I'm a newbie but not a newbie. I was on a few years ago, but I don't remember my screen name or password.
First of all, I'm sorry to everyone that has to be on this board. Being a 3-Ter is the hardest thing I have ever had to deal with. Anyway here's a bit about my TTC background...
I have PCOS, diagnosed when I was 17 or 18 after years of not getting my period. I knew even then that there was something wrong with me, but I didn't want to admit it. I was fat, covered in greasy zits and felt pretty gross all the time.
I met my husband, got married, and decided to have a baby. When I look back now, I feel so stupid because I thought it would be easy.
I started taking metformin prescribed by my family doctor after six months (SIX MONTHS) of not having a period after getting off birth control. She didn't seem concerned with me not having a period for that long, so neither was I (as I'm sure you all know, YOU SHOULD NEVER GO THAT LONG WITHOUT A PERIOD.)
Anyway the metformin did nothing to help me get my periods. So after 6 more months of not having a period (so I went one whole year without a period under docotr supervision) I wisened up and...went to a gynocologist for my fertility treatment...
So the doctor gave me clomid. Unmonitered, clomid. When 50 mg didn't work, he bumped it to 100, then 150 then 200. Becuase I was ovulating, just not getting pregnant. I had convinced myself for some reason that going to him would be much cheaper and more reasonable than going to an RE. When I got my bill from my first visit, it was 700 dollars. One ultrasound, and a consultation was 700 freaking dollars (our insurance doesn't cover infertility.) I thought that was everything, but then I got the bill for my blood draw and it was another 400 dollars!!! This perhaps isn't much compared to what some people have spent, but for what I was getting, it was too much. OBGYNs will save you nothing and won't help you get pregnant like an RE.
So we had to take a break for awhile because my husband lost his job. I decided that maybe we weren't ready. So we waited a while. Almost a year. And finally we went to an RE.
So when I had my first consultation ultrasound,the RE informed me that my lining was thinned almost to non existance. I couldn't believe it, and I wish I could go back in time and slap myself over and over again until I understood what I was doing. We were wasting money and hurting my body going to a gynocologist without monitering. He handed me clomid like a hot dog vendor hands out hot dogs. Without a second look.
I was warned (on here) not to go to OBGYN for fertility. And so here I am now, still struggling.
Anyway, my name is Ellie, and I am going on 26 next year. I feel sort of strange looking back and realizing how long its been for me. People who were "trying" around the same time I was ALL have 3-4 year olds now. My 42 year old aunt just announced she was pregnant with her 4th. I know I'm still young, but I feel like it's too late for some reason, and I will never get to be a mom.
Hope my introduction wasn't too long, and I hope someone out there will read about my experience and learn something from it! It was painful to write out but also sort of refreshing
Me: 25 Dh: 25 Married since July, 2011
Diagnosed with PCOS 2010
TTC since December, 2011 (SA is Normal)
2012-tried natural w/Metformin 1500 mg
11/12 -Saw an OB, bloodwork revealed everything normal except for highish blood sugar levels
1/13: Clomid 50 mg - No response
2/13: Clomid 100 mg O'd BFN
3/13: Clomid 100 MG O'd BFN
4/13-6/13: Clomid 150/200 mg O'd BFN
Stopped treatment because of money issues and began to try naturally again from June-October 2013
Benched until November 2014 - Started seeing RE, discovered that lining was very thin
November 2014: Started Femera 5 mg -No response BFN >:(
December 2014: Upping Femera, injectables are the next step if I respond
Also: Changed RE, first appointment on Friday, so treatment is subject to change this month
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"Nothing in life is to be feared, it is only to be understood. Now is the time to understand more, so that we may fear less."
Marie Curie
Married 2010, together since 2006. TTC for #1 since March 2012, actively charting since November 2013 March 2014 - HSG left tube blocked, right tube partially blockedbilaterial partial obstruction; onward to the RE in April May 1, 2014 - Lap surgery and chromopertubation; Dr removed a bit of endo, but everything looks healthy & tubes are clear! May 2014- First medicated cycle, 2.5mg femara+TI; BFN June 2014- 2.5mg femara + hCG + IUI on 6/18= BFP on 6/28!; C/P on 7/3 July 2014- 2.5mg femara + IUI #2 on 7/18. Starting progesterone 7/23, bfn August 2014- 2.5mg femara + hCG + IUI # 3 on 8/15. BFN Tx break IVF #1 - 12/1 - TOT & SIS- RE found a polyp 12/15 - Hysterscopic surgery to remove the polyp; additional polyps found and removed 12/29- Good baseline u/s, 12 antral follies 12/30- Started stimming 1/10 - ER: 17 retrieved, 14 fertilized! My Ovulation Chart - No data, just meds
Welcome. I too had a Dr. tell me 6 months without a period really wasn't an issue (how can doctors do this after all their years of training?). Glad you found us and that you are seeing an RE.
That's what I wonder too. People who aren't even doctors were telling me that's not okay.
Me: 25 Dh: 25 Married since July, 2011
Diagnosed with PCOS 2010
TTC since December, 2011 (SA is Normal)
2012-tried natural w/Metformin 1500 mg
11/12 -Saw an OB, bloodwork revealed everything normal except for highish blood sugar levels
1/13: Clomid 50 mg - No response
2/13: Clomid 100 mg O'd BFN
3/13: Clomid 100 MG O'd BFN
4/13-6/13: Clomid 150/200 mg O'd BFN
Stopped treatment because of money issues and began to try naturally again from June-October 2013
Benched until November 2014 - Started seeing RE, discovered that lining was very thin
November 2014: Started Femera 5 mg -No response BFN >:(
December 2014: Upping Femera, injectables are the next step if I respond
Also: Changed RE, first appointment on Friday, so treatment is subject to change this month
3T December Siggy Challenge - Favorite Holiday movie scene
Welcome. I'm sorry that you are dealing with the aftermath of unmonitored Clomid. I, too, was warned on here about taking it unmonitored, didn't listen, wound up in the hospital with a ruptured cyst and, as a result, have only had the chance to do a total of 2 (including the one that caused the cyst) treatment cycles in the last 6 months. I risked my reproductive health and cost myself so much time because I was an idiot impatient.
Obviously I know my shit now, but I feel ya on the looking back and wanting to slap yourself over and over again. All you can do is learn from your mistake and push forward. Trust us, we know what we're talking about. FX that the lining issue isn't permanent and that your stay here is short and sweet.
I'm glad I am not alone in dealing this kind of experience. Thanks and FX to you as well!
Me: 25 Dh: 25 Married since July, 2011
Diagnosed with PCOS 2010
TTC since December, 2011 (SA is Normal)
2012-tried natural w/Metformin 1500 mg
11/12 -Saw an OB, bloodwork revealed everything normal except for highish blood sugar levels
1/13: Clomid 50 mg - No response
2/13: Clomid 100 mg O'd BFN
3/13: Clomid 100 MG O'd BFN
4/13-6/13: Clomid 150/200 mg O'd BFN
Stopped treatment because of money issues and began to try naturally again from June-October 2013
Benched until November 2014 - Started seeing RE, discovered that lining was very thin
November 2014: Started Femera 5 mg -No response BFN >:(
December 2014: Upping Femera, injectables are the next step if I respond
Also: Changed RE, first appointment on Friday, so treatment is subject to change this month
3T December Siggy Challenge - Favorite Holiday movie scene
Welcome to 3T and I hope your stay with us is a short one. Good Luck
3T January Siggy Challenge: New Years Resolutions TTC since 10/2010 (Rhythm method since 2007)
Me (33) Sept 2012 - DX Low ovulation/progesterone, Luteal Phase Defect. HSG 5/2012: both tubes are open, cervix and lining look good; September 2014 DX Hashimoto's; November 2014: PCOS IR *** DH (37) Sept 2012 SA Normal; October 2014 Mild MFI count 42 Million, Motility 36%, Morphology 2%. Clomid 50mg,
*** 2004 Cyrosurgery, LEEP
May 2012 - HSG Clear; June 2012 - Appointment with RE July 2012 - October 2012 - Clomid 50mg W/ TI & Progesterone 3 mature follicles- BFN January 2013 IUI #1 (900,000 post wash) Clomid 50mg, TI & Progesterone 2 mature follicles - BFN February 2013 IUI #2 (1.3 Mil post wash) Clomid 50mg, TI & Progesterone 4 mature follicles - BFN March 2013 IUI #1-3 (2.5 mil post wash) Clomid 50mg, Baby Aspirin (lining thinned) TI & Progesterone - 2 mature follicles BFN April 2013 Benched due to cyst, May 2013 WTF appointment June 2013 DH SA mild MFI break for 2 months to re-test; August 2013 - DH SA 36 Mil count, 36% Motility, Morp 2% September - December 2013 - Mental sanity Break January 2014 - IUI #4 switches to natural due to scheduling conflict Femara TI & Progesterone - 1 mature follicle - BFN May 2014-June 2014 - DH Appointment w/ Urologist to check Bi-lateral Varicocele; 2nd opinion w/ another urologist - bi-lateral varicocele dx is slight no surgery July 2014 DH starts clomid 25mg daily SA 53.8 Mil count, Motility 37%, Morph 3%; September 2014 DH Repeat SA after being on clomid for 3 months 42 Mil Count, Motility 36%, Morph 2% October 2014 Me: Hashimoto's DX, DH taken off clomid;November 2014 Me: new RE PCOS IR Diagnosis December 2014: IUI #4 Follitism 75iu 7 days, TI, IUI & Progesterone, BFMFN January 2015: IUI #5 Gonal-F 75iu 7 days, TI, IUI & Progesterone, Another BFMFN onto IUI #6
Welcome. Hope your stay is short and sweet. I am going on three years without AF. Mine was due to different circumstances but I understand where you are coming from!
Married: 12/15/2012 TTC: 08/2014 Husband: 26 SA: normal Me: 23 Low AMH and damaged ovaries due to chemotherapy. No AF or O in 3 years. HSG showed a slight T shaped uterus.
High Risk OB 9/29- got the ok to get pregnant. RE Appt: 10/28/ U/S showed follicles, but also small damaged ovaries. B/W results CD0: all normal except low AMH at 1.3 Cycle 1-November (TI)- Femera 2.5mg, 2mg Estradoil, and Trigger=BFN Cycle 2-December (TI)- Femera 2.5 mg ,4mg Estradoil, and Trigger= No O Cycle 3-January (TI)- Femera 5 mg, 2mg Estradoil, and Trigger=
Welcome and GL! As someone who has PCOS, and has been through some bad Clomid experiences I can relate! I've only been on here a few days but I have to say the ladies here are insanely knowledgeable, helpful and fun.
Married DH 11/10/2012
Started TTC journey 12/1/2012
Basic Testing began 10/2013
dx PCOS 11/2013 (hormones normal but ultrasound showed polycystic ovaries)
Clomid cycle #1 11/2013 BFN
Clomid cycle #2 12/2013 BFN (caused large cyst that burst, OUCH!)
Welcome! I am so sorry for what you have gone through. It's so frustrating that doctors (GPs, and even OBs!) don't understand how to take care of a woman's body and health.
I am so glad you are in the hands of an RE now. I am sure he/she will take good care of you, get your lining back up to snuff, and keep you safe. After so many years, I also have the feeling that we will never get a BFP. But I keep "going through the motions" because inside, I know that many people do have success with treatment.
And if it helps - women with a dx of PCOS tend to have the highest levels of success with treatment compared with couples with other diagnoses.
January 3T Siggy Challenge - New Year's Resolutions
Me (29), DH (30) TTC actively 54 55+ cycles | All BFNs
Welcome! I am so sorry for what you have gone through. It's so frustrating that doctors (GPs, and even OBs!) don't understand how to take care of a woman's body and health.
I am so glad you are in the hands of an RE now. I am sure he/she will take good care of you, get your lining back up to snuff, and keep you safe. After so many years, I also have the feeling that we will never get a BFP. But I keep "going through the motions" because inside, I know that many people do have success with treatment.
And if it helps - women with a dx of PCOS tend to have the highest levels of success with treatment compared with couples with other diagnoses.
Thank you, and good luck to you as well. Yes I have heard that PCOS is easier to treat which does make me feel better!!
Me: 25 Dh: 25 Married since July, 2011
Diagnosed with PCOS 2010
TTC since December, 2011 (SA is Normal)
2012-tried natural w/Metformin 1500 mg
11/12 -Saw an OB, bloodwork revealed everything normal except for highish blood sugar levels
1/13: Clomid 50 mg - No response
2/13: Clomid 100 mg O'd BFN
3/13: Clomid 100 MG O'd BFN
4/13-6/13: Clomid 150/200 mg O'd BFN
Stopped treatment because of money issues and began to try naturally again from June-October 2013
Benched until November 2014 - Started seeing RE, discovered that lining was very thin
November 2014: Started Femera 5 mg -No response BFN >:(
December 2014: Upping Femera, injectables are the next step if I respond
Also: Changed RE, first appointment on Friday, so treatment is subject to change this month
3T December Siggy Challenge - Favorite Holiday movie scene
Hi and welcome. I too have PCOS. Hope you're stay is short and sweet
***SIGGY WARNING***
Me (26) & DH (26) Dog Momma to 2 amazing furbabies Started dating: May 6, 2005 & Married: August 4, 2012 Diagnosis: PCOS September 2013 - January 2014:Not trying but not preventing February 2014:Officially TTC (BBT, OPKs, etc) February-August 2014:Irregular Cycles, U/S showed Fibroids/Cysts, Provera required to get AF, BFNs September & October 2014: Testing Months with Reproductive Endocrinologist! DH's SA: Normal (116.4 million sperm, 97% motility, 36% morphology) - WHO criteria DH's Repeat SA:Poss. Low Morph. (138 million sperm, 73% motility, 8% morphology) - Kruger criteria HSG and SIS:Normal (tubes clear) Medicated Cycle:5mg Letrozole + Trigger Injection + TI = BFP!!
I totally agree with everyone else that OBs suck at infertility issues! When I hadn't had a period in 6 months, my OB just shrugged it off and said, no problem, we can fix that with clomid! She did have me to an US, DH do a SA, and blood work before actually prescribing the clomid, but it was unmonitored except for a P4 test at CD 21... When she saw I ovulated on 100mg, her nurse, not even the doctor, just said "okay, take this for the next 4 cycles and call us when you're pregnant!" Saw that as a huge red flag, and I literally hung up the phone and made an appointment with a RE.
I really hope you have a positive experience, and we are all here for you when you need someone to listen!
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****SIGGY WARNING****
Me: 28, PCOS
DH:29 (SA normal)
Married June 2012
TTC since Nov. 2013
Met with OBGYN to discuss lack of AF....
May 2014: Metformin 500mg
July 2014: Clomid 50mg, never O'd
Sept 2014: Clomid 100mg, O'd (yay!) CD21, BFN - Discovered OB sucks, made appt with RE
Oct/Nov 2014: 1st appt with RE, Femera 7.5mg + Trigger + TI = BFN
Welcome. Is it easy to build your lining? What about acupuncture or other alternative nourishing treatments?
TTC#1 since Aug 2013, I'm 37, DH 41.
Maya Arvigo Abdominal massage (daily self care), plus TTC meditations.
I'm very sensitive to diet (gluten, avoid processed foods) and environment. Have a history of inflammation and tendinitis before going off gluten in 2009.
July 2014 - RE Visit #1: Eggs look good, Endometrioma on R ovary, HSG showed blocked R tube close to ovary. DH SA normal
DX: Endometriosis probably the IF cause and gunking up tubes. Since egg reserve is high, RE says I can wait a couple months and then get laproscopic surgery to remove endo & clear tube. If that doesn't help then move to IVF.
Dec 2014 - Saw new RE - does not recommend surgery on tube as it isn't likely to help. Doubts I have endometriosis. My endometrioma shrunk to neglible size (yay!)
Re: Kind-of Newbie Introduction
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3T Sig Challenge: New Year's Resolutions
"Nothing in life is to be feared, it is only to be understood. Now is the time to understand more, so that we may fear less."
March 2014 - HSG left tube blocked, right tube partially blocked bilaterial partial obstruction; onward to the RE in April
May 1, 2014 - Lap surgery and chromopertubation; Dr removed a bit of endo, but everything looks healthy & tubes are clear!
May 2014- First medicated cycle, 2.5mg femara+TI; BFN
June 2014- 2.5mg femara + hCG + IUI on 6/18= BFP on 6/28!; C/P on 7/3
July 2014- 2.5mg femara + IUI #2 on 7/18. Starting progesterone 7/23, bfn
August 2014- 2.5mg femara + hCG + IUI # 3 on 8/15. BFN
Tx break
IVF #1 -
12/1 - TOT & SIS- RE found a polyp
12/15 - Hysterscopic surgery to remove the polyp; additional polyps found and removed
12/29- Good baseline u/s, 12 antral follies
12/30- Started stimming
1/10 - ER: 17 retrieved, 14 fertilized!
My Ovulation Chart - No data, just meds
PCOS | Anovulatory | Metformin + Letrozole
TTC since 10/2010 (Rhythm method since 2007)
September 2014 DX Hashimoto's; November 2014: PCOS IR
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DH (37) Sept 2012 SA Normal; October 2014 Mild MFI count 42 Million, Motility 36%, Morphology 2%. Clomid 50mg,
2004 Cyrosurgery, LEEP
July 2012 - October 2012 - Clomid 50mg W/ TI & Progesterone 3 mature follicles- BFN
January 2013 IUI #1 (900,000 post wash) Clomid 50mg, TI & Progesterone 2 mature follicles - BFN
February 2013 IUI #2 (1.3 Mil post wash) Clomid 50mg, TI & Progesterone 4 mature follicles - BFN
March 2013 IUI #1-3 (2.5 mil post wash) Clomid 50mg, Baby Aspirin (lining thinned) TI & Progesterone - 2 mature follicles BFN
April 2013 Benched due to cyst, May 2013 WTF appointment
June 2013 DH SA mild MFI break for 2 months to re-test; August 2013 - DH SA 36 Mil count, 36% Motility, Morp 2%
September - December 2013 - Mental sanity Break
January 2014 - IUI #4 switches to natural due to scheduling conflict Femara TI & Progesterone - 1 mature follicle - BFN
May 2014-June 2014 - DH Appointment w/ Urologist to check Bi-lateral Varicocele; 2nd opinion w/ another urologist - bi-lateral varicocele dx is slight no surgery
July 2014 DH starts clomid 25mg daily SA 53.8 Mil count, Motility 37%, Morph 3%;
September 2014 DH Repeat SA after being on clomid for 3 months 42 Mil Count, Motility 36%, Morph 2%
October 2014 Me: Hashimoto's DX, DH taken off clomid;November 2014 Me: new RE PCOS IR Diagnosis
December 2014: IUI #4 Follitism 75iu 7 days, TI, IUI & Progesterone, BFMFN
January 2015: IUI #5 Gonal-F 75iu 7 days, TI, IUI & Progesterone, Another BFMFN onto IUI #6
***SIGGY WARNING***
Our Story
Me- 35, mild hypothyroidism
DH- 29, low count due to a chromosomal abnormality, only option is IVF/ICSI with PGD.
Married 5/13
TTC since 8/13
IVF/ICSI #1 ER 9/14 - 14R, 6M, 6F, 5 blasts off to PGD- 1 normal female, 2 balanced males
FET 12/8 of 2 frosties - 1 male/1 female - stick babies stick!
Beta #1 10dp5dt 444! Beta #2 14dp5dt 2,340! U/S 1/5-- TWINS!!! EDD 8/26/15
"You'll never see the rainbow if you can't survive the storm"
Husband: 26 SA: normal
Me: 23 Low AMH and damaged ovaries due to chemotherapy.
No AF or O in 3 years. HSG showed a slight T shaped uterus.
High Risk OB 9/29- got the ok to get pregnant.
RE Appt: 10/28/ U/S showed follicles, but also small damaged ovaries.
B/W results CD0: all normal except low AMH at 1.3
Cycle 1-November (TI)- Femera 2.5mg, 2mg Estradoil, and Trigger=BFN
Cycle 2-December (TI)- Femera 2.5 mg ,4mg Estradoil, and Trigger= No O
Cycle 3-January (TI)- Femera 5 mg, 2mg Estradoil, and Trigger=
***SIGGY WARNING***
Me (26) & DH (26)
Dog Momma to 2 amazing furbabies
Started dating: May 6, 2005 & Married: August 4, 2012
Diagnosis: PCOS
September 2013 - January 2014: Not trying but not preventing
February 2014: Officially TTC (BBT, OPKs, etc)
February-August 2014: Irregular Cycles, U/S showed Fibroids/Cysts, Provera required to get AF, BFNs
September & October 2014: Testing Months with Reproductive Endocrinologist!
DH's SA: Normal (116.4 million sperm, 97% motility, 36% morphology) - WHO criteria
DH's Repeat SA: Poss. Low Morph. (138 million sperm, 73% motility, 8% morphology) - Kruger criteria
HSG and SIS: Normal (tubes clear)
Medicated Cycle: 5mg Letrozole + Trigger Injection + TI = BFP!!
ESTIMATED DUE DATE: AUGUST 13, 2015
Beta #1: 12/8 - 1,040 Beta #2: 12/10 - 2,902 Beta #3: 12/16 - 19,321
Ultrasound #1: 12/12 (5 weeks 1 day) - Gestational sac and yolk sac present
Ultrasound #2: 12/18 (6 weeks 0 days) - Measuring good, heart rate 99
Ultrasound #3: 12/26 (7 weeks 1 day) - Measuring good, heart rate 150
TTC since May 2013
Me: 31, blocked tube
DH: 35, azoospermia
IUI #1 (50 mg Clomid, Ovidrel) on 9/7/2014: BFN
IUI #2 (100 mg Clomid, Ovidrel) on 10/3/2014: BFN
IUI #3 (100 mg Clomid, Ovidrel, Estradiol) on 11/1/2014: BFN
First RE appt. on 11/11/2014
November 2014: Benched due to cyst
IUI #4 (5 mg Letrozole, Follistim, Ovidrel, Crinone) on 12/26/2014: BFP!!!
Beta 1 (1/9/2015): 292 Beta 2 (1/12/2015): 843