TTC After a Loss

Intro: Worst Thanksgiving Ever

Well, I've been lurking for about a week, and I'm ready to post my intro. I found out I was pregnant the first week of November after about 5 months of trying. DH is military, and we had to take some time off due to a camp he was working at over the summer.

My first BFP was extremely faint, and I had spotting. I assumed it was a chemical pregnancy. 3 weeks later I began to accept that I was truly pregnant and had 2 dark pink lines.

On the day of 7 weeks I started spotting and had a sharp pain on my lower left side. I made an appt with my Dr., and got in to see a NP. She did an ultrasound and blood work. She said the baby was measuring at 5 weeks, but didn't see any problems as I wasn't charting and didn't know my exact O day.

On Thanksgiving Day I began the full miscarriage. I am mostly just ready to move on.

Tomorrow we still have the appt for what would have been our 8 week U/S.

I am looking forward to getting to know you ladies better.
Me: 27 My Love: 29
Married Since: 4/2012

TTC Since: 5/2014
BFP: 11/5/15   MC: 11/26/2014


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Re: Intro: Worst Thanksgiving Ever

  • Welcome. I am so sorry for your loss. ((Hugs))
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    Hubs & I -29 • Met 5/18/04 • Married 5/8/10
    BFP #1 DS 2/7/11 (Born @ 34 wks via ECS due to Pre-e) TTC #2 since Aug '13
    DX Low AMH (.58) March '14 • FSH-7.5 • E2-35.5 (Nov '14)
    SA- Great numbers • SIS- Clear (Nov '14)
     Cycle 1- Clomid CD3-7 & Trigger-BFP • EDD 1/12/15 
    Ectopic @ 5w6d • Methotrexate Shot 5/18/14
    Cycle 2,3,4- Clomid CD3-7 & Trigger-- BFN
    Cycle 5- Letrozole CD3-7 & Trigger BFFN
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss. Big ((hugs))
    Married 07/2006, TTC since 2010
    08/2011: Clomid 50mg, IUI --> BFN  ,
    10/2011: Clomid 100mg, IUI --> BFN

    04/13: Clomid, IUI BFP --> MC at 6w1d
    05/13: Femara 2.5mg, IUI --> BFN  , 08/13: Femara 2.5mg --> BFN
    03/14: Femara 5mg, IUI --> 1 follicle @ 27d --> BFP! EDD 12/02/14--> blighted ovum, missed MC 6w6d --> D&C
    4/23: D&C...starting over again, with a little part of my heart broken off
    5/31: Femara 7.5mg --> cancelled cycle, no follies
    7/14: Femara 5mg + brevelle + menopur + IUI --> converted to IVF, ER 7/28 --> ET cancelled due to severe OHSS.
    9/20/14:  Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFP--> EDD 6/6/15 --> MC at 5w3d 
     
    10/16/14: Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFN
    2/6/15: Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFP --> MC at 5w4d
    3/20/16: PGS-tested Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFP, Living Child born 12/1/15
    6/6/17: Fresh IVF Cycle --> Severe OHSS, 5 PGS-tested embryos frozen
    2/23/18: PGS-tested FET --> BFN
    3/30/18: Cancelled cycle due to lining 4.2mm
    6/21/18: PGS-tested FET --> BFN
  • Welcome to the board.  I am so sorry that you find yourself here!  *hugs* I hope you find the comfort you need here.
    We met in middle school. We got married 15 years later in a February blizzard of 2010. 
    TTC since February 2010
    Diagnosed with Lyme Disease June 2010 Diagnosed with PCOS March 2011 Diagnosed with Celiac Disease January 2013
    BFP #1: August 25th 2013 EDD May 4th 2014 SCH MC October 3rd 2013
    BFP #2: February 14th 2014 EDD October 25th 2014 CP February 17th 2014

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  • Sorry for your loss. What a crap Thanksgiving. Welcome. 
     Me: 30, DH: 30. Dating since 2007- Married: 5/18/13. 
    BFP: 9/3/14, Found out we had triplets 10/10/14,  EDD: 5/14/15, Confirmed MMC: 10/14/14. D&C: 10/16/14.
    Formerly TashaCN and wonderigwhatmyfutureholds

    All AL welcome. 
  • I'm so sorry for your loss, and on Thanksgiving too. :( Welcome and I hope you find some comfort here *hug*
    I am not sure how to say this without getting a "solicitation" warning so I guess I just say that I am not longer active on THIS site. 



  • I am so so sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board. (((Hugs)))

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  • Welcome. I am sorry for your loss.

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  • I am so sorry for your loss.
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    Oct Angel*BFP 1/25/14 * EDD 10/6/14 * US#1 2/26/14 *US#2 3/3/14 no heartbeat*d&c 3/12/14*

    BFP 1/17/15 * EDD 9/30/15

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  • I'm so very sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board!
    Me: 26 DH:28
    TTC - Sept 2014
    # 1 BFP - October 5, 2014 EDD June 5, 2015 CP - October 14, 2014


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  • I'm so sorry for your loss. Welcome.
    Married: 4/28/12
    BFP: 7/2/14 ;  1st US 7/21/14 Baby measuring 7w5d, HB of 138;  Discovered MMC 8/18/14 at 11w2d, baby measuring 8w5d, no hb ; 8/19/14 D&C
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss. I had my second MC of the year on Thanksgiving day and it was awful. The good news is you found this place! These women are full of knowledge and support. I hope things get easier for you soon. Welcome to the board. 
  • I'm sorry for your loss. Welcome.
    Together since April 2004.  Married since June 19th, 2010.
     BFP #1: January 31st 2012: CP. 
     BFP #2: June 1st 2012, Due:2/8/13. Avery was born via unplanned c section on 2/13/13. 
     BFP #3: Sept. 25th, 2014. Due: 6/5/15.  MMC on 10/23/14. Confirmed complete molar pregnancy per D&C 10/29/14, 
    HCG officially negative 12/10/14.  Benched until June 2015.
                                                        
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss.
    TTC since August 2013 BFP #1 1/15/14...MMC 2/24/14...D&C 3/3/14 BFP #2 5/11/14 ... severe pre-e placental abruption our angel born sleeping at 22 weeks Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
  • Sorry for your loss. ((Hugs))
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    TTC since 3/2012 
    DH - 34; nml swimmers; Me - 34; sinking AMH (now 0.55), low AFC, nml FSH/LH 
    Clomid + IUI #1 (6/2013) - BFN; #2 (7/2013) - BFFN 
    Bonus info: me - low TNF, low vitamin D, borderline low IGF (all improving) 
    IVF (May/June2014) 5R/5F/2T (ET 6/11) - no frosties. 
    + HPT 8dp5dt. Beta #1 - 71(6/20). Beta #2 381 (6/24) 
    U/S 7/11 (one perfect little bean, HB 150's). EDD 3/1/2015
    Baby boy Lincoln Alexander's HB stopped at 18w and was delivered at 19w (10/3/2014)
    All testing normal/negative including normal chromosomes - no answers... D&C 11/20/2014
    IVF#2 coming in Spring 2015
  • Welcome, I'm sorry for your loss.
  • I am sorry for your loss.  Welcome!
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    About Me: 

    AMA 35 :  DH 33
    BFP#1 1/26/14 (EDD: 10/7/14).  MMC 3/10/14 D&C 3/14/14
    RE Consult 11/3/14 - AMH 2.25 "great" . FSH 7.10 . Low Vitamin D
    Myomectomy 12/17/14.  Benched until March.

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  • Thank you for all of your love and support, ladies!
    Me: 27 My Love: 29
    Married Since: 4/2012

    TTC Since: 5/2014
    BFP: 11/5/15   MC: 11/26/2014


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  • I am so sorry for your loss.  Welcome to the board.
    Me: 37                                               
    DH: 45
    BFP #1 3/19/14  EDD 11/29/14 MMC D&C 4/24/14
    BFP #2  12/4/14 Beta #1 218 at 12dpo Beta #2 1055 at 16dpo
    Saw heartbeat 12/29.  Please be a rainbow.
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  • I am sorry for you loss. ((Hugs))
  • I'm so sorry for your loss.  Welcome.
                                                                                              BFP #1 3/2/12, T born 11/7/12
                                                                                                 BFP #2  7/2/14, CP 7/6/14
                                 BFP #3 8/28/14, MMC 10/2/14 @ 9wks - misoprostol 10/6/14, D&C 11/3/14 for retained tissue
                                       BFP #4 12/25/14, EDD 9/7/15 - please stick baby, you are so loved and wanted!!!!!                                                                                           
                                                                                                                                                   
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss. I had my second MC of the year on Thanksgiving day and it was awful. The good news is you found this place! These women are full of knowledge and support. I hope things get easier for you soon. Welcome to the board. 

    @yorkielove83 sorry to hear you share my experience!

    Me: 27 My Love: 29
    Married Since: 4/2012

    TTC Since: 5/2014
    BFP: 11/5/15   MC: 11/26/2014


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  • I'm so sorry for your loss.  ((((HUGS))))  Welcome to the board.
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    6/2010
     BFP - 10/18/2012, EDD - 6/26/2013, Baby Girl lost at 22 weeks (T21), D&E 2/15/2013
    BFP - 4/23/2014, EDD - 1/2/2015 Twin Boys lost at 12 weeks, M/C 6/25/2014

    My chart here  All ALers welcome!
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  • i relate to you all too well as i was skeptical the entire time!! waiting patiently until 12 weeks to let my gaurd down and i found out at my 12week appointment that the baby was measuring 8 weeks and had no heartbeat. Letting your gaurd down only to then receive that devastating news is so hard!but !i am so glad i found this board. its an excellent place for support and to be able to speak freely without judgement that you may receive in real life for saying the very same thing!its been an awesome healing tool for me and i hope its the same for you!!so sorry for your loss!

    ~TTC #1 Since 3/2014
    ~BFP #1 6/2014 
    EDD 2/11/15
    ~MMC 7/31/14 @12weeks ~D&C /2/2014  

  • I'm so sorry for your loss. Be kind to yourself! Welcome
    TTC: Since July 2013
    BFP #1: EDD 05/27/2014 (D&C 10/17/2014)
  • Im very sorry for your loss and Welcome to the board
    Me: 29 DH: 30
    DS born 12/29/12 @ 41+1 
    TTC#2 07/2014
    BFP 10/14/14 MC 11/14/14 D&C for RT 11/18/2014 
    Given all clear 12/15/2014 - back to TTC



  • I am so sorry for your loss. Welcome.

    Me: 31 DH: 36
    Dated Since ‘02, Married in ‘06
    BFP#1 05/16/06, EDD01/16/07, MC 06/12/06 at 8 weeks
    BFP #2 08/14/14, EDD 04/22/15, MC 09/17/14 at 9 weeks

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  • I'm so sorry for your loss.  Welcome.

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    ME: 32   DH: 38

    BFP#1 - 7/18/14; EDD 3/23/14; MMC 8/11/14 (passed naturally on 8/17/14)

    BFP#2 - 12/29/14; EDD 9/10/15 *PLEASE BE OUR RAINBOW!*

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  • i relate to you all too well as i was skeptical the entire time!! waiting patiently until 12 weeks to let my gaurd down and i found out at my 12week appointment that the baby was measuring 8 weeks and had no heartbeat. Letting your gaurd down only to then receive that devastating news is so hard!but !i am so glad i found this board. its an excellent place for support and to be able to speak freely without judgement that you may receive in real life for saying the very same thing!its been an awesome healing tool for me and i hope its the same for you!!so sorry for your loss!

    Exactly! I hope that next time around I will be more confident from the start and that will be my sign that everything is okay. Although, I have a feeling that this experience may have ruined my chances of ever being that confident.
    Me: 27 My Love: 29
    Married Since: 4/2012

    TTC Since: 5/2014
    BFP: 11/5/15   MC: 11/26/2014


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  • @mrsbphotographer with time i think you will find the you are able to have more hope/positivity about your chances. Its totally understandable that you feel how you feel at this moment. If you look around here and in real life you will find countless examples of women who suffer losses and go on to have healthy babies. I realize nothing is guaranteed but i find it helps me to be a little more hopeful for my own situation. I hope that over time you can also find some inspiration here as well . But i also hope you realize that nothing you did or felt is the cause of your loss or wouldve changed the outcome. Unfortunately being confident doesnt gaurantee success so please dont put any added pressure on yourself to be more confident from the start next time!  i  wish you so much peace during this process! many many hugs to you!

    ~TTC #1 Since 3/2014
    ~BFP #1 6/2014 
    EDD 2/11/15
    ~MMC 7/31/14 @12weeks ~D&C /2/2014  

  • ((hugs)) So sorry for your loss. Welcome to the best place you never wanted to end up. Everyone here is amazing! Take time to heal, we are here for you. 
    Me: 24 
    DH: 25
    BFP: 1/12/14       EDD: 9/18/14     MC: 1/15/14
    BFP: 5/6/14         EDD: 1/5/15       MC: 5/10/14
    BFP: 12/29/14      EDD: 9/12/15      MC: 1/5/15
    Dx: PCOS - 8/20/14, Hashimoto's - 10/10/14, Gluten Allergy 10/10/14


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  • I found out the day before Thanksgiving that we were miscarrying. I understand what an awful holiday you must have had, because I was going through the same thing. I was 6 weeks along. I am so sorry for your loss and I am sending you virtual hugs!!!! Having such terrible news on a holiday is such an awful feeling...one that we never want to go through. Welcome and I hope that you find the support that you need here.



  • Hey and welcome. I hope you find some comfort being here. If you need to talk or vent feel free to pm me.

    Sending you lots of {{hugs}}
    Married: August 16 2014
    EDD: July 12, 2015  MC: November 30, 2014 8weeks
    Clover Grace
     our little angel.

  • @daydreamer3451 Wish we didn't share such a difficult bond, but I'm thankful to you for sharing that we do!

    Me: 27 My Love: 29
    Married Since: 4/2012

    TTC Since: 5/2014
    BFP: 11/5/15   MC: 11/26/2014


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