TTC after 35

Hoping to get out of busy season ;)

This may be a bit of a dear diary but... I am a tax accountant and we have two pretty big busy seasons, one in the spring and one in the fall (Sept & Oct). With the way our maternity leave policy works out I would need to get pregnant by the end of December in order to be gone before the Fall busy season really got underway. Dont get me wrong, I will be happy to get pregnant at any point in the next year, but it would be extra awesome if I could not be around for the Fall busy season because it SUCKS. Most people at my office work 55-70 hour weeks for the two months leading up to October 15th. I am not looking forward to it in the least. Of course if I was Prego I would probably not have to worry too much about it because I think it would be pretty easy to say , hey give the pregnant lady a break, but still, its super stressful. Anyway, I should be ovulating towards the end of next week so heres me crossing my fingers that this is my lucky month!

And and extra good luck to everyone else as well!

Re: Hoping to get out of busy season ;)

  • Best wishes and I'm alright with dear diary on this board on occasion.

    I read someone's weekly check and they were stating how much they would love to have a Leo!  Well dangit I'm a Leo and I'd love to have a little leo too... but obviously just wanting ain't getting.  Here's hoping we all get our desire very soon!
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  • @clgsquared I also teach at a high school - I know what you mean about missing the beginning or ending of a school year!
    Married October 2014. Me 38 DH 34
    MMC 1/21/15 @ 11 weeks
    DD born 1/1/16
    MC 5/17 and 8/17
    BFP 11/18 EDD 7/27/18
  • My FX that this month works out for you! 
    I am not sure how to say this without getting a "solicitation" warning so I guess I just say that I am not longer active on THIS site. 



  • I hope it works out the way you want! :)
    SIGGY WARNING
    Me 38   DH 34
    married 05-21-11 
    started TTC right away






    BFP- 10-16-14 EDD 6/13/15: MC 12-1-14 
  • That's a fantastic goal!! Best wishes to you!
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  • That would be awesome. You just made me realize if I get a BFP this month, I'll be taking off during our busy season, too. Good luck to you!
  • me too!  I run corporate events and from Labor day through this coming week I am SUPER busy. would LOVE to get out of the fall season next year ;)
    TTC#1 since Aug 2013, I'm 37, DH 41.  
    Maya Arvigo Abdominal massage (daily self care), plus TTC meditations.
    I'm very sensitive to diet (gluten, avoid processed foods) and environment. Have a history of inflammation and tendinitis before going off gluten in 2009.  
    July 2014 - RE Visit #1: Eggs look good, Endometrioma on R ovary, HSG showed blocked R tube close to ovary. DH SA normal 
    DX: Endometriosis probably the IF cause and gunking up tubes.  Since egg reserve is high, RE says I can wait a couple months and then get laproscopic surgery to remove endo & clear tube.  If that doesn't help then move to IVF. 
    Dec 2014 - Saw new RE - does not recommend surgery on tube as it isn't likely to help.  Doubts I have endometriosis.  My endometrioma shrunk to neglible size (yay!) 
    Seriously considering IVF in March/April
    12/17/14 - Natural BFP! 
  • I'm a banker in Canada and would love to miss either the RSP deadline in February or the end of the fiscal year in October! Not a silly wish at all. We all have our hopes...I've just been trying for over a year now, so I will take anything I can get.
  • Working in finance, I can relate.  For me my busy season is couple months leading up to year end as I create the Budget for the next year and year end as we finalize the books and perform variance and projection analysis.  We will be ending our busy season mid month next month.  Got to love this 12+ hour days.
    ****Siggy Warning***
    ~Formerly ABabyMabe4us



    Me(35) Him(35) Untied for life 4/1/2015.
    TTC Our 1st since 8/2014
    MC @ 7 weeks 5/2014
    Me: DD#1 3/2000, DD#2 6/2001, DS 5/2003
    BFP: 2/19/2015 EDD: 11/1/2015 IT'S A BOY!!!!

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  • If I get pregnant this month I'll be off work during my busiest season, but that stresses me out more than excites me because it's when a lot of my yearly programs begin at work and it's harder to prepare for a substitute than just do it myself.  However, we are still trying this month because I guess I can't be picky and should just be grateful if we get a BFP even if it means work stress! 
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