Even if you start in neutrals, colors will be coming in all on their own.

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