Opinions on a Second Opinion

KatzKiss · November 2014

Since my misciarrage in March, I have had eight cycles with luteal phases between 5 and 10 days. Six of those eight we were TTC. I'm 39 so I qualify for the old lady six month rule. When I asked my gynocologist about it at my annual last month, she said that it was just my cycle still readjusting and to wait until March before moving forward with any testing. When I asked her about the possibility of low progesterone she said that she doubted that was the issue and that low progesterone is much more rare than people make it out to be. My thyroid and FSH are normal. If you were in my position, would you get a second opinion from another gynocologist or maybe just go straight to an RE? I've been happy with her so far, but this appointment felt very rushed. I don't even know if she took the time to look at my age.

bracingourselves · November 2014

Honestly I would just go to an RE. I don't see the point in wasting time - yes, it's possible that your cycles are still adjusting, but that may be something an RE can actually help you with.

JennyLynn6785 · November 2014

I second what @juliayadda‌ said. If it were me I'd probably see an RE, if only to be on the safe side.

lvlyldybmp · November 2014

Straight to the RE. It doesn't sound like your OBGYN is taking your concerns as seriously as she should be, plus you've been trying for a while now, why not take it straight to the top?

PinkCamino · November 2014

I would absolutely seek out a second opinion. I would push for a prescription for progesterone that you would start at 3dpo. Progesterone can't hurt you but it can surely help you lengthen your LP because 5-10 days is not ideal.

so many ((hugs))

KatzKiss · November 2014

juliayadda said:

KatzKiss said:

Since my misciarrage in March, I have had eight cycles with luteal phases between 5 and 10 days. Six of those eight we were TTC. I'm 39 so I qualify for the old lady six month rule. When I asked my gynocologist about it at my annual last month, she said that it was just my cycle still readjusting and to wait until March before moving forward with any testing. When I asked her about the possibility of low progesterone she said that she doubted that was the issue and that low progesterone is much more rare than people make it out to be. My thyroid and FSH are normal. If you were in my position, would you get a second opinion from another gynocologist or maybe just go straight to an RE? I've been happy with her so far, but this appointment felt very rushed. I don't even know if she took the time to look at my age.

I am getting the vibe you need to go to an RE. I don't understand her reasoning for waiting. At worst the RE will do tests and find out nothing is wrong.

I suppose this could be a waste of resources if nothing is abnormal, or maybe your doctor is just confident in your reproductive health, but if I was in your shoes I would go to an RE.

She did seem confident in my reproductive health. She said she would test in March, but I wouldn't need it because I'll be pregnant by then. Since then, I've done a lot more research on low progesterone and I have other symptoms in addition to the miscarriage and shorts luteal phases; slow rising post-o temps, headaches, low sex drive and I can't drop a pound. Even on Weight Watchers which has always worked for me until recently. I don't share her confidence at all.

divinemsbee · November 2014

I agree with PP that a RE would probably be a good bet at this point. As PP said, even if it is your cycles adjusting, a RE can help with that. And you want someone who will consider all angles. ((hugs)) that you're dealing with this.

Remylove1011 · November 2014

Sorry your having to deal with this. I agree with PP's on going to see an RE now. It's good to get a second opinion and someone that can test what you're concerned about.

tlc35 · November 2014

KatzKiss said:

Since my misciarrage in March, I have had eight cycles with luteal phases between 5 and 10 days. Six of those eight we were TTC. I'm 39 so I qualify for the old lady six month rule. When I asked my gynocologist about it at my annual last month, she said that it was just my cycle still readjusting and to wait until March before moving forward with any testing. When I asked her about the possibility of low progesterone she said that she doubted that was the issue and that low progesterone is much more rare than people make it out to be. My thyroid and FSH are normal. If you were in my position, would you get a second opinion from another gynocologist or maybe just go straight to an RE? I've been happy with her so far, but this appointment felt very rushed. I don't even know if she took the time to look at my age.

I am almost in the same position as you except without the short LP and I have started seeing the RE. If you can afford it or it is covered I would go.

URMySunshine77 · November 2014

I agree with the PP's. I'm sorry that you are having to deal with this.

rockopera · November 2014

Straight to the RE. You qualify on the 6-month rule alone.

Your OB might mean well, but this is not her specialty and you shouldn't do the testing with her anyway.

renbee · November 2014

I would also go to the RE. I hope they can give you more answers!

P.S. I'm on WW right now too

Reagan1010 · November 2014

I would definitely go to an RE. I would do a consult and testing. I would trust your gut on this one! I know it can take a while for your cycles to normalize, but it has been long enough that I wouldn't have any qualms about calling.

KatzKiss · November 2014

Thanks for all of the advice and hugs, ladies. I made an appointment last week, but I wasn't sure if I was going keep it. Now I feel confident in my choice. My doctor was so convincing, but now that I have a little outside perspective, I'm definitely going!

bouncinsol · November 2014

Good luck! I agree with all PP that you should go to an RE. I typically follow the rule that if I'm not 100% confident, comfortable, or satisfied with what my doctor has suggested or told me, I do my own research or seek out another doctor for another opinion. I think we sometimes have to take our health into our own hands.

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