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TTC After a Loss
vmatt850
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Newb Alert!
vmatt850
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I'm new here!
Just had my very first pregnancy and MC. Total bummer. DH is upset but doesn't get it. I'm sure you all can understand that.
I guess I don't really know what to say so I'll say this:
My name is Vicki, I'm 26, DH is 24 and will be 25 right after Christmas, and we just got married on 11/1! Conceived on our honeymoon, and lost our little blastocyst on Black Friday. While I'm technically not able to conceive right this second, I would definitely classify us as "TTC." My DH's name is Jim. My fur baby 1 is Scout (pitbull mix, girl) and my fur baby 2 is Drama (bull mastiff, also girl).
My favorite color is gray. My favorite band is The Rolling Stones. Wisconsin is my home. I read, hike, knit, crochet, and basically do a million other crafts. I fell in love with guavaberry coladas in St. Maarten. I am a lover of all animals. If I could live my life in sweats, I would. Love going to the movies and the wine bar. Tea > coffee, but just.
Right now I guess I am just looking for support! Can't seem to look DH in the face without being a weepy brat, so, I've been a bit of a hermit. Which is actually normal for me - total introvert.
Let me know the ropes, gals! Look forward to being supported and supporting!
Just had my very first pregnancy and MC. Total bummer. DH is upset but doesn't get it. I'm sure you all can understand that.
I guess I don't really know what to say so I'll say this:
My name is Vicki, I'm 26, DH is 24 and will be 25 right after Christmas, and we just got married on 11/1! Conceived on our honeymoon, and lost our little blastocyst on Black Friday. While I'm technically not able to conceive right this second, I would definitely classify us as "TTC." My DH's name is Jim. My fur baby 1 is Scout (pitbull mix, girl) and my fur baby 2 is Drama (bull mastiff, also girl).
My favorite color is gray. My favorite band is The Rolling Stones. Wisconsin is my home. I read, hike, knit, crochet, and basically do a million other crafts. I fell in love with guavaberry coladas in St. Maarten. I am a lover of all animals. If I could live my life in sweats, I would. Love going to the movies and the wine bar. Tea > coffee, but just.
Right now I guess I am just looking for support! Can't seem to look DH in the face without being a weepy brat, so, I've been a bit of a hermit. Which is actually normal for me - total introvert.
Let me know the ropes, gals! Look forward to being supported and supporting!
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Re: Newb Alert!
I am sorry for your loss. You passed the first test (you didn't ask us if you are pregnant). Welcome.
My Ovulation Chart
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Diagnosed with Lyme Disease June 2010 Diagnosed with PCOS March 2011 Diagnosed with Celiac Disease January 2013
BFP #1: August 25th 2013 EDD May 4th 2014 SCH MC October 3rd 2013
BFP #2: February 14th 2014 EDD October 25th 2014 CP February 17th 2014
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W born September 2020
#3 due November 2022
08/2011: Clomid 50mg, IUI --> BFN ,
10/2011: Clomid 100mg, IUI --> BFN
04/13: Clomid, IUI BFP --> MC at 6w1d
05/13: Femara 2.5mg, IUI --> BFN , 08/13: Femara 2.5mg --> BFN
03/14: Femara 5mg, IUI --> 1 follicle @ 27d --> BFP! EDD 12/02/14--> blighted ovum, missed MC 6w6d --> D&C
4/23: D&C...starting over again, with a little part of my heart broken off
7/14: Femara 5mg + brevelle + menopur + IUI --> converted to IVF, ER 7/28 --> ET cancelled due to severe OHSS.
9/20/14: Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFP--> EDD 6/6/15 --> MC at 5w3d
10/16/14: Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFN
2/6/15: Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFP --> MC at 5w4d
3/20/16: PGS-tested Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFP, Living Child born 12/1/15
6/6/17: Fresh IVF Cycle --> Severe OHSS, 5 PGS-tested embryos frozen
2/23/18: PGS-tested FET --> BFN
3/30/18: Cancelled cycle due to lining 4.2mm
Me 34 DH 31, Together since 2003, Married August 20, 2011, TTC since May 2013
BFP #1 August 24, 2013! MMC discovered Oct. 3, 2013, D&C Oct. 4, 2013
BFP #2 December 17, 2013! MMC discovered Jan. 28, 2014, D&C Jan. 30, 2014
Testing done: male with complete Trisomy 16, not hereditary. Tested me for clotting disorders, all normal.
Feb. 2014 all clear again to TTC! Will start progesterone supplementation with the next BFP just in case. Oct. 2014 more testing just because, thyroid and autoimmune panels = normal. Diagnostic U/S = no abnormalities. Will keep trying for 3-6 more months, doctor still optimistic!
BFP #3 December 11, 2014! Beta #1 14DPO = 122.4 Beta #2 17DPO = 296.8 Please stick little one and be our Rainbow!
Perfect little heartbeat of 156 seen 1/7/15
***Everybody Welcomed***
EDD 8/21/2015 Team Green!
August 2015 Siggy Challenge: Favorite mean girl from a movie or show: Kathy Bates in "Misery"I am sorry for your loss. You passed the first test (you didn't ask us if you are pregnant). Welcome.
This! So true. Welcome to the board. I'm sorry for your loss. I hope you stick around, because there are tons of great ladies here. I run the newb check in on Tuesdays, come say hi and introduce yourself there. ((Hugs))
::The sudden disappointment of a hope leaves a scar that even the ultimate fullfillment of that hope cannot fully erase:: Thomas Hardy
Me-27 DH-29
TTC#1 January 2013
BFP February 27th 2014, MMC ended in D&C
Working on our rainbow!
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DH: 45
BFP #1 3/19/14 EDD 11/29/14 MMC D&C 4/24/14
BFP #2 12/4/14 Beta #1 218 at 12dpo Beta #2 1055 at 16dpo
Saw heartbeat 12/29. Please be a rainbow.
All welcome
Me: 31 DH: 36
Dated Since ‘02, Married in ‘06
BFP#1 05/16/06, EDD01/16/07, MC 06/12/06 at 8 weeks
BFP #2 08/14/14, EDD 04/22/15, MC 09/17/14 at 9 weeks
My Chart
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DX Endometriosis 2/2002 (lost left tube due to a cyst), PCOS 6/2010
BFP - 10/18/2012, EDD - 6/26/2013, Baby Girl lost at 22 weeks (T21), D&E 2/15/2013
BFP - 4/23/2014, EDD - 1/2/2015 Twin Boys lost at 12 weeks, M/C 6/25/2014
My chart here All ALers welcome!
I have to ask, does the name "Drama" fit your bull mastiff well? Because I have known two in my life and that name would fit perfectly for both lol
Also, we love furbabies here so when you see the furbaby thread, please post up some pics of Scout and Drama!
@jj32 it has definitely been difficult. I'm such an introvert that for me, I deal with it alone. And for him, he's very realistic about the situation. But I don't want to hear "we can try again" ONE MORE TIME. I know we can try again. We will. I just want a hug. I told him that, but in much nicer words.
I'm sorry for your loss. Welcome.
BFP #1: EDD 05/27/2014 (D&C 10/17/2014)
Give yourself and DH time to grieve and heal.
Also congrats on getting married.