Needing T&P (loss mentioned)

keiranoelle · November 2014

not sure of this deserves it own thread, I just need some support for the best community I've found.

My SO and I are likely no longer. We haven't spoken since Monday and I don't have much support this time around. We lost a pregnancy earlier this year, and now that I'm pregnant again--- my family is hesitant to be enthused and well, I don't really know what my DH--- er, H is thinking. Yesterday, I was in the ER, solo--- just because I didn't feel right and they said everything was perfect. About an hour ago, I had pink discharge and now--- I saw a little clump or two.

I can't handle the end of my relationship and another loss. I'm not sure what I'm looking for exactly, but if someone could say something---- anything to make me a little less sad, or anxious or alone, I'd appreciate it.

Btw, my boobs still hurt and I have no cramping. So maybe it's not so bad. First appointment is Tuesday.

I want to make it.

bumpuser8571475 · November 2014

I'm sorry that you're going through this. Did they do an internal exam in the ER? Because it's normal to spot after those. I hope everything works out for you..

allioop2001 · November 2014

T&P are with you.

keiranoelle · November 2014

emilyinparis said:
I'm sorry that you're going through this. Did they do an internal exam in the ER? Because it's normal to spot after those. I hope everything works out for you..

The definitely did, but it was almost 24 hrs ago.... Thanks for bringing it up though, didn't think about that.

bumpuser8571475 · November 2014

keiranoelle said:

emilyinparis said:
I'm sorry that you're going through this. Did they do an internal exam in the ER? Because it's normal to spot after those. I hope everything works out for you..
The definitely did, but it was almost 24 hrs ago.... Thanks for bringing it up though, didn't think about that.

Hopefully that's all it was. Good luck.

foreverMorgan · November 2014

I'm sorry that you going through all this uncertainty. I know how stressful & emotional that can be. My thoughts and prayers are with you. I hope all goes well on Tuesday. Hang in there.

squeakyfrog15 · November 2014

I'm so sorry you are going through this! I hope things work out with your H and that you find everything is wonderful with your baby!

Fireworks813 · November 2014

So sorry that you are handling all of this alone... FX for your appointment and that Baby is just fine! T&P while you and SO try to figure it out.

hullabalou · November 2014

T & P for you!

abcdefghijk12345678 · November 2014

So sorry you're going though this. ((Hugs))

Rose0825 · November 2014

Sorry that these things are happening to you T&P for you.

charlie+7 · November 2014

I wish you all the best for Tuesday. Try not to worry and relax. I too ended up in ER alone and it's certainly not nice at all. ((((((Hugs)))))))

crector421 · November 2014

I'm going through something similar. The end of my several years long relationship ended and I found out I was pregnant 2 weeks later. And he's making it very clear that he'll be here for the baby, but not me. And I've been spotting red, brown, and pink with a clot or 2 as well. And spent some time in the ER solo. So I can empathize, completely!!!!!!

keiranoelle · November 2014

The ladies of TB are the best. I'll be sure to update come Tuesday

KellyinHB · November 2014

This a lot to be going through alone. You are strong. FX that you will get good news on Tuesday. T&P to you.

indiejavamama3 · November 2014

Flashy said:

Being pgal is tough! Relationships can be tough at times too. I'm sorry you are having to deal with so much at the same time. I think that maybe you might benefit from a sit down heart to heart with H. It may not result in a reconciliation, but at least you will know you laid your cards on the table, and that's really all you can do. GL to you!

Ditto this!

T&Ps for you, hang in there!

valigrl21 · November 2014

That's a whole lot to deal with at once - a previous loss and now spotting while PGAL and fighting with your H. I am so sorry, that's really rough. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. Please update us on Tuesday.

shelbutler · November 2014

I'm sorry that you're going through all of this. I hate to hear about your situation with your SO, maybe you guys can fix things and he's just nervous/upset/emotional and running from things and will come around. Fx that nothing is wrong with your pg. you said your family isn't 'enthused' but I would maybe confide in someone of your family that you trust the most and explain the situation at hand and that although you lost the first one, that's reason for them to support you MORE especially with the SO not being supportive. I couldn't imagine not having at least someone there. My prayers go out to you that our entire situation turns around.

bnk2012 · November 2014

Thoughts @ prayers that everything looks good on Tues & you get the support you need!

JuneBug0611 · November 2014

Wishing you the best news Tuesday and peace until then. Hopefully H comes around as well. ((Big hugs))

Meggos1988 · November 2014

Thinking of you, I hope your SO will come around, if that's what you want, and I hope your family can be the support system that you need.
Please update us after your apt.

bosco213 · November 2014

I'm sorry you're dealing with all of this

I'm not sure what is going on with you and your DH but give him a chance to come around. He may just be freaked out too and not know now to handle it.

You're in my T&Ps!

Mayweathers15 · November 2014

I'm going through this as well my next appointment is Tuesday as well after experiencing the say symptoms so I hope the ER visit wasn't the final day for you I will be praying for you

Claire&Cub · November 2014

I'm sorry your going through the hardships of your relationship on top of your pregnancy. That is seriously rough. Relationship issues alone can cause quite a stir in humans obviously emotionally and physically. I'm sending you virtual hugs, a crap load of positive vibes and will keep you in my thoughts. Please keep us updated. Best wishes.

thiscoffeechick · November 2014

Oh Honey, how crazy difficult this must be for you. I'm so sorry for your prior loss and I have everything crossed that this baby will be ok. Thoughts and prayers being sent by the dozens.