Has anyone else had a small belly during their pregnancy? I'm 30 weeks tomorrow and EVERYONE says I am so tiny! I was skinny before getting pregnant, Baby's growing right on schedule and is in the middle of all of his growth charts, so he's healthy and growing fine. I usually get embarrassed and mutter a Thank You...but what exactly do you say to this?
Re: "You're So Small!"
TTC #2
Cycle 1: (January/February) Cycle 2: (February/March)
But FMIL, she is the ONLY one who has commented on how small I look. Like, I started off at a healthy weight for my height (15lbs less than what I started off with DS), and have gained about 25lbs so far (34w today), and she is all "last time I saw you I was thinking, man that girl needs to eat something!" and I'm like, wtf??... or "You know once you have the baby and start nursing you'll lose more weight you have to make sure you're eating enough" and I'm thinking, yeah I know this isn't my first rodeo...
Why should she keep it to herself? Your body issues are not her's and it seems as though plenty of people have had similar experiences. OP, I got the same thing with twins! It is annoying
Dx: balanced translocation and LPD
TTC since Oct 2011
BPF 02/19/12, EDD 10/31/12, natural m/c 02/28/12 (4w6d)
IVF (BCPs starting 10/30/12, ER 11/18/12, 5dt of 1 beautiful, healthy embryo 11/23/12)
BFP 12/02/12, u/s @ 6w,5d showed 2 HBs! Identical twins!!
Bed rest from 21w-35w due to short cervix, hospital bed rest from 23w-32w due to PTL
Our rainbows were born 07/19/13 (36w, 5d)
Being pregnant does not make it okay for people to comment on our bodies. But when people are generally expressing interest and aren't being too negative, I try to just be graceful about it and say the above.
Repeated offensive comments from the same person get a more blunt response. "It makes me very uncomfortable to hear comments like that. I'd really prefer not to discuss that with you."
Just know that as annoying as it is, people seem to mean well. Be better if people weren't so anxious to comment on pregnant body sizes-big or small! It hopefully gets easier for you. Those comments don't bother me anymore.
BFP 3/30/14.
From one hour to the next the comments ran between, "you're so tiny" to "you look like you're going to pop". Why give these people so much power over your emotional state? They aren't trained professionals. They don't have a clue what they are talking about. If your doctor is telling you everything is great, why allow yourself to get tied in knots over something your mailman said?
The comment that bothers me is "Are you sure you're eating enough?" It usually follows the "small" comment and it truly pisses me off. I'm tempted to reply to the next person who says that with "Are you sure you're not eating too much?" And then I'll rub their belly awkwardly without asking first.