Pregnant after a Loss

Cautious Intro

Hi Ladies .. I just found out that I am pregnant for the third time. I'm 0 for 2 so far, with a MMC/D&C in May and a CP the cycle before this one. It is hard to have the same amount of excitement this time around. I am waiting until Monday to call my doctor at this point because I'm just afraid that I'm going to start bleeding again like last time, and by Monday I'll be a full five weeks (CP was 4w2d). They were able to get me in right away last time. 

It sucks that I'm not more excited about this. I don't know how normal that is but I just needed to get that out there. I know that you have to get pregnant to stay pregnant but I'm just having a hard time gearing myself up for it. I'm going just read the mantras every day (many times a day!?) and hope that maybe when I pass my MC milestones I will be able to enjoy the experience!

Thanks for reading. It's so nice to find a place with other people in a similar situation. xoxox


BFP #1: 4/7/14, EDD: 12/16/14 -- Missed Miscarriage - D&C  on 5/13 at 9 weeks
BFP #2: 10/24/14, EDD: 07/04/15 -- Chemical Pregnancy confirmed 10/27
BFP #3: 11/28/14, EDD: 08/06/15 -- Strong heartbeat at 6 weeks, Missed Miscarriage - D&C on 1/9 at 10 weeks

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  • Congratulations! Hoping everything turns out great for you!
  • Congrats and welcome...early days are hard..
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  • We all know how you feel. The scariest time is the first 12 weeks just keep your head up and try to enjoy it! Congrats
  • Congratulations and welcome!

    DH & I are both 28    Together: 12 years    Married: 09/24/2011

    BFP#1: January '12 - DD1 09/16/2012

    Preterm labor 31 weeks. Monitored for Hellp and diagnosed with oligohydramnios July '12

    BFP #2: 06/25 - EDD 03/05/15 MMC confirmed 8/1 - D&E 8/4 retained tissue discovered 8/20

    BFP #3 11/24 - 12/15 Heartbeat detected - DD2 07/29/15

  • Welcome and congrats! Wishing you a H&H 9 months.

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    BFP #1: 8/4/11; DS1 born sleeping on 11/16/11 at 19w1d

    BFP # 2: 5/7/12, EDD 1/10/13, DS2 born 1/4/13

    BFP # 3: 11/8/13, EDD 7/17/14, mmc 10wks

    BFP # 4: 5/16/14, EDD 1/15/15, praying for our 2nd rainbow baby 

  • Congratulations and welcome. It's totally normal to feel this way. Sending tons of positive vibes your way!!
  • Congrats & Welcome!
    Me- 27 w/PCOS     DH - 28
    TTC since December 2012 
    BFP 6/29/2013 - EDD 3/16/14 - MMC 9/5/2013
    Diagnosed with PCOS and taking metformin 750 mg  twice a day
    April 2014 -  - 1st ICI Cycle - BFP 5/15/14 EDD: 1/20/15
    A/S 8-22-14 - Its a BOY!!
    12/15 Checkup & heard his beautiful heartbeat
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  • Congratulations! I also have had 2 losses and this is my 3rd pregnancy. I am taking it one day at a time. The mantras really help too :)

    Me (34); DH (35)

    BFP 11/25/13; Heard strong heartbeats for 3 weeks; Natural MC (1/15/14)

    BFP 11/11/14 EDD 07/21/15 hoping for our rainbow!

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  • Congrats and welcome. PP is correct in saying that the first 12 weeks are the scariest, and for me the longest. Hang in there!






     


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  • Congrats and welcome. Those first several weeks are the scariest, but we know how you feel!!
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  • Congrats and welcome!

    BFP #1: 8/17/13     Due Date: 4/26/14      MMC discovered @ 9w 4d       D&C: 10/2/13
    BFP #2: 12/23/13       Due Date: 9/6/14      MMC discovered @ 8w 5d    D&C: 2/6/14
    BFP #3 8/26/14     Due Date: 5/7/15  

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  • Congrats! Welcome. Hoping the next several weeks fly by and you begin to feel more confident about this pregnancy!
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  • Congrats and welcome! I also had 2 losses before this one. It's hard to maintain the same excitement as the first time around but as pp said, one day at a time! The first tri is the hardest!

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    BFP #1: April 5, 2013; EDD December 11, 2013; Missed M/C May 15, 2013

    BFP #2: February 17, 2014; EDD October 30, 2014; M/C March 15, 2014

    BFP #3: August 1, 2014; EDD April 14, 2015 - Praying for our RAINBOW!

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  • Good morning! Welcome to the board. Yes it is super scary in the beginning, I think we all can relate. Take it day by day. TODAY YOUR ARE PREGNANT AND YOU LOVE YOUR BABY. Happy Thanksgiving!
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  • Congrats and welcome to the board!

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    BFP #2-11/13/14  EDD: 7/26/14  Beta #1: 11/14/13 (135 progesterone: 19.5)   Beta #2" 11/17/14 (733 ) 
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  • @kath16,  I'm right there with ya.  I've had 2 m/c in the last 4 months trying for a sibling for DD, and we were blessed with her after my 1st m/c.  So I know exactly how you feel in those first few weeks of knowing you're pg.  I'll feel better once I have that first u/s and see a heartbeat as that's the milestone that matters most in my case.  Like the others said, one day at a time!  Congrats and we'll see each other with rainbow babies come August!

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  • Congrats, your feelings are totally normal! I could not to save my life get super excited most of my first trimester. I felt bad but it was PgAL brain working it's horrible magic on me. I still have scary times but now I can enjoy it a lot more, and really started to after we found out we were having another boy.
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    11/17/14-adopted a furbaby named Luna (born 9/05/14)
    BFP2: 11/25/11-Aaron Alexander born sleeping at 31 weeks on 05/31/12
    BFP1: 07/28/11-EDD:3/19/12, natural MC 09/12/11 at 12 wks-HB and growth stopped at 6wks
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