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Single Moms

sarabear5639sarabear5639 member
in April 2015 Moms
hi there! New to the group, I'm 22 weeks and 3 days along. I still don't know what I'm having until next week. I'm starting to get scared as I am doing this alone, and wondered are there any other single moms on here? The dad was super supportive at first, but then decided he's "not interested". This whole pregnancy it hasn't felt real. I'm barely showing and have no symptoms! I finally felt the baby move and hear the heartbeat almost daily with my doppler, it's just starting to sink in. Getting scared I guess!
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  • keifekmkeifekm member
    Welcome and congrats! I hope you find the support system you need so you can relax and enjoy your pregnancy. I am sure you are going to be a great momma. :)
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  • crossfit704crossfit704 member
    Welcome and congrats!  You've got this.  Stay and play with us a while and you'll enjoy yourself and get some great support.  
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  • hillbillywifehillbillywife member
    Welcome!
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  • tdmloverrntdmloverrn member
    Welcome! I listen with my doppler almost daily too :)
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  • sarabear5639sarabear5639 member
    Thanks guys! Yeah if it weren't for the doppler I would go crazy! I hope dad comes around I just don't know what to do if not. I'm still job hunting so that's not fun either. I want to say I can do it without him but it's already hard just not having the emotional support. Thankful for this forum.
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  • c+est+la+viec+est+la+vie member
    Congratulations and welcome!  :-h I have been told (FTM) that once you become a mother you'll know what to do... and what's best for your baby :)
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  • breekehoebreekehoe member
    Welcome!
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  • MushibambooMushibamboo member
    I was a single mom with my first, I can relate--it feels lonely sometimes. Welcome and congrats on your pregnancy!
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  • topaz7777topaz7777 member
    c+est+la+vie said:
    Congratulations and welcome!  :-h I have been told (FTM) that once you become a mother you'll know what to do... and what's best for your baby :)

    This.  You learn each other.  Babies start you out easy with simple needs, and gradually get more complicated.  It's totally worth being scared and overwhelmed about, but you and baby will figure it out together. 

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  • justyouraveragemamajustyouraveragemama member
    I'm going to be a single mom too and since realizing how fast April is coming up I've been terrified. My family has been great in helping me out though. Are you close to any family or friends that could help you out when the baby is born?
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  • Ndm410Ndm410 member
    Welcome! I'm single too. 22w 5d. We can do this :-).
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  • leschmidt6912leschmidt6912 member
    I was single with my first and the father was never involved. Once you become a mom instinct kicks in. I was young and scared but once that baby is in your arms you just change. Life becomes about them and you do what it takes. Don't try to be super woman though. If you need help... Ask

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