TTC after 35

PMS and holiday prep do not mix.

I am a raving bitch today.
I have yelled at everyone in my house at least three times each today. My fuse is so short now and I haven't even started my cooking yet. I'm scared of what I'm going to be like tomorrow when I'm baking 6 pies and making all my sides.
Do they make an anti-bitch pill to combat PMS.
AF is due on thanksgiving. I hope the hormonal flux I'm in subsides by then.
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  Me:39, DH:40

DD born 8/96, DS born 8/04

TTC#3

NTNP since 2006, active trying 1/13

Natural M/C 3/13 at 7 weeks

CP 2/14

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Re: PMS and holiday prep do not mix.

  • LoL .. Wouldn't that be nice if they did?
    I think people will stay out of your way. If not, ask them as kindly as possible to give you some space.
    Hope things get better for you!
    Me: 38 ~  DH: 38 ~   DD: 8
    TTC #2 since March/April 2014.
     
     
  • MH would LOVE if there was an anti-bitch pill. He seems to think pot would help but...no lol 

    Hopefully the rage will be gone tomorrow. Good luck! *hug*

    P.S. at least you have PMS as an excuse. I have a feeling I will be all ragey Thursday and I don't have AF to blame. 
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  • Ativan? That could help, or you might be so relaxed nothing gets cooked lol
  • I'm sorry that you are feeling ragey. I don't remember, do you drink wine? Bring on the wine. I'm back on the wine again. 

    Can you share any recent cake pics? I love seeing your work.

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  • @Nikolie93 I'm never bitchy before AF but I guess the stress of having 17 people for dinner 5 days after my basement was finally finished is getting to me.

    @CML11 I wish my DH was still taking Ativan because I would be taking them.

    @URMySunshine77‌ I just made a police themed baby shower cake and a chicken coop cake recently.
    Sunday is my sister who had the 9week premie's rescheduled baby shower and I will be making cupcakes for that so I will post pics for that them. But here are the others.


      Me:39, DH:40

    DD born 8/96, DS born 8/04

    TTC#3

    NTNP since 2006, active trying 1/13

    Natural M/C 3/13 at 7 weeks

    CP 2/14

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  • I am so with you on this!!! I am trying to not be a bitch but it's that or crying. I'm seeming to alternate between those. Hang in there!

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    me 38 DH 39.  
    TTC#1 since July 2014
    AMH 0.1, DOR, Poor responder
    Moved to Prague, Czech Republic for IVF
    2 Natural IVF cycles, 3 full IVF cycles, 4 transfers, 1 BFP - heard heartbeat at 6w5d
    Diagnosed MMC at 9w1d on 11/30/15
    Headed back home to Colorado 12/12/15

    DE attempt in Czech Republic!! 

    March trip to Prague canceled due to Pancreatitis. :sob:
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    3 different donors resulted in 1 PGS tested embryo and 1 fresh embryo
    2 embryo's transferred (from 2 different donors) on 5/10/16
    BFP on 5/15/16 at 5dp5dt
    Beta 1 = 81 at 8dp5dt, Beta 2 = 295 at 10dp5dt, Beta 3 = 891 at 12dt5dt. Beta 4 = 2114 at 14dp5dt, Beta 5 = 4916 at 16dp5dt, Beta 6 = 13252 at 19dp5dt
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  • My PMS comes with uncontrollable crying at the drop of a hat ha ha ha, sometimes I think being a little bitchy would be a nice change ;) Hang in there!
  • I hate the stressed out feeling you get from being so overwhelmed.  Hang in there.  Your cakes are amazing, what talent!!!  Could you suggest that DH take the kids out for the day tomorrow so there is no one in your way?  Or maybe your youngest goes with DH and your DD can help you.  I am so glad to hear you guys were able to get your basement fixed.
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                      BFP 6/4/14 ~ MMC 7/7/14 ~ D&C 7/15/14            
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  • You are so talented!  :)

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  • Wow, those are so cool looking!!!! Nice job!!!
  • @hooligans4‌ those cakes are awesome, great work!
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  • I've wanted to cry or beat someone all day...I could use that pill too!
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  • @hooligans4‌ those cakes!! Omg! Amazing!

    I hope you get some time to relax and chill out over the holiday. I can only imagine dealing with hosting at the holidays and having AF to deal with. I'm lucky getting to go to DH's aunt's house and all I have to prepare is some bruschetta for an app.

    @rspalding001‌ I get cry-y, not ragey, too...not great for family time either, ha...can they make a pill for that too, please?!
    36, DH 31 TTC #1 since we got married, July 2014. http://FertilityFriend.com/home/522fa4/
  • You are crazy talented, lady!

    I hope your family either helps or gets out of the way. Hugs to you.

    Happy Thanksgiving!
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    September 2014: IUI #2.  Follistim + Pregnyl + Ganirelix + Crinone.  4(?) follicles--BFN
    October 2014: IUI #3.  More Follistim + More Ganirelix + Pregnyl + Crinone.  4 follicles--BFP!  Beta #1=10 Beta #2=33 Beta #3=97 Beta #4=158.  M/C 11/1/14
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  • The cakes look awesome. As for the PMS, may I suggest wine and chocolate?
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    RE Consult 11/3/14 - AMH 2.25 "great" . FSH 7.10 . Low Vitamin D
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  • From my understanding it's called wine/alcohol of your choice.  Of course I don't drink so I just try to keep from yelling at my dh, dogs, and kids.  I hope your pies come out wonderfully and you enjoy your day!
    Also, there is NO good time for pms
  • @hooligans4‌ nice cakes.  Another vote for wine and chocolate. Oh... and maybe you could take a trick from the guys on the other thread and just disappear in the bathroom when the going gets tough... :D:D

    I'm all messed up too. SIL has been driving me nuts for months... so this should be interesting.  I'm usually very "bless her heart" and move on... but I feel a ticking time bomb for dinner.  Although when she's having a "good cycle" I like her alot.  So hoping for that so there is not bad behavior from me. 
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    Off Mirena Nov 2013, On Nuvaring end of Jan, Back off Sept 2014.  Never ending cycle starting end of Sept... 
    11/14 Provera failed... cycle continues 
    12/14 High FSH (57 "midcycle")  OBGYN had no clue... about anything 
    01/15 More lab results coming back from RE. U/S showed small (1")cyst on left ovary, thin lining, and couldn't locate right ovary so  possibly straight to DE and IVF 

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    Those cakes are freaking awesome girl!! How's your baby niece doing? Sorry your feeling ragey... hugs. Gosh your going to be one busy lady tomorrow!! FX your mood settles a bit :)

    ME:46 MH:44 DE IVF 2014
    Met with RE 4/11. 2 IUI's BFN. DE best option. Switched clinics to do "shared" program. Had to retake all tests and a mamm that put me behind and then on a DE waiting list for 12 months. Picked a donor!! (10/13/13) Got matched. Estimated transfer in December. After 2.5 years of patiently waiting I will finally cycle....can hardly believe it. DE cycle got cancelled. One of her tests came back positive.  Waiting for another donor. Donor picked!! (1/18/14)

    DE IVF #1 (4/26) BFN  DE FET #1 (6/4) BFP! Beta 1=339 Beta 2=852 Beta 3=9957 EDD 2/22/15!!


     

     

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  • Oh @BeckyP005‌ so nice to see you! You are missed!
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  • @CML11‌ thanks for that sweet comment. Was just lurking on IF and I honestly believe assisted hatching on our FET was the little push that helped us get our bfp. Fx this helps you too!!! Thinking good thoughts :)

    Sorry hottegins for interrupting your post. Hope today is better my friend!!

    ME:46 MH:44 DE IVF 2014
    Met with RE 4/11. 2 IUI's BFN. DE best option. Switched clinics to do "shared" program. Had to retake all tests and a mamm that put me behind and then on a DE waiting list for 12 months. Picked a donor!! (10/13/13) Got matched. Estimated transfer in December. After 2.5 years of patiently waiting I will finally cycle....can hardly believe it. DE cycle got cancelled. One of her tests came back positive.  Waiting for another donor. Donor picked!! (1/18/14)

    DE IVF #1 (4/26) BFN  DE FET #1 (6/4) BFP! Beta 1=339 Beta 2=852 Beta 3=9957 EDD 2/22/15!!


     

     

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