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CC1017CC1017 member
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Hi Ladies,

I'm CC. I lost my daughter Grace on 11/17 at 17 weeks after my water broke unexpectedly (I did a detailed intro on the Loss board if you're interested). This loss really shook me to my core. I guess when you get to a certain point, you foolishly think everything is going to be ok. We still don't know why it happened and it sounds like we may never know for sure. My doctor thinks there may have been a problem with the way the placenta attached - I have a bicornuate uterus, so it could be that or there were thoughts about a possible fibroid.

My next step is seeing a high risk specialist. I go at the end of this month. I think the plan is additional blood work and an HSG. I'd be curious to hear about your experiences with additional testing. 

I'm not ready to TTC again until I get the all clear from the high risk specialist, but even then I may delay a little bit so as to not interfere with a major project at work. Of course, this experience has taught me that the world can easily tell you and your plans to go F yourselves, so I guess I'll just see how I feel when the time comes. 

I hope to offer support and learn from all of your journeys.
Lilypie Third Birthday tickers Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers 
BFP #1 DS born 10/16/12 at 39w6d
BFP #2 DD lost 11/17/14 at 17w2d
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  • PinkCaminoPinkCamino member
    I'm so sorry for your loss ((hugs)) I lost my twins at 21 weeks so I completely understand that feeling of having the rug pulled out from under you when you think you are safe.

    Has your doctor suggested IC as an explanation? If you have a bicornuate uterus it can seriously affect your cervix which can lead to sudden dilation and your water breaking.

    I'm so sorry you find yourself here.
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  • ellebelle2384ellebelle2384 member
    I'm so sorry for your loss.  ((hugs))  Welcome to the board.
    Me: 31     DH: 33
    Dx: Me: Recurrent Pregnancy Loss; DH: Low Morphology (2%)
    BFP#1: MC 3/1/11 at 6w1d - EDD 10/21/11
    BFP#2: 5/3/11 - EDD 1/9/12 - DD Born 1/6/12
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    TTC #2 since 12/13
    BFP#3: MC 2/8/14 at 4w5d - EDD 10/13/14
    BFP#4: MC 5/6/14 at 4w4d - EDD 1/9/15
    BFP#5: MMC discovered 8/4/14 at 9w1d - D&C 8/5/14 - Baby Boy with Trisomy 16 (maternal origin) - EDD 3/8/15
    BFP#6: CP 11/6/14 at 4w2d - EDD 7/14/15
    IVF #1 with ICSI & PGS: May/June 2015, ER 6/3/15, 17R/17M/15F
    IVF #2 with ICSI & PGS: July 2015, ER 7/16/15, 16R/11M/9F
    PGS results = 6 normal embryos (4 boys, 2 girls)
    FET 9/23/15 = BFFN
    Natural FET 11/4/15 = BFP!
    Beta 9dp5dt = 92

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  • CC1017CC1017 member
    @PinkCamino My cervix was still closed when my water broke so that wasn't offered as an explanation. I was having a lot of bleeding and cramping about 12 hours before my water broke - an ultrasound showed baby was ok and the cervix was long and closed. The ultrasound report said "6x4 cm density in the upper uterine segment may present fibroid versus hemmorrhage." I think that's why they were leaning towards a placental attachment issue.
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    BFP #1 DS born 10/16/12 at 39w6d
    BFP #2 DD lost 11/17/14 at 17w2d
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  • Nikolie93Nikolie93 member
    I am so sorry for your loss and that you find yourself here. *hug* 
    I am not sure how to say this without getting a "solicitation" warning so I guess I just say that I am not longer active on THIS site. 



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  • welly01welly01 member

    I'm so very sorry for your loss.

                                                                                              BFP #1 3/2/12, T born 11/7/12
                                                                                                 BFP #2  7/2/14, CP 7/6/14
                                 BFP #3 8/28/14, MMC 10/2/14 @ 9wks - misoprostol 10/6/14, D&C 11/3/14 for retained tissue
                                       BFP #4 12/25/14, EDD 9/7/15 - please stick baby, you are so loved and wanted!!!!!                                                                                           
                                                                                                                                                   
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  • eliidaeliida member
    I am so very sorry for the loss of your daughter, Grace. Welcome.
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  • incirincir member
    I am so sorry for your loss of Grace.  Welcome to the board and I hope that the specialist has answers and a plan for you!

    BFP #1 ended with H born 2/2/13
    BFP #2 ended in loss @7weeks 10/15/14
    BFP #3 due 8/21/15 *please stick*
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  • rmpar29rmpar29 member
    (((((HUGS)))))  I'm very sorry for your loss.  Welcome to the board. 
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     BFP - 10/18/2012, EDD - 6/26/2013, Baby Girl lost at 22 weeks (T21), D&E 2/15/2013
    BFP - 4/23/2014, EDD - 1/2/2015 Twin Boys lost at 12 weeks, M/C 6/25/2014
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  • BookishMommaBookishMomma member
    I'm so sorry for the loss of your sweet girl. I hope you'll find this board to be a supportive place.
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    Me (35) + DH (37) - Married Sept. 2007
    BFP #1 - DS born 7/11/11
    BFP#2 11/13/13 - EDD 7/29/14 - M/C at 5w3d
    BFP #3 12/28/13 - EDD 9/7/14 - M/C at 4w6d
    BFP#4 3/27/14 -  EDD 12/5/14 - Girl lost to 45X at 8w6d - D&C 
    BFP#5 10/15/14 - EDD 6/30/15 - M/C at 7w2d
    BFP #6 1/5/15 - EDD 9.16.14 [CLICKY for progress]
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  • rubysirubysi member
    Welcome. I am sorry for your loss of Grace. I hope you find comfort here.

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  • adagiomoadagiomo member
    I am so sorry of the loss of your daughter Grace.  Welcome to the boards and I hope that you find some answers with the high risk specialist. 

    Me:30 - DH:30 - Married 26.Apr.2008
    Start TTC 14.May.2014
    BFP:23.Jun.14 - ED:14.Mar.14 - MMC found 29.Jul.14 - NMC:8.Aug.14
    CD1 AL:15.Oct.14

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  • flyoffeveflyoffeve member
    I am so sorry for your loss. (Hugs) Welcome.

    Me: 31 DH: 36
    Dated Since ‘02, Married in ‘06
    BFP#1 05/16/06, EDD01/16/07, MC 06/12/06 at 8 weeks
    BFP #2 08/14/14, EDD 04/22/15, MC 09/17/14 at 9 weeks

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  • catvaughn5002catvaughn5002 member
    I'm very sorry for the loss of you baby girl Grace.  Welcome to a wonderful supportive group of ladies. ((hugs))
    Me: 26 DH:28
    TTC - Sept 2014
    # 1 BFP - October 5, 2014 EDD June 5, 2015 CP - October 14, 2014


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  • CrunkalCrunkal member
    I'm so sorry for the loss of your darling Grace. I hope your high risk specialist is able to give you the answers you need. Welcome to the Board. You've found a wonderful group of women.
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  • CC1017CC1017 member
    edited December 2014
    Thanks @PetraStonegirl‌. I may have some of my terminology mixed up. I had something like a saline sonogram followed by a hysteroscopy about 10 years ago when I was having abnormal bleeding. I also had an MRI after they found the bicornuate. I wasn't interested in babies at all at the time, I was only 20. I don't remember them saying anything about it impacting my fertility or needing to get it fixed. I guess I'll have to do it all again now. 
    Eta: apparently I need to go to fertility school. I thought HSG stood for hysterosonogram, which I've had before.
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    BFP #1 DS born 10/16/12 at 39w6d
    BFP #2 DD lost 11/17/14 at 17w2d
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  • Elliecat17Elliecat17 member
    I am so sorry for the loss of your Grace. Welcome to the board. ((hugs))
    Me: 24 
    DH: 25
    BFP: 1/12/14       EDD: 9/18/14     MC: 1/15/14
    BFP: 5/6/14         EDD: 1/5/15       MC: 5/10/14
    BFP: 12/29/14      EDD: 9/12/15      MC: 1/5/15
    Dx: PCOS - 8/20/14, Hashimoto's - 10/10/14, Gluten Allergy 10/10/14


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  • rslh10rslh10 member
    I am so sorry for the loss of your Daughter. Welcome to the board. ((hugs))
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    Hubs & I -29 • Met 5/18/04 • Married 5/8/10
    BFP #1 DS 2/7/11 (Born @ 34 wks via ECS due to Pre-e) TTC #2 since Aug '13
    DX Low AMH (.58) March '14 • FSH-7.5 • E2-35.5 (Nov '14)
    SA- Great numbers • SIS- Clear (Nov '14)
     Cycle 1- Clomid CD3-7 & Trigger-BFP • EDD 1/12/15 
    Ectopic @ 5w6d • Methotrexate Shot 5/18/14
    Cycle 2,3,4- Clomid CD3-7 & Trigger-- BFN
    Cycle 5- Letrozole CD3-7 & Trigger BFFN
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  • jordangoodnightjordangoodnight member
    I'm so sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board. 
    Me: 24 (hypothyroidism)
    DH:25
    Married June 2012 
    TTC September 2014
    BFP #1 October 17, 2014
    MC #1 October 26, 2014
    Benched 2 cycles (hoping to TTC January) 
    Off the bench as of Jan 2015
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  • schuebjaschuebja member
    I'm so sorry for the loss of your daughter. I hope you are able to get some answers from the specialist. Welcome
    Together since April 2004.  Married since June 19th, 2010.
     BFP #1: January 31st 2012: CP. 
     BFP #2: June 1st 2012, Due:2/8/13. Avery was born via unplanned c section on 2/13/13. 
     BFP #3: Sept. 25th, 2014. Due: 6/5/15.  MMC on 10/23/14. Confirmed complete molar pregnancy per D&C 10/29/14, 
    HCG officially negative 12/10/14.  Benched until June 2015.
                                                        
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  • nange12nange12 member
    I'm so sorry for the loss of your daughter.  Sending you big hugs!
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  • Littleowl913Littleowl913 member
    I'm sorry for your loss. I remember your intro from the Loss Board. I hope meeting with the High Risk doctor will get you come answers. I went to the high risk doctor in my practice and he gave me such hope for the future. I had severe pre-eclampsia so it was a placenta issue.  I'm currently waiting results on the clotting disorders testing and a placental pathology (second opinion from another hospital lab). Good luck! 
    TTC since August 2013 BFP #1 1/15/14...MMC 2/24/14...D&C 3/3/14 BFP #2 5/11/14 ... severe pre-e placental abruption our angel born sleeping at 22 weeks Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
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  • renegadewhitrenegadewhit member
    I'm sorry for your loss. Welcome to this board.
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  • LittleMrsWLittleMrsW member
    I'm so sorry for your loss. Welcome.




    Me-27 DH-29

     TTC#1 January 2013

    BFP February 27th 2014, MMC ended in D&C

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  • raelynn71109raelynn71109 member
    I am so sorry for your loss. Welcome.

    Me: 34; DH: 38; SD: 9
    TTC #1 since November 2013

    BFP #1: 2/4/14--EDD 10/14/14--CP 2/8/14

    BFP #2: 3/1/14--EDD 11/15/14--MMC at 12w6d (baby stopped developing at 11w4d)
    D&C 5/13/14; Retained Tissue Found: Cytotec 5/30/14; 2nd D&C 6/20/14

    BFP #3: 12/13/14--EDD 8/27/15--MMC at 7 weeks (no fetal pole and measuring 1 1/2 weeks behind)--Cytotec 1/9/15

    January 2015: Off to RE for RPL testing

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