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Hello all. I am unfortunately here because I had my 3rd miscarriage over the weekend.......so I know this is a little soon, but I am not waiting to TTC again. This is such a painful thing to go through and my heart is broken.... I feel like the only thing that will help is to not give up and try again as soon as I feel up for it. I have been going through so many emotions over the past few days, and its hard to not feel hopeless and scared that I might not be able to have a family. My husband and I have been trying for 3 years and we were so excited and once I got to 10 weeks we felt comfortable enough to tell friends and family. Then just a few days after I hit 10 weeks I started spotting and it was all downhill from there. And, so, here I am, sad, scared, depressed, but at the same time having to keep it together and try to stay positive so I don't go crazy....
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  • mkfish31mkfish31 member
    So sorry for your losses. Hugs to you during this difficult time.
    Married since Dec 2010. TTC since Feb of 2014. 

    **BFP#1 Feb 20th. EDD October 28th, 2014. MC March 20th (7.5 wks) D&C.

    **BFP #2 May 22nd. EDD Feb 8th, 2015.   MC  July 1st, 2014 (6.5 weeks) D&C

     Heard both babies heartbeats @6w3d, 122bpm and 100bpm. Will never forget that sound!

    **BFP #3 EDD 8/21/15  Please, please be our rainbow!!

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  • rubysirubysi member
    Welcome. I am sorry for your losses.

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  • CrunkalCrunkal member
    So sorry for your losses. Hope your stay is short and sweet. Sending lots of hugs your way.
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  • K1978K1978 member
    Thank you...and sorry for your losses as well. it definitely helps to have people that understand what I am going through to talk to. (((HUGS)))
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  • RachaeleighRachaeleigh member
    Sorry for your loss. Welcome

    4 Losses (2003, 2008, Apr 2012, & Oct 2012)
    All RPL and IF testing with multiple REs = normal

    5 IUIs = BFN

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  • rslh10rslh10 member
    PetraStonegirl said:

    Welcome to the board, I am sorry for your loss. Thirding the advice to make sure you are medically cleared. It's not just the mind and soul that needs to heal. Remember that the overwhelming need to be pregnant again is part of the grief process. Work through it before getting back on this particular horse.

    All of this. Welcome to the board. I run the newb check in, feel free to join in. I will post it tomorrow. I'm so sorry for your loss.
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    BFP #1 DS 2/7/11 (Born @ 34 wks via ECS due to Pre-e) TTC #2 since Aug '13
    DX Low AMH (.58) March '14 • FSH-7.5 • E2-35.5 (Nov '14)
    SA- Great numbers • SIS- Clear (Nov '14)
     Cycle 1- Clomid CD3-7 & Trigger-BFP • EDD 1/12/15 
    Ectopic @ 5w6d • Methotrexate Shot 5/18/14
    Cycle 2,3,4- Clomid CD3-7 & Trigger-- BFN
    Cycle 5- Letrozole CD3-7 & Trigger BFFN
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  • K1978K1978 member
    Thank you all. I did get the OK to try again from my midwife and naturopath. They did say that I may not ovulate this cycle though.
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  • schuebjaschuebja member
    I'm so sorry for your losses. Welcome.
    Together since April 2004.  Married since June 19th, 2010.
     BFP #1: January 31st 2012: CP. 
     BFP #2: June 1st 2012, Due:2/8/13. Avery was born via unplanned c section on 2/13/13. 
     BFP #3: Sept. 25th, 2014. Due: 6/5/15.  MMC on 10/23/14. Confirmed complete molar pregnancy per D&C 10/29/14, 
    HCG officially negative 12/10/14.  Benched until June 2015.
                                                        
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  • CharmndmomCharmndmom member
    So sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board.
    Me: 33, DH: 32  
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  • eliidaeliida member
    I'm so sorry for your losses. Welcome.
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  • FutureMrsWright2012FutureMrsWright2012 member
    So sorry for your losses, but welcome and best of luck to you. 
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    DH - 34; nml swimmers; Me - 34; sinking AMH (now 0.55), low AFC, nml FSH/LH 
    Clomid + IUI #1 (6/2013) - BFN; #2 (7/2013) - BFFN 
    Bonus info: me - low TNF, low vitamin D, borderline low IGF (all improving) 
    IVF (May/June2014) 5R/5F/2T (ET 6/11) - no frosties. 
    + HPT 8dp5dt. Beta #1 - 71(6/20). Beta #2 381 (6/24) 
    U/S 7/11 (one perfect little bean, HB 150's). EDD 3/1/2015
    Baby boy Lincoln Alexander's HB stopped at 18w and was delivered at 19w (10/3/2014)
    All testing normal/negative including normal chromosomes - no answers... D&C 11/20/2014
    IVF#2 coming in Spring 2015
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  • meredithcarolemeredithcarole member
    I am so sorry for your losses. Welcome.
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    AMA 35 :  DH 33
    BFP#1 1/26/14 (EDD: 10/7/14).  MMC 3/10/14 D&C 3/14/14
    RE Consult 11/3/14 - AMH 2.25 "great" . FSH 7.10 . Low Vitamin D
    Myomectomy 12/17/14.  Benched until March.

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  • tlc35tlc35 member
    I am sorry for your losses.  Have you looked into/been tested for repeat pregnancy loss testing?  Welcome to the board.
    Me: 37                                               
    DH: 45
    BFP #1 3/19/14  EDD 11/29/14 MMC D&C 4/24/14
    BFP #2  12/4/14 Beta #1 218 at 12dpo Beta #2 1055 at 16dpo
    Saw heartbeat 12/29.  Please be a rainbow.
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  • rmpar29rmpar29 member
    I'm very sorry for your loss.  PPs have given you excellent advice about waiting to try, so I won't reiterate it here.  Welcome to the board.
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     BFP - 10/18/2012, EDD - 6/26/2013, Baby Girl lost at 22 weeks (T21), D&E 2/15/2013
    BFP - 4/23/2014, EDD - 1/2/2015 Twin Boys lost at 12 weeks, M/C 6/25/2014
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  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] member
    I'm just going to echo what PP's have already said. We've all felt the overwhelming need to try again as soon as possible. But it is so important for your health and the health of any future pregnancies, that you give yourself time to heal physically and emotionally. 

    I'm sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board. ((hugs))
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  • incirincir member
    So sorry for your loss.  When I first had my loss all I wanted was the jump back into TTC, now that I've had a little time it is much less urgent.  That really is part of the healing process.  Take some time for yourself both physically and mentally.  So sorry you had to join us.

    BFP #1 ended with H born 2/2/13
    BFP #2 ended in loss @7weeks 10/15/14
    BFP #3 due 8/21/15 *please stick*
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  • BookishMommaBookishMomma member
    I'm sorry for all you've been through. We have a multiple loss check-in for those of us who have had more than one loss. Feel free to check it out. It's a great group of ladies.
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    Me (35) + DH (37) - Married Sept. 2007
    BFP #1 - DS born 7/11/11
    BFP#2 11/13/13 - EDD 7/29/14 - M/C at 5w3d
    BFP #3 12/28/13 - EDD 9/7/14 - M/C at 4w6d
    BFP#4 3/27/14 -  EDD 12/5/14 - Girl lost to 45X at 8w6d - D&C 
    BFP#5 10/15/14 - EDD 6/30/15 - M/C at 7w2d
    BFP #6 1/5/15 - EDD 9.16.14 [CLICKY for progress]
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  • renegadewhitrenegadewhit member
    I'm sorry for your losses. Welcome to this board. It's full of caring women with great advice. I recommend listening to PP about waiting until you're cleared.
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  • alm288alm288 member

    I'm so sorry for your losses. Welcome

    TTC: Since July 2013
    BFP #1: EDD 05/27/2014 (D&C 10/17/2014)
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  • Nikolie93Nikolie93 member
    Sorry once again for your losses *hug*

    I am going to mimic what others have said. In the Miscarriage board you stated that you felt your time was running out due to your age. Please don't let that play a factor in TTC right away. It's not worth the risk to try again if your body hasn't healed. I am not a Dr but I would proceed with caution if I was in this situation and was cleared to try again so soon after a 10 week loss. 

    Good luck to you. 
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  • MellyMel15MellyMel15 member
    I'm very sorry for your losses. I hope you'll find the comfort and support you need here. The ladies on this board have been so great and caring. 
    * Me: 31, DH: 33 * Married 10.16.10 * Parents of our furbaby Sophie *
    BFP: 8.28.14 | EDD 5.6.15 | MMC Discovered 9.25.14 (8 weeks)| D&C 9.30.14

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    "Everybody here has got a story to tell. Everybody's been through their own hell. There's nothing too special about getting hurt, but getting over it that takes the work. Because one way or another, we all need each other. Nothing's going to turn out the way you thought it would. Friends and lovers, don't you duck and cover because everything comes out the way it should in the end." -Glen Phillips, "Duck and Cover" 


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  • catvaughn5002catvaughn5002 member
    Welcome to the board.  I'm sorry for your losses.
    Me: 26 DH:28
    TTC - Sept 2014
    # 1 BFP - October 5, 2014 EDD June 5, 2015 CP - October 14, 2014


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  • jordangoodnightjordangoodnight member
    I'm so sorry for your loss. :( ((hugs))
    Me: 24 (hypothyroidism)
    DH:25
    Married June 2012 
    TTC September 2014
    BFP #1 October 17, 2014
    MC #1 October 26, 2014
    Benched 2 cycles (hoping to TTC January) 
    Off the bench as of Jan 2015
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