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daydreamer3451 · December 2014

Hello all,

This is a new forum for me. My husband and I found out last week that we had lost our baby (I was 7 weeks pregnant). It was our first one. After trying to go through the miscarriage naturally, but to no avail, we decided to take the pill to help the process along. I took the pill Monday, and now have an appointment on Friday to find out if this is all over or not. I am having a really tough time dealing with the loss. Everyone keeps saying "it will get better in time" and "things happen for a reason" but it is not making me feel any better. I just don't know what to do and where to go.

Today is my first day back at work after finding out. I feel like I am silently suffering as I never told anyone that I was pregnant....I just want it to get better.

welly01 · December 2014

I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope you can find some comfort here.

rubysi · December 2014

Welcome. I am sorry for your loss.

adagiomo · December 2014

I am so sorry for your loss. This group of women are extremely supportive. This is a great place to vent, and you do not need to silently suffer here. I hope you give yourself time to grieve and heal. Big hugs to you! >:D<

BookishMomma · December 2014

I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope you'll find this board to be a supportive place for you while you heal.

incir · December 2014

Welcome. I am sorry for your loss. Every path to healing is different so don't let others set a timeline for you or tell you how you should feel. And lean on the board when you need.

rmpar29 · December 2014

I'm very sorry for your loss. I understand suffering silently, so know that we are here for you. Be kind to yourself and good luck at your appointment. ((((HUGS))))

CC1017 · December 2014

I'm so sorry for the loss of your baby. Take as much time as you need. Grief is a very individual process. Losing a baby can be a very isolating experience. I have found it very helpful to talk about my loss A LOT - with my DH, Mom, close friends, therapist. It's part of who I am now.

MellyMel15 · December 2014

I'm very sorry for your loss. I hope you find the comfort and support you need here. Everyone on this board has been really nice.

If it makes you feel any better, I went to work the day after I found out about my MMC and spent a good portion of the day crying at my desk. I hadn't told anyone I was pregnant either, but I eventually opened up to three co-workers.

As @CC1017 said, this can be a very isolating experience and I too find it helpful to talk about my loss with the people I trust.

And, yes, going through this does fucking suck (pardon my language). Just do your best to hang in there… that's all you can do. Sending you hugs.

daydreamer3451 · December 2014

Thank you all for welcoming me. It is refreshing to have a safe place where I can vent and talk about my experience. I tried getting through this one day at a time, but found that I really just need to focus on moment by moment...

Nikolie93 · December 2014

I am sorry for your loss. I hope you find the comfort and support you are looking for here. *hug*

catvaughn5002 · December 2014

I'm so sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board! One of my favorite things about this group of ladies is that they can relate and sympathize when others may not even know what is going on. ((hugs))

rslh10 · December 2014

I am so sorry for your loss. People IRL say hurtful things when they are faced with difficult situations, and I'm sorry you have to hear them. ((Hugs)) Welcome to the board.

jordangoodnight · December 2014

Welcome to the board. I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost my first pregnancy in October so this is all pretty new to me too. The first few weeks were tough but it really has gotten easier with time. FX that all is well on your appointment Friday. (((hugs)))

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