Could somebody please help point me to the conversation about heart rates and sexing babies.. I know it's a wives tale but I tried to post about it and got shot down. SO........I have looked back through 10 pages of posts (as I was told it's already been mentioned (my bad). i can't find it. Can you help? I'm tired, cranky, and want to smile a little today. I don't believe that all of you advanced bumpies are bullies.. help a not so experienced sister out.

thanks.
Re: please assist me
Having said that.. I tried a search it's acting an ass .... I'll try again lol
Secondly, I know the search thing can be a pain in the ass, but please understand certain topics: "zomg I'm showing!!!" (Bloating, constipation), "zomgggg flutters!!" (Gas, stretching, intestinal movements) and "omg guys {insert old wives tale}, what do you think???" get really, really tiresome especially when the OP almost always gets defensive and butthurt when people respond with facts.
No one is kicking you off the island or tripping you down the stairs for making a repeat post. Consider it virtual eye rolling. Nothing to lose sleep over. Welcome and enjoy. These are good people. Mostly.
I'm so confused. Why the gbcb?
These ladies are very supportive. It just helps to not have a ton of repeat post. I wouldn't give up here yet though. I still frequent my Jan 13 BMB and a few of them are even on the June 15 BMB with me too.
Hope your week gets better. Happy Thanksgiving!
@NEET10 here's some mobile help... https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12490641/gif-mobile#latest I'm still trying to figure the mobile thing out as well as most so my posts are mobile so the above will probably not even by a hyperlink. I just did my first mobile gif last night and that thread helped me.