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Christian Ladies Come In

jmicole1005jmicole1005 member
edited December 2014 in TTC After a Loss
Hey!  There has been a new GROUP created just for Christian women who are ttcaal. We welcome all and hope this can be a positive and uplifting place that Christian women feel comfortable to discuss their walk through a loss and moving forward in a safe environment. Check it out!  It's a very new group so we're just getting started but there are hopes to make it into something more :) 
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  • jmicole1005jmicole1005 member
    Ok I am sort of new to this and I apologize if I didn't use the correct wording.... I'm just helping out.  In no way am I trying to say that the current board isn't a safe place but no one has been updating the weekly bible study check in for almost a month now. It's just a different opportunity. 
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  • jmicole1005jmicole1005 member
    I do not post often because I am only able to come to this site maybe once a day.  I cannot possibly keep up with everything that goes on in this board and comment on everyone's posts. I've only been a part of it for about a month now. I'm not trying to be "spammy" and I do not appreciate this. I was only doing this as another outlet. 
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  • buggirl72buggirl72 member
    edited December 2014
    bluedaisy0627 said:
    jmicole1005 said:
    I do not post often because I am only able to come to this site maybe once a day.  I cannot possibly keep up with everything that goes on in this board and comment on everyone's posts. I've only been a part of it for about a month now. I'm not trying to be "spammy" and I do not appreciate this. I was only doing this as another outlet. 
    Relax.  As a member of the Bible study check-in who was not able to volunteer to lead it, I understand your confusion.  It has been a long time since we had one, and I really miss it.  I'm sorry that you don't feel like you have time to keep up with everyone.  All buggirl72 was trying to say (and correct me if I'm wrong) is that many of us, myself included, do not recognize you.  It's weird to be redirected outside of this board, because this is our safe place.  We do hope that people show support, even outside of their check-ins, because this is the best place that no one wants to be. 

    This exactly. Also, I did not tell you to comment on everyone's post. This community thrives on people giving support to others. You certainly can give a TP every day if that is how you want to use this board and never give a hug or word of encouragement to a person outside of the two threads you typically post to - all I'm saying is that I (and every other regular poster) read this post and said "who is this stranger trying to drag people away from TTCAL. Best of luck with your social group.

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  • PinkCaminoPinkCamino member
    wickedsugar said:
    jmicole1005 said:
    I do not post often because I am only able to come to this site maybe once a day.  I cannot possibly keep up with everything that goes on in this board and comment on everyone's posts. I've only been a part of it for about a month now. I'm not trying to be "spammy" and I do not appreciate this. I was only doing this as another outlet. 
    So.. You're busier than the rest of us ?  I'm sorry but this is really bugging me, you have the time  to post in TP or your month check in, but you can't be bothered with the rest of us, and you now want to only "Christian Ladies" for a Social group ???  Yeah...
    This.
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  • jmicole1005jmicole1005 member
    Wow thanks for taking things out of context and making me feel more unwelcome here.... I did not try to say that I was more busy or that I can't lift others up... I guess I can't say anything without being attacked. I do not participate in any of these threads on a daily basis... Just because I don't post doesn't mean I don't read or that what everyone else is going through isn't on my heart and mind because it is. Sometimes people don't know what to say and if people are like me I don't say something unless it really moves me or upsets me... Just like you said, I'm not very known here so I don't want to be the random person saying things just to say something. I'm new at this, I've only had one miscarriage and it has absolutely devastated every aspect of my life, I'm just trying to figure out how to cope and make it through each day.  I jwanted to find a place of support and encouragement in trying to move forward. I did not post this to step on toes or anything, I was trying to become more involved. 
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  • MenrandesMenrandes member
    jmicole1005 said:
    Wow thanks for taking things out of context and making me feel more unwelcome here.... I did not try to say that I was more busy or that I can't lift others up... I guess I can't say anything without being attacked. I do not participate in any of these threads on a daily basis... Just because I don't post doesn't mean I don't read or that what everyone else is going through isn't on my heart and mind because it is. Sometimes people don't know what to say and if people are like me I don't say something unless it really moves me or upsets me... Just like you said, I'm not very known here so I don't want to be the random person saying things just to say something. I'm new at this, I've only had one miscarriage and it has absolutely devastated every aspect of my life, I'm just trying to figure out how to cope and make it through each day.  I jwanted to find a place of support and encouragement in trying to move forward. I did not post this to step on toes or anything, I was trying to become more involved. 
    Ok, I get it, you wanted a place for you to feel safe with like minded ladies.  That makes sense.  But coming in here saying you want to be more involved?  Creating a group is not being more involved in this community.  And playing the pain olympics around these parts is not considered cool.
    If you have the time to read, then you have the time to respond.  That's how you get people to know who you are.  Give support to get support, that's how this community works. 
    This community is a place of support and encouragement. 
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  • jmicole1005jmicole1005 member
    Ok I did it wrong... Now if only I could figure out how to just delete this post.... 

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  • HeyMrsPotterHeyMrsPotter member
    jmicole1005 said:
    Hey!  There has been a new GROUP created just for Christian women who are ttcaal. We welcome all and hope this can be a positive and uplifting place that Christian women feel comfortable to discuss their walk through a loss and moving forward in a safe environment. Check it out!  It's a very new group so we're just getting started but there are hopes to make it into something more :) 
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