So I'm curious what others do....My DD will be 4 in 2 weeks (yikes!) and sometime she shuts her door when she goes to sleep. She doesn't always, and sometimes when she shuts it, she'll get up in the middle of the night and open it again. I haven't had a monitor in her room for a while and I still don't feel comfortable with not seeing she's ok. So if the door is shut I open it a tiny bit and leave it. I'm not too worried about privacy yet and if she ever mentioned it, I would stop opening it. What do you do when your LO shuts the door at night: leave it shut or open it?