I hope this doesn't sound too know-it-all-ish, but I hate reading threads in other forums and thinking
, "Your child probably has autism... but I cannot say that so all I can do is suggest calling EI and your pediatrician."
It just takes me back to when we started having problems, and I had that sinking feeling in my gut but didn't want to admit anything. And of course I don't really know, there could be a lot of different things going on. But the flags.... I'm sure you guys know what I mean and this happens to many of us.