I NEED help!!!

anisa86 · December 2014

I had a miscarriage the 9th of november. Since my system is a bit crazy i didn't know when i was going to ovulate. Like a week after i notice i was ovulating i had unprotected sex with my hubby and i think i might be pregnant because i feel somewhat like the other time. (The same cramps and very sore boobs) I'm worried because the doctor told us to wait 1 menstrual cycle.
Any advice or same experience? Please help.

KingLED · December 2014

anisa86 said:

I had a miscarriage the 9th of november. Since my system is a bit crazy i didn't know when i was going to ovulate. Like a week after i notice i was ovulating i had unprotected sex with my hubby and i think i might be pregnant because i feel somewhat like the other time. (The same cramps and very sore boobs) I'm worried because the doctor told us to wait 1 menstrual cycle. Any advice or same experience? Please help.

If your doctor told you to wait a cycle you should not be having unprotected sex. Taking a test is the only way to know if you are pregnant or not, asking us is useless. How did you "notice" you were ovulating?

Also, if you have sex a week after ovulation you cannot get pregnant from that. You have to have sex before or up to a few hours after ovulation for any chance of pregnancy. Please read the newbie blog and learn how cycles work.

kamarks08 · December 2014

anisa86 said:

I had a miscarriage the 9th of november. Since my system is a bit crazy i didn't know when i was going to ovulate. Like a week after i notice i was ovulating i had unprotected sex with my hubby and i think i might be pregnant because i feel somewhat like the other time. (The same cramps and very sore boobs) I'm worried because the doctor told us to wait 1 menstrual cycle. Any advice or same experience? Please help.

QFP

First off, I'm sorry for your loss.

Second, exactly what kind of help are you looking for here? We can't tell you if you're pregnant. How did you know you were ovulating? Do you temp? Did you take a test? If the doctor told you to wait, I would most definitely consider following those directions.

I have more questions for you than you have for me.

edit: I read the original post incorrectly at first, edit for clarification of my post.

gypsymermaid · December 2014

First of all, I am sorry about your loss. A couple things to keep in mind:

Read the Newbie Blog. Read Taking Charge of Your Fertility (TCOYF).
The only way you can confirm ovulation is through temping and/or ultrasound. You can't really "notice" ovulation.
After re-reading your question, I think you mean, a week after your chemical pregnancy you "noticed" you were ovulating. Is that correct?
The only way to tell if you are pregnant is to take a test. Test once a week until AF shows up or if you go more than 60 days without AF, contact your doctor.
If your doctor advised you to wait a month, you should probably wait a month.

I don't have any personal experience to contribute, but I would recommend learning as much as you can about your body - it makes these situations much easier to handle. Best of luck to you.

ETA: added testing info

anisa86 · December 2014

Hi KingLED! I know how mybody works thank you for the advise. Obviosuly i had sex while ovulating not a week after. Also i know that i should had followed doctors recomendations but I'm not asking that. I was wondering if someone also went through something similiar, if its possible and how it turned out to be.

EmeJay · December 2014

anisa86 said:
Hi KingLED! I know how mybody works thank you for the advise. Obviosuly i had sex while ovulating not a week after. Also i know that i should had followed doctors recomendations but I'm not asking that. I was wondering if someone also went through something similiar, if its possible and how it turned out to be.

Yeah, you obviosuly know how your body works

MrsSept13 · December 2014

anisa86 said:

Hi KingLED! I know how mybody works thank you for the advise. Obviosuly i had sex while ovulating not a week after. Also i know that i should had followed doctors recomendations but I'm not asking that. I was wondering if someone also went through something similiar, if its possible and how it turned out to be.

You want to know if someone had sex and then ended up pregnant? I'm sure millions have. Take a test is the only answer we have here.

chipsfordinner · December 2014

anisa86 said:
Hi KingLED! I know how mybody works thank you for the advise. Obviosuly i had sex while ovulating not a week after. Also i know that i should had followed doctors recomendations but I'm not asking that. I was wondering if someone also went through something similiar, if its possible and how it turned out to be.

I'm pretty sure @KingLED‌ thinks you had sex a week AFTER ovulation because that's exactly what you yourself said. Here's your words:

"Like a week after i notice i was ovulating i had unprotected sex with my hubby"

Sooo...

KingLED · December 2014

If you know all this then why did you ask? Did you just want to know who went against medical advice? Anecdotes don't mean anything for your particular situation.

icaughtfire · December 2014

anisa86 said:
Hi KingLED! I know how mybody works thank you for the advise. Obviosuly i had sex while ovulating not a week after. Also i know that i should had followed doctors recomendations but I'm not asking that. I was wondering if someone also went through something similiar, if its possible and how it turned out to be.

You want an anecdote? I had an early loss in February. The doctor said they always recommend to wait one cycle for dating purposes if you happen to get pregnant again right away. But she also said if we got pregnant before the next cycle, no big deal. So we got pregnant right away.

I ended up having a MMC due to partial molar pregnancy, developed benign tumors in my uterus, had 2 D&Cs, went for countless blood draws tracking my levels down to zero & was benched for six cycles.

Will your outcome be the same as mine? How the fuck am I supposed to know?

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DaikokuJess · December 2014

I can't give you any more "advice" than others already have, but I will tell you my story. The month after my early loss, I also had symptoms EXACTLY like I had the month before when I had been KU. I wasn't pregnant. Turns out I just had residual hormones that were mimicking previous symptoms.

I don't know if this is what you're looking for.
Take your doctor's advice. Learn as much as you can about how things work.

Michelle N · December 2014

I miscarried and got pregnant right away. My doctor said I didn't have to wait. I was really sick the entire pregnancy, but obviously I have no idea whether not waiting caused any hormonal problems causing me to be sick (if that makes any sense), or if I would have been sick regardless. My son is a healthy 16 month old now.

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