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struggling with emotions.

Vampiress2die4Vampiress2die4 member
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Almost two years ago i had a incomplete miscarriage, A d&c was done. I was traumatized by the ordeal. I am now 26 weeks, and suddenly the emotions just slammed me. Between vivd memories and dreams it feels like i am going through the loss again only 10x worse. I was not very far along but. The loss is still more painful than any broken limb. I need logic on why this is happening. Why am i grieving all over again when i came to peace with it. I didn't plan this pregnancy but embraced it thinking i had enough Time to heal. Why is my memories of my baby hunting me. I really have no one to turn to. But i need something to help me work this through. I am a very logical person and rarely irrational. So to be like this is totally not like me. this was two years after my son was born so this is my first ppregnancy after my lost little one. Will this happen during every pregnancy i have from here on out? I need someone who can be a really good friend.
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Re: struggling with emotions.

  • mpiemontmpiemont member
    I grieved my loss big time after getting pregnant again- I think it just stirs up emotions of "what if" and what was "supposed to be". At least that's what it did for me. Sending huge hugs your way <3
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